6/10/10 - 7/26/10: (Update from Eric)
I know, I know, I know……….
It’s been six weeks since the last update and I apologize for the MAJOR delay in getting out some news. The truth is we have actually been living a somewhat normal life for the past couple of months, and it has been action packed. Here’s the outline of our adventures over the past few weeks:
· A fabulous trip to Lake Travis with the Beards & Stonekings
· Piper went to Xtreme Volleyball Camp
· A GFR test to establish kidney function for the next round of chemo.
· A whirlwind of DFW people in Houston for an Astros / Rangers game.
· A 7 day Eastern Caribbean cruise
· A 4 day Methotrexate treatment hospital stay
· Loss of a dear loved one and oldest living Boydstun male in history
· Six Steps to Kate Cartwright
· No surprises, fevers or unanticipated medical issues – WOOHOO!!!
· Lost Pines
· Prep for Camp
June and July were action packed! After the outline, hopefully you understand that I have been too tired to write updates at night. Just kidding. No sympathy. No excuses.
Peri-Ann believes that part of the reason we have had such a great run is that we haven’t updated during this winning streak. Maybe she’s right. She hasn’t touched the keyboard for an update in six months and Presley has steadily improved over that period. However, if that logic held water, I would have lost 30 pounds and be the pillar of health because she hasn’t touched the stove in that time frame either. So here’s a rundown of the major events and cool stories.
AUSTIN:
After Presley’s discharge in June, we made a trek to the “California” of Texas. We were invited by our friends David & Jane to spend the weekend cooking out, dancing, and staying cool on Lake Travis. During our stay we held competitions for the kids on several levels. 7-8 kids, ages 4-16, competing in events like who could ride the “Nitro” the longest, best minnow catcher, and best facial expression while getting dumped in the lake (Presley won by the way). It got very competitive, feelings were hurt at times, but all in all sportsmanship prevailed.
We learned that watermelon will fly a long way from a balloon launcher and you should lead a boat by about six feet. We almost took out poor little sleeping Emma with a melon shot. Six inches to the left and a four year old would be scarred for life by watermelon.
We had nightly sunset cruises and everyone showed off their best dance moves. David showed off some moves that could only be learned in Motown, I gave a clinic on the “lawnmower” and “shopping cart”, and Piper, well, let’s just say Piper has an opportunity to earn some quick cash in Vegas if needed.
It was a weekend full of laughter, a few tears (there were six girls for goodness sake), a lot of wine & BLL and genuine joy. A huge thank you to David & Jane for their hospitality and Mike & Beth for involving us and bringing us all together.
PIPER – VB CAMP:
Up until diagnosis, Presley was playing volleyball at Xtreme and loving every minute of it. Piper has been in Cobra’s (6-8) off & on during the past year and we have learned that we have a monster on our hands. She is a VERY competitive seven year old so we put her in the summer skills camp with Ray. She did a great job and there was a lot of 1-on-1 instruction. Thank goodness there wasn’t a tournament, because we have a poor sport and a gym rat on our hands.
I took off on the last day of camp and watched her play with the other 3 girls in camp that day. During drills, she acted like a typical 7 year old – short attention span, goofing off, no intensity. The minute they started anything competitive, she turned into a completely different creature. If the drill had a competitive element to it, she flipped the switch and wanted to win EVERY point. Oh boy!! Look out for the Pip freight train!!!
GFR Test:
Before each methotrexate treatment, Presley gets a GFR test to determine kidney function and her ability to withstand treatment. Prior to her last treatment, her score was 65 which is borderline for undergoing MTX. It showed as we were delayed in clearing an extra day and she had severe mouth sores.
The GFR test is not any more invasive than any other test or treatment. It is just an all day process and, nothing ever goes smoothly with an all day test at TCH. Par for the course, things didn’t run smoothly but the test results were great – 88 – great kidney function. This will make more sense later on. Doctor Redell was pleased with results and treatment went on as scheduled.
WHIRLWIND WEEKEND:
After the GFR, Uncle Greg, Debbie, Meredith and Emily traveled down from Fort Worth to spend the weekend with us. The big event of the weekend was the annual Astros / Rangers series and we attended the Saturday game. The Rangers actually have a legitimate contender this year, so it was nice to watch the butt whippin’ and be on the winning end. We had a contingent of eight at the game including Astros fans, Debbie & Preston Roobaert. Rumor has it we are not gracious winners (Piper’s genetics) but a good time was had by all. A special thank you to Deb for getting us home without directions or Mapquest and still having a sense of humor.
Our little niece Emily also made the trip with Aunt Meredith. Everyone was worried she would miss mommy & daddy and not have a good time. Just like all who visit the Hotel California and Casa de Boydstun, you can check in any time you like, but you can never leave. On Sunday, Emily threw a fit when she found out she was leaving. Eventually, Meredith called Brady & Melanie and asked permission to keep her here another day and come home on Monday. I’ll never forget her jumping in the pool and screaming “Happy Father’s Day” to her dad and mom over the phone, and anyone else that came within a two mile radius of the pool. Good times, good times.
CRUISING:
The event of the summer was a 7 Day cruise to the Eastern Caribbean. Mike & Beth Beard invited us a couple of months before and, to be honest, I didn’t think it would happen. First, anything we have planned over the past 15 months has not only not materialized, but usually gone down in flames. Second, spending seven days at sea and eastern Caribbean countries does not present an overwhelming confidence in health care for a pediatric cancer patient. Third, when things are going well, you’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
So, we first approached Dr. Redell about the cruise during an office visit. I told her I wanted to talk to her about something after she examined Presley. She was immediately uncomfortable and got nervous. That’s probably because every other time I have said those words, there were difficult conversations to follow. After Presley & Peri-Ann left the room, I laid our request to go on the cruise. I think she was relieved that was the only tough conversation, so she agreed to look into it and discuss with the rest of the leukemia team. I just had to provide some information about the available care on board and contingency plans, in case she spiked a fever or something went wrong.
It all worked out and Dr. Redell consented to let us go on the cruise. So, we spent a month crossing our fingers and praying for no fever, and finally made the trip to Miami to board the ship. We then spent the next seven days, enjoying the weather, floating city and the company of the Beard and Thomas family.
Highlights: We sailed on Royal Caribbean and although it was our first cruise, RC is first rate all the way. If you’ve seen commercials on TV, they are very family oriented and have several features on the ship, no other cruise line has available.
- The Flow Rider – RC has a ride on the ship that simulates boogie boarding or surfing. It’s absolutely amazing the wave power generated on top of a 12 story ship. Of course, Mike was the first to brave the FR, and quickly mastered boogie boarding and surfing. So, he reserved a private session for our group and everyone got some board time, including Presley. She did well but wiped out pretty hard and the force threw her 65 pounds around roughly. She toughed it out and we all made a trip up the ramp at the end – arm in arm.
- The Rock Climbing Wall -- The ship also had a 75 foot rock wall for climbing. Presley wanted to do it and struggled at her first attempt. Just like every other challenge in the past 15 months, she met it with determination, grit, and enthusiasm. Her second attempt was successful and as she rang the bell at the top of the wall, we were flooded with emotion. It was like she won the SuperBowl , World Series, and Stanley Cup in the same moment. Seven months ago, she weighed fifty pounds, was in ICU and the future as dark as Lindsey Lohan’s. That bell represented strength, will, perseverance and hope. It was the sweetest sound on earth or at sea. She then replicated the feat and rang the bell about 10 more times during the cruise.
- Trivia -- One of the cool things about the cruise was the constant activities to participate. For our crew, the trivia at the Schooner Bar was our passion. We planned our days around it and had high expectations of winning each round. Unfortunately, we were always bridesmaids and never a bride. We were trumped in Michael Jackson trivia, cheated by an insider on Movie themes and missed only one answer during 80’s music trivia. Damn that Belinda Carlisle.
- Zip Line Adventure -- Prior to sailing, we researched excursions and discussed what everyone wanted to do. Presley’s desire was to go to a tree farm on St. Maarten and go zip lining. Ok. Sounds great. Let’s do it. Only one thing, Beth hates heights. Didn’t matter, if Presley was going, Beth was going to swallow her fear and go. So, we disembarked, boarded a bus and headed to the hills of St. Maarten. Once we got to the tree farm, we got in our harnesses and listened to all of the safety instructions. We all thought that we would be gliding easily through the trees , but in reality it turned into a feat of upper body strength and 9 gallons of sweat. Presley & Beth both performed incredibly well and we had a great time even though we got rained on, sweat through our clothes and were under constant attack from falling mangos.
- Young Love -- My favorite story of the cruise revolves around a 13 year old girl and an anonymous teenage boy. During the cruise, we had dinner at the same table, with the same waiter (Dante rocks), and always at the same time – just like everyone else. Usually during dinner, the girls would have to get up and go to the bathroom at least once during the meal. Alex on the other hand, had to go much more frequently. No one really noticed until Ashley spilled the beans that Alex was swooning over a boy at a table en route to the bathroom. Therefore, she was making about 3-4 trips during dinner. Being my devious self, I set Presley and Ashley on a mission for the last dinner. During the cruise, they are constantly taking pictures of families, groups at dinner tables, etc. They found the boy’s picture and I autographed it – “Alex, I noticed you every time too. Love Josh”. Then we placed it in her chair at dinner. The look on her face when she saw the photo was awesome – shock, hope, disbelief, followed by laughter. She knew she had been had, but wasn’t sure by whom. The best part was she couldn’t quick looking at the picture. All through dinner, she kept peeking at the pic and then looking to see whom was to blame. Alex, thanks for your sense of humor and thanks for making the trip.
METHOTREXATE TREATMENT:
Upon returning from the cruise, we checked in for MTX treatment on Tuesday, July 6th. What was expected to be a 4-5 day stay like normal, Presley broke all records and got out on Friday. Her strength, attitude, current health, and GFR score helped her get through what is normally a rough treatment. She only got a couple of mouth sores and her counts never got extremely low. She needed a whole blood transfusion before she left, but other than that, she did awesome.
UNCLE BOB:
Unfortunately, during Presley’s MTX stay, we got the call that Uncle Bob passed away. Uncle Bob was actually my dad’s first cousin but my brother & I were closer to him than any other relative. We spent countless days at his farm in Colorado, hunting and working cattle. Family and friends always gathered at his house to play music and have “jam sessions”. He’s the reason I have the passion to play guitar and have such an appreciation for country music today. I can still hear him sing “Riding down a West Texas highway…..Abilene, Abilene, prettiest town that I’ve ever seen…….” It will stay forever in my mind.
Uncle Bob was also a record setter for the entire Boydstun family. He lived to be the incredible age of 81. Although it doesn’t seem that old in today’s world, 81 is almost 20 years older than any other Boydstun male in the last 100 years. History does not bode well or look kindly on the Boydstun male. My father died at 51, my grandfather @ 63, great uncles & cousins perished in their 40’s & 50’s, but Bob was the rock of the family. Although he was weak and in failing health the past couple of years, he is revered for his longetivity among the whole family.
So, I traveled to Campo, CO (google that) for the service on Friday. I hadn’t been around the family in a couple of years. In fact, the last time I saw him or my Aunt Joan was two summers ago when we vacationed in Colorado. I’m so thankful now we were able to make that trip and see everyone and allow him to see Presley & Piper. As I walked in the church, I saw Aunt Joan and she gave me a huge hug and then broke my heart. She told me that when Presley was diagnosed, Uncle Bob told her that “he wished God would take him, so Presley could live”. No need for that Uncle Bob – she’s going to live and we will all miss you dearly.
The service was perfect. Short, two songs with acoustic guitars and friends of the family and a simple message – celebrate life. I also saw people I haven’t seen in 20+ years. My 5th & 6th grade teacher – Mr. & Mrs. Weingarner, my childhood piano teacher, parents of childhood friends and distant family.
However, the most impactful people I saw beyond family were Glenn & Rhonda Johnson. They grew up in Campo with my cousin Mike and I grew up with Glenn’s younger brother Miles. The reason they were so impactful was they lost a child to a similar disease when she was around the same age as Presley. I was a young boy and had no scope of their situation other than their daughter was sick.
Glenn & I talked and he told me they have been keeping up with Presley through the website and they were praying for us. He asked me how things were going and I was happy to report very well. He said he understood and I agreed that he should since they battled the same battle. Glenn got a little choked up and a was at a loss for words. It’s been over 20 years, yet the pain & struggle is just below the surface for Glenn & Rhonda. At times, I think I am being over emotional as things choke me up about Presley. I still have trouble talking about those first few days without being overcome with emotion. Yet, I see Glenn and understand that it never heals and those feelings are always there to draw upon. It’s people like Glenn that I draw strength and wisdom from and hope to pass on to all who battle after our victory.
SIX STEPS TO KATE CARTWRIGHT:
During our excursion to Lake Travis, I got a strange FaceBook message from a young lady named Kate Cartwright. Unsolicited, she sent a note saying she had heard about Presley from Xtreme Volleyball while coaching some camps during spring break. She wanted to be a part of Team Presley and offered help in any we she could. Although we have had a tremendous outpouring of love, help, and support from strangers, friends and family during Presley’s battle, I still remain skeptical at unsolicited involvement. However, I sent her a reply telling her that Presley was doing fine, we were in good shape thanks to all of our Team Presley support but would send her some bracelets so she could show the love.
A couple of weeks later, she sent another note asking about Presley’s status (probably because I have too lazy to update the website) and I told her about Presley’s upcoming MTX treatment and stay at TCH. She responded wanting to know if Pres could have visitors and when would be a good time to visit – yeah right. So I told her when to visit – and she did. She came to TCH and spent an entire afternoon with Pres and they got along famously.
During this time, Kate told PA & Presley her story. She played club & varsity volleyball in the Houston area, and received a scholarship offer to play at UT in the fall. Then fate turned ugly. During a match, she went up to strike and tore every muscle in her shoulder requiring complete surgical reconstruction. She lost her scholarship but finally has range of motion in her shoulder.
After visiting in the hospital, she called and asked to take Presley to the movie. They met Peri-Ann & I for dinner after the movie so I finally got a chance to meet her face to face. What a great kid! The funny thing is she is friends with my former boss’ (Stu Crum) son – Clayton. It’s amazing how small the world has become over the past 40 years. OK – 41 years. Thanks Kate, for joining Team Presley and good luck in your very near future.
LOST PINES:
This past week, I had a business meeting outside of Austin at the Hyatt Lost Pines Resort. It was really my first big meeting in my new job, with a new boss and new team. My current boss, Steve Reindl, encouraged everyone to bring their family to the meeting and I took full advantage. It was a chance to introduce my family to my boss, his family and all other team members. It was a great experience.
We were able to spend some quality time as a family and still be productive in a business environment. It was also an opportunity to demonstrate what a great company Shell is to work for and how our leadership is caring and concerned about each and every employee. We are so blessed to be in Houston and have access to the greatest medical care in the world and work for Shell.
We all got to hang out in the evenings and have some fun and Presley & I took a raft trip down the Texas Colorado River. It was a great escape for the afternoon and an experience I will never forget.
PREP FOR CAMP:
This week, Presley goes to TCH to check her counts before she & Piper head off to Camp Periwinkle. Camp Periwinkle is a camp for cancer patients and siblings that involves outdoor activities and social activities at night for kids 7-18 years old. The kids are so excited and we are excited to have them go.
I promise I will give a full update after they return.
Thanks to all of Team Presley for your prayers, thoughts, emails, texts, fb, and calls. Don’t blame Alicia for the updates, she was wondering where they were as well. I truly believe that Presley’s success is due to your love, support, prayer and concern. We are eternally grateful and hope to pay back tenfold somehow.
6/3/10 - 6/9/10: (Update from Eric) Another round down……
I feel like a Jerry Reed song. Another round down, kickin A.L.L. & truckin…. Well, you get it. After our Memorial Jamboree, Presley went into the hospital on Friday and was discharged yesterday evening. It was a looooooooooong five days. After getting discharged around 7:00 last night, PA & Pres came down town and we went to dinner before going home. This stay wasn’t extended or any longer than our previous E&C stays, but it sure felt like it. Part of it was we were in over the weekend when we are usually in during the week. I wanted it to be Thursday or Friday last night and we hadn’t even made mid-week yet.
The worst part was it was an emotionally draining week. We lost two warriors on the 9th floor this week and had 5 new diagnoses. We didn’t know the lost warriors but seeing the “pink heart” takes it’s toll. It always brings back the reality of our situation and makes us face the other end of the spectrum. That’s not something you ever want crawling through your psyche – ever.
With the new diagnoses, it seems we have become the grizzled veterans of the floor. HIPA prevents health care professionals from sharing any information. However, there are ways they can point families in a direction to seek council and support. We were lucky to have Sam McElroy to come down and bring us a binder and be our council in the beginning. Then the Lieberman’s came into our life and gave us the low down on clinic and other TCH help. And now it is our turn.
Friday night, I was walking to the family room when a man came out of a room with a pitcher and asked the nurse where he could get ice & water. I introduced myself and took him to the family room and gave him a quick tour of the floor. His daughter had been diagnosed that day. It was like I was looking in a mirror from a year ago. I saw confusion, fear, and despair in those eyes. My heart went out to him.
The next day, I went and got the same supplies that Sam brought us that first weekend. Presley & I went to the room and introduced ourselves again and gave them the supplies. We talked for quite a while and tried to give them council on what to expect in the next few days. The questions they had were essentially the same as we had a year ago. At that early stage, you don’t know what you’re dealing with and you ask about the things you understand. We answered questions about pain management, the hospital and staff and eventually about “hair”. We gave them our phone numbers and seriously hope they use them.
The next day, Presley & PA were decorating her door and a family walked by and the mom said “Oh, you’re Presley”. Another new diagnosis and we talked with her and her husband for about an hour. She told us she asked if there were any families they could speak to about their situation. They were told to look for Presley and her family. A different diagnosis, but we also put them in touch with a family in a similar situation.
Presley, PA & I take pride in being the “old warriors” families seek out for council. First, it means we are still in the fight and winning, and (2) that the people at TCH think enough of our family, knowledge and fighting spirit to nudge people our way. I never want to cross a line and make people feel like I am telling them how to manage their situation, but I will be there for them anytime day or night.
Piper has been consistently been getting mail and is one happy camper. Thank you one & all for the cards, notes and letters. She loves it and we love you all for sending. She had a long week as well. She stayed with 3 different families over six days. She slept in more strange beds this week than Tiger Woods. Thank you Jeannie & Todd, Renee, Jim & Deana for taking her into your homes and helping with our child. We are eternally grateful.
Next up for Presley is a clinic visit on Wednesday to check counts and get a GFR (kidney function) test. They want to check her kidneys prior to our next hospital stay in July for methotrexate.
Again, thanks to all of Team Presley for the calls, cards, letters, notes, texts, thoughts & prayers. Please include new warriors on the battlefield - Alli & Samuel - in your prayers. They have a long, difficult war in front of them.
Forever in your debt.
5/14/10 - 6/2/10: (Update from Eric) No news is GREAT news in our world……..
I know it’s been three weeks since our last update, but there is a valid reason. It’s been the most normal three weeks of our life since May 19th, 2009. Yep, it’s been over one year since Presley was diagnosed and at times it feels like yesterday but the emotional and psychological toll, have felt like 10 years at times.
Peri and I talked about making a big deal about the first anniversary, but eventually it just didn’t seem right. The whole family was obviously very aware of the date and we discussed many different scenarios to commemorate it – PA thought about T-shirts, I thought about a Stephen King 700 page reflection update, and Piper thought about what she was going to wear. Finally, Presley just decided to have dinner at our favorite place – 3B’s – and act like a normal family. Great Choice.
Since being discharged and celebrating Mother’s day, Pres has had two clinic visits and guess what – no transfusions needed, great counts and the docs & nurses are amazed at the change in her. They finally have seen the daughter we knew prior to May 19th. She has been upbeat, energetic, and acting like a normal kid.
As school has wound down, she has finished her home bound lessons with Ms. Yoakum, made the Principal’s Honor Roll for the year and won the “Leader of the Pack” award at Tom Cox Intermediate. The “Leader of the Pack” is an award voted each 9 weeks by the other students in the class – the highest honor for a 6th grader among their peers. She even got to go to school for yearbook signing day. The wonderful notes she received from teachers and students alike put my 6th grade “Roses grow in the north, violets in the south….”quotes to shame.
Even Memorial weekend felt normal. We were able to travel to Granbury to see Papa & Bicki, Fort Worth to see friends and hang on the lake and spend some time in Sundance Square. We saw so many friends and we are grateful they got to see the “old Presley”.
A couple of cool stories to share over the past couple of weeks:
Xtreme Volleyball – The players and people at our gym continue to astound us with their love and support of Presley. Presley’s team qualified for the Junior Olympics at their final tournament of the year. They have had Presley on the roster for the entire year so Presley has felt like a part of the team and actually received a qualifier medal.
Also, she was able to go to the Xtreme banquet and their team theme was “What are you playing for?”. They were playing for “Pride, Purple, Passion & Presley”. They introduced the team and Presley was among them. The entire gym gave her a standing ovation. It put her on cloud nine. We can never thank them enough for everything they have done for her and our family.
The second story also revolves around sports. The word “coach” has become a term of respect in the business world over the past few years. In fact at Shell, sales “coaching” has become an everyday term within our business and is taken very seriously. There are “life coaches” and “birth coaches” but they obviously all start with sports and sports coaches.
With PA’s family and our friends, coaches and sports have been a huge part of our lives. If you’ve ever spent much time around the coaching world, you realize that “respect, honor & loyalty” are the major parts of their creed. They work hard, expect maximum effort from everyone, but give more than they expect. So, while we were in Granbury this past weekend, I played in the Granbury coaches end of year golf tournament. It was awe inspiring to show up to the tourney and see blue bracelets on every wrist. Even though Uncle Greg coaches for rival Stephenville, friendship & loyalty trump all competitiveness. Jay, Scotty, Steve, Dwight and Granbury staff - We love, respect and cherish your support for Team Presley.
Finally, a HUGE THANK YOU to TEAM PRESLEY. My last update centered around Piper and my request for a little attention for her. She has received numerous cards and letters and we are so thankful. It’s really been fun to watch her walk to the mailbox on a daily basis. When we returned from Fort Worth on Memorial Day, she left a string of mail for 40 yards just trying to get to the house and open her mail. She has received notes from people all over the country and from people we have never met – thank you. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
Tonight, she received a letter from a friend of Peri-Ann’s mom. Coleen Ford was a friend of Ann Martin Winder’s before she married Papa. In fact, Ann & Coleen lived in Hawaii for a while after graduating high school – which is where Ann got Peri’s name. PA has never met her yet she found the time to send a note to a 7 year old girl that I begged for attention and mail. She had never sent a note to us or Presley prior to my last update. No matter what you see or hear on the news – there are great people in this world.
Presley goes back in the hospital Friday for 5 days of treatment. She will receive an LP, a dose of vincristine and then get five doses of etoposide and cytoxin over five 24 hour periods. She handles this treatment fairly well although it causes her counts to crash about 5 – 7 days after leaving the hospital. We hope to be out Tuesday with no complications. We will keep you updated during the treatment.
Thanks again for the (cards & letters for Piper) calls, emails, questions, fb, texts, thoughts and prayers. They mean so much to all of us. I hope to repay you all tenfold someday.
Faith, Love & Hope Conquer.
5/7/10 - 5/13/10 (Update from Eric) It feels good to give back, until the next morning………
Presley hit the number when they took 4:00 am labs on Friday. She was literally 0.10 and we were a little nervous they wouldn’t discharge her. We have been doing this dance for almost a year and it pays to have someone know the history as well as we do. Due to the rotations of attendings and residents, they don’t know our entire history and more often than not, follow the book on matters. Due to Presley’s first reaction and difficulty clearing the MTX, the docs won’t discharge her until she gets below 0.10. Suzanne “The Great” did rounds that morning and said to cut her loose. Rock On!!!
So, Presley & Peri-Ann made it home early afternoon and Presley didn’t stick around. She headed over to Nicole’s to spend the night. Parents and the house are just too confining I guess.
On Saturday, the Team Presley gave back in a way Team Presley knows how to give back. Pub Crawl!!!! Team Presley participated in the Houston “Crawl for Cancer”. Crawl for Cancer funds cancer research for the Houston Medical District. Approximately 100 CfC Teams converged on Mid-Town Saturday afternoon and made a crawl through five designated pubs. Team Presley had a huge presence – 32 team members (the average team had 10-12). Unfortunately, we were probably the oldest team, but that did not hold back our spirit. We had a great time and thank everyone that participated - walk, crawl, drink, fall, laugh and cry with us on Saturday. It truly was a testament to the spirit of Team Presley.
On Sunday, we celebrated the strongest mother I have ever known. We met the Beard’s at Dosey Doe for Brunch and pieced the crawl back together. It was a great brunch with great friends that we truly do not get to spend enough quality time. After that, how else would you celebrate Mothers – by betting on Mares, of course. We went to Sam Houston Race Park and put money down on every nag that can’t run. Presley was the only person to cash a ticket during the afternoon but it sure was fun to be outside and watch the horses run.
We spent a wonderful Sunday together as a family and celebrated all Mothers but especially Peri-Ann. Her life has changed dramatically since last year but she takes it in stride, fights for her family and is a very understanding wife. If only she would learn to cook – well, it’s not like I look like I’m missing any meals.
Presley had an appointment with Dr. Redell on Tuesday and I joined them at TCH for the appointment. Of course, the appointment was @ 9:40, I got there @ 10:00 and Presley finally had labs drawn @ 11:00 and I had to text Dr. Redell to see us @ 12:00. The clinic is one crazy, chaotic, seemingly unorganized place. I don’t know how PA & Presley handle the chaos as often as they do.
Normally, I don’t show up for office visits but I had some questions for Dr. Redell. She knew I was coming and she was very nervous during Presley’s exam. It was like she was waiting for me to pounce on her at some point. Finally, she asked “OK, what else? What else can I do for you?”. I told her I would talk to her in private and when Presley and PA left, I asked my questions. She couldn’t believe it was so benign. I guess maybe I am a little intense around the hospital and clinic. Oh well, if it keeps them on their toes, then I don’t care.
Presley is doing well but has been in pain due to the mouth sores from the MTX. She hasn’t had them this bad in a while but her level got a little higher than the past few treatments. She has to eat slowly and we have been giving her pain meds, magic mouthwash and rinse to keep away any chance of infection.
Since all is relatively well with Presley, I want the rest of this update to be about Piper. For the past year, she has rolled with punches, asked very few questions, and been a huge supporter and great little sister. Piper is a seven year old Tazmanian Devil. From the moment she wakes up, PA & I try to keep up with her thought process. She generally is in a good mood but can go from laugh to cry and back in a heartbeat - I know seven year old, but read on.
In the past couple of weeks, she has lost three baby teeth (pulled all by herself) and picked the winning horse in the Kentucky Derby. Needless to say, she has quite a little bounty stashed up in her room. So this morning, PA asked her how she was going to spend her money. She told us “I’m probably going to buy some furniture. Maybe a new couch or a new bed.” What the heck? So, on our way to dinner tonight, we probed her about her furniture purchase. According to Piper, she is saving up for a house when she gets married and needs furniture to fill the house.
She’s not my kid. I can’t plan dinner for tomorrow night and she is going to buy a house and furniture. What a kid!!! The reason I tell you this story is to tell you another story and ask for help.
The other day, she went to the mailbox and got the mail. She brought it back to the kitchen table and sorted it – Mommy, Daddy & Presley. She didn’t have one piece of mail and started crying. She knows her sister is sick and supports her unconditionally yet she’s only seven and wants a little attention as well. Tonight, we went to dinner at Kobe Japanese Steak House – the kid’s favorite. There was another family seated with us with kids around 6 or 7 years old. The kids were staring at Presley and Piper told them firmly “She has Cancer”. She was being protective and was tired of the kids looking at her sister and not understanding. We are blessed with an awesome little sister.
That said, here’s my plea to Team Presley – Make the month of June about Piper. Send her a card or letter. (ONLY A CARD OR LETTER). Say a prayer for her as well. Her life has been permanently altered and she will be a better person because of it, but she needs love and attention also. I feel guilty asking more of Team Presley, but she is worthy of your love and affection.
I say this over & over and I never want to trivialize it, but THANK YOU!!!. Thanks for every thought, prayer, text, call, and email.
Forever in your debt.
5/4/10 - 5/6/10 (Update from Eric) It’s a thin line between winning and losing…….
It’s Thursday and we’re here for one more night. They drew labs at 4:00 this afternoon and it came back 0.13 – close but no cigar. Presley was disappointed to say the least but handled it well. So, after we ate dinner with PA, I finally convinced her to watch SeaBisuit with me. She had been refusing to watch because she didn’t like movies set in the past. Excuse me, but isn’t every movie except for Science Fiction set in the past. She struggled through the first part but truly enjoyed it once they finally got to SeaBiscuit and the racing.
One funny moment – she was reading the DVD cover while I was getting everything ready and she commented “I didn’t know Toby McGuire was in this movie!”. I told her “yes he is, he plays SeaBiscuit, the horse”. The look on her face was priceless and when the background of the DVD menu came up with Toby’s face on it, she figured out I was messing with her and started hitting me. It was hilarious up until she started hitting me.
Unfortunately, that was the only light moment of the day for everyone on the 9th floor.
Today we lost another warrior in this battle – Our Little Man “Trey”. He was just over one year old.
A few months ago, I wrote about “Trey” in an update. He is the little boy that has been a patient on this floor for quite some time and has been battling cancer basically on his own. His relatives essentially “drop him off” for his treatments and made only occasional visits while he was in the hospital. The nurses, PCA’s and other patients and families basically adopted him and took care of him while he was in. Presley & Peri-Ann adored him. He & I would do a little male bonding when I was up here at night with Pres. In fact, a nurse got in trouble one time because Trey & I hung out most of the evening together.
There were several nights we were in the room next to him and he would cry with no one to comfort him or help him go back to sleep. Yet, he was a fighter. Several times they had to take him down to ICU fearing the worst and he would fight his way back home to the 9th floor. He was in ICU when we arrived on Sunday and even yesterday some of the girls on the floor were talking about making t-shirts for him to raise money to get him a walker that fit. Unfortunately, his body was weaker than his spirit this time.
Peri-Ann sent me a text this morning saying they didn’t expect him to make it through the day. My heart ached and I can’t say I was very productive the rest of the day. The whole 9th floor was a total wreck all day long and around 4:00, Trey went home to be with his maker. The average length of time a nurse spends on this floor is less than three years. I understand why now. Losing Trey was even harder because the people on this floor essentially raised him. They bought him clothes and toys and took care of his needs. The people on this floor were his family.
Presley sent me a text as I was on the train heading to TCH after work to see if I had heard about Trey. I told her I had and that I was sad and also asked her how she was. She said she would miss him and she was sad. I couldn’t help but wonder what was going through her mind. At times, I wonder if she grasps the seriousness of her situation and understands the thin line – then I hope she doesn’t. I pray that her innocence never gets darkened with adult knowledge and fear. I also resolve not to let my own adult knowledge and fear infringe on that innocence.
After hearing about Trey this morning, the thing that has been running through my mind is this:
· Where would Presley be without Team Presley?
· Would she have had the fight and spirit to battle back from her personal lows without Team Presley?
· If Trey had a support system of love, kindness, generosity & spirit the strength of Team Presley, would he still be here? I believe he would.
So today has been filled with sorrow for Trey and the 9th floor family, guilt for not doing enough for Trey, and a profound sense of thankfulness for Team Presley.
I always close these updates with “thanks for all of the calls, texts, emails, fb, thoughts & prayers” and I am afraid I have trivialized it without intention. The truth is every single question about or prayer for Presley lifts us up. It means you care enough to take a few moments of your day to let us babble on about her. Your thoughtfulness and love is worth more than gold to us.
So thank you for keeping Presley in your prayers. Tonight I ask that you say a prayer for our little man “Trey”. God Speed, Trey Trey. God Speed.
Happy February, Team Presley!! I’m really digging February so far. Presley has been feeling well, has only had one transfusion and has been in great spirits. Knock wood it continues for the rest of the month.
Last Friday, the girls headed to the clinic to check counts and sure enough, she was right at the NEW border line (11.0) on hemoglobin and needed platelets as well. Presley wasn’t happy, but PA convinced her that if she needed to be accessed for platelets, she might as well get topped off with blood as well. It does give her a boost of energy even though she doesn’t like the process.
Friday night, we had dinner at the Bortmess’ and Todd & I had a little Wii Dance Off. The only result of that was a realization we need to hit the gym. We also played a little Left, Center, Right dice game. Unfortunately, the Boydstun’s cleaned house even on the Bortmess’ home turf. Presley was in a GREAT mood and laughed and giggled more than I have heard her in months. It was so awesome. She spent the night with Nicole and I picked her up the next day.
Saturday, the girls went to Camp Beard for the night. They spent the night with Alex,Abby, and Jaclyn while we went to Dosey Doe for dinner and a concert. Dosey Doe is a restaurant/ coffee house / concert venue off I-45 in the Woodlands. The owners bought a relocated a 150 year old barn from Kentucky and turned it into a dinner theater type of venue. I had never been before but always notice the great artists that play there on a regular basis.
Here’s my review: food – great; venue – intimate; Monte Montgomery (guitar maestro) – excellent; company we were in – AWESOME.
Our company included Mike & Beth Beard, David and Jane Stoneking, and our new friends Gene & Jana. We had a blast!! My face and stomach hurt from laughing the entire night. Thanks David & Jane for including us. We’ll go again soon and repay the gesture.
Sunday was just a relaxing hang out with the girls day. The girls wanted to go to Main Event and bowl and play Laser Tag. As I said in my last update, you take advantage of the good days and that’s just what we did. Presley taught me to play Laser Tag and I kicked everyone’s butt in bowling. It was a good weekend.
The workweek returned and so did school for Presley. Yesterday, PA & Pres went to TCH to check counts again and I got a text 45 minutes after they arrived saying she needed nothing and they were gone. They came home to more schoolwork while I was at a meeting in The Woodlands.
The meeting involved the entire Shell Car Care organization. I have managed the car care business for our Retail National Accounts for the past two years. One of the reasons I love working for Shell is the attitude of leadership and all employees toward social responsibility. There are hundreds of opportunities to volunteer and give back that are coordinated by Shell. Car Care is no exception and during this meeting, our social responsibility project was very close to my heart.
Essentially, Shell Car Care went out and purchased thousands of dollars of games, toys, books and movies to make gift bags for patients and siblings at Texas Children’s Hospital. Pat Dolan, TCH’s Director of Volunteers, came and told 120 Shell Car Care employees about TCH and the opportunity to volunteer. We then decorated canvas tote bags and “went shopping”- stuffing the bags with all of the games, toys, books, etc.
The event was coordinated by a great friend and Team Presley member – Suzanne Clerkin. She had tipped me off to the event and even asked about content for the bags a week or so ago. I asked her if I could say a few words to wrap up the event and she obliged.
Our mantra in Car Care for the past two years has been “One Team, One Goal”. That theme has really resonated with me over the past year as it couldn’t be any more perfect for Team Presley as well. So, I got up on stage and addressed all 120 of my car care colleagues (many sporting Team Presley bracelets). Even though it has been 8 ½ months since diagnosis, I still find myself getting emotional when I talk about Presley at events like this. It was difficult but extremely rewarding and I am thankful to Suzanne and Meaghan for creating and coordinating “Car Care Cares”. Those bags will brighten a kid’s life very soon and I am proud to work for a company that encourages and supports social conscious.
Finally, there are a couple of stories I have neglected to tell you. One touching and kind. The other embarrassing yet hilarious. Which to tell first? OK, I’m not afraid to make fun of myself.
After Presley was discharged last Saturday, we had one more step to this round of chemo. After etoposide & ifosfamide chemo, they give her a shot of Neulasta. It is a drug that boosts the white blood cell count and helps reduce the risk of infection. The first time she got this round of chemo we stayed in the hospital an extra day and the nurses gave her the injection. The second time a home health nurse came and gave the injection. This time home health came to the house and trained me to do the injection.
Sunday afternoon, the nurse arrives and brings the leunasta injection. He goes through all of the basics of washing your hands, cleaning the area, and how to give the injection. The shot is a subcutaneous injection which means I have to give it to her in a fatty area. Hello, she weighs sixty pounds! She doesn’t have any fatty areas. Anyway, Presley has gotten most injections in her thigh and has prepared the area with the numbing cream.
So, Presley is sitting on the couch, everything is cleaned and prepped and I am getting ready to give the injection. This needle is very small and VERY sharp. I am supposed to pinch her thigh to get a fatty area and as I do she starts crying. I look up at her and as I do, I drop the syringe. The needle falls straight down and directly into her knee. I pull it out quickly and stick her in the correct place. She was so shocked I stuck her twice, she barely even cried.
Peri-Ann, the nurse and I began laughing hysterically. After her shock wore off, Presley started cracking up too. The nurse said the second (correct) stick was done quite well. I just need to hold on to the syringe a little tighter. Hey, I’m a salesman not an Registered Nurse!! I guarantee I was the talk at his dinner table that evening.
The second story happened the day before we were discharged. We were in our normal Eric-Night Shift / Peri-Ann Day Shift routine. Papa had come down to help us with Piper and Presley had received a box in the mail. We normally open things like this first and decide whether we take it to her at the hospital. PA gets home Friday night and opens the box. There is a note from Matt Schobel.
The Schobel’s (Matt, Aaron, & Bo) are a famous football family from Columbus, TX – about 60 miles west of Houston. They all attended TCU and played in the National Football League. Matt played tight end for the Eagles & Bengals, Aaron is an All Pro Defensive End for the Bills and Bo won a Super Bowl with the Indianapolis Colts. Papa was at TCU when Bo was a senior.
Anyway, the note says they saw her spot on the news after the bowl game and they wanted to send her some stuff. Inside the box are an autographed Bills jersey, Eagles jersey and Super Bowl T-shirt! All of the jerseys are game worn! The note goes on to say they are praying for her and if she needs anything to call. Peri-Ann is so excited she wakes up Papa to show him.
The kindness and generosity of people continues to amaze us! The Schobel’s have never met us or Presley and although Bo played while Papa was there, he was defense and Papa was offense. It’s just another incredibly thoughtful and kind act!! Thank you Matt, Aaron & Bo. Team Presley is very thankful and will display the jerseys with pride and honor.
Presley has another check up Friday morning to check counts but she should be in good shape as high as they were on Tuesday. Next week we check into the TCH Hilton on Tuesday for a round of ARAC chemo. She has handled this one OK before, but it gave her terrible mouth sores. I know it seems every round gives her mouth sores and I believe it is the cumulative effect of all the chemo run through her body. It should only be a two or three day stay and we should be home before the weekend.
Thanks to all of Team Presley for the thoughts, prayers, calls, texts, fb and emails.
1/23/10 - 1/28/10 (Update from Eric) Saturday Jailbreak and have been running ever since......
When I last left you Dear Team Presley Member (sorry, a poor rip off of Stephen King's Author's notes), Presley was finishing up her chemo and we were busting out!!! We completed chemo around 4:45 and were out of there by 5:00. Our nurse Brandy, was rocking that afternoon and we had the most uneventful discharge ever. We headed to the house, Presley jumped in the shower and the whole family was off to a party.
It sounds strange I am sure. Straight out of the hospital, chemo and then off to a party?
Hey, you take advantage of the times when her counts and spirit are strong and both were through the roof. And this was not just any party, mind you. Our friend from TCH, Bucky Ribbeck, was throwing his cancer free party and wild horses couldn't keep us away.
Bucky is an incredible young man that was diagnosed with Ewing's Sarcoma last year. That is the same disease that our buddy Blake defeated late last year. So i guess it is Cool Guys 2 - Ewings' Sarcoma 0. Take a suck of that, cancer!!! You aren't so tough!!!
Bucky has been an inspiration, friend, supporter, comedian and rock star on the 9th floor for the past few months. We love him so much and are so happy for his victory and were honored to celebrate the win with him and his family. He will be missed at clinic and on the 9th floor but know that he will a part of our lives forever. the invitation said no gifts, but I couldn't help myself. We got him something he will need very soon - hair gel and a brush. It will probably last him until he heads off to college in September, but he will think of Team Presley every day when he fixes his hair.
Sunday was just a fun day around the house watching football with the Schards. Presley requested Surf & Turf so I cooked steaks, shrimp and crablegs and she ate very well. We played Presley's dice game "Left Center Right" (for money, of course) and Presley cleaned house. WARNING: If you've never been to the house for a party or any other social function, there is 90% chance gambling will be involved. The house rarely wins and some people have to go to the ATM to continue to play and wind up disappointed at the end of the night. I'm not naming names, but Todd Bortmess can testify if needed.
Monday, I worked from the house in the morning and had a meeting in the Woodlands in the afternoon. So, Presley, PA & I had lunch and then they headed out to run errands. Presley texted me later and was pumped up because she bought Wii "Just Dance" with her Sunday winnings. It's a Wii game where you have to match the dance moves on the screen. We all played Monday night. Presley & Piper were cracking up when Peri-Ann and I played. According to Wii, I've got more "sauce" than Peri-Ann and I picked up a couple of new moves to throw out there at the next Shell function. I have a pretty decent repertoire of moves already - the sprinkler, the shopping cart, the lawnmower, weedeater and my favorite "picking carrots". Now I have an arsenal. Look out Danny Terrio.
Presley & PA headed to TCH to check counts on Tuesday morning. With her heart function, she will need frequent blood draws and more transfusions to maintain the red blood cell count @ 11.0. They packed expecting a full day at the clinic. Two hours later, I got a text saying they were "out of there". HGB (red blood) count was at 11.9. No transfusion needed. They headed home and Presley spent the rest of the afternoon with Ms. Yoakum - her home bound teacher.
Many people have asked me about her school situation. She is on a program called "Home Bound" that is offered by Conroe ISD for kids in her situation. The school district has teachers that cater to the special needs of students like Presley and come tutor her in the home. She is on the regular school curriculum and goes through the same testing as regular students. She is still on track to go to the 7th grade and is still an excellent student.
Ms. Yoakum comes three days a week and Presley has another teacher that helps her with advanced math. Wednesday, Ms.Yoakum spent several hours with Presley and then the girls all came downtown to meet me for a Rockets game. We had a nice dinner and then watched the Denver “Thuggets” beat the Rockets. It was Piper’s first NBA experience and she enjoyed every minute of it. Presley made an astute comment during the game. “Daddy, we lived in Fort Worth for seven years and never went to a Mavs game. We have been to two Rockets games this season.” It’s funny how your priorities and mindset change when you live day to day. I’ve always believed in enjoying the moment and collecting the experiences, but now it is more important than ever. It doesn’t make you reckless or mean you can spoil your children, but smiles are so much more precious today.
Thursday was more schoolwork for Presley and she was exhausted by the time I got home from work. She needs rest because tomorrow is another TCH clinic visit and she will more than likely need blood. It could be a long day for the girls.
Next week is again busy as she has TCH clinic visits on Tuesday & Friday. Wednesday she is seeing an Ear Nose & Throat specialist about her chronic ear problems. She has experienced ear issues since she was a baby and we have been through several tubes and procedures. We must keep her ears infection free with a compromised immune system, so this is more preventative than anything else.
Finally, I would like to say a huge thank you to everyone who has made donations to Presley’s fund, Bear Necessities or the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society since her diagnosis. Your kindness and generosity are appreciated beyond any mere words of thanks I can write or say. We get several donations to her fund on a weekly basis, however, Chase Bank can’t figure out a way for us to view who made the donations. Please don’t think we are ungrateful if we don’t send a thank you card or a note. We are humbled by your act of love and generosity even though we can’t specifically tell you thank you.
Thank you. From the Bottom of our heart and soul, Thank You.
1/20/10 - 1/22/10 (Update from Eric) Day 4 of "slow time" and nothing is ever routine......
This particular block of chemo hasn't been that bad on Presley. The nausea experienced after the first treatment may have been more to do with the mental aspect of another hospital stay. In fact, she has been eating like a hyena after a kill, which is a good thing. She has gained some weight, her color is now good, and her spirits are high as she can see the light at the end of this short tunnel. Round 5 is over around 4:00pm Saturday and we expect to be discharged and head home to sleep in our own beds.
Day 1 and the morning of Day 2 were not very fun for Presley or myself. Because they missed her nausea medicine prior to the LP (spinal tap), she was experiencing some stomach discomfort. Prior to me getting to the hospital, they had given her some Atavan to help but it usually puts her out. Atavan is also supposed to have a calming effect on kids when they are anxious about an upcoming procedure. However with Presley, (1) it knocks her out, and (2) when she wakes up, she is an emotional wreck. Daddy, enter drama stage right. So with her getting sick Tuesday night, she got another dose of Atavan.
I compare Presley on Atavan to the "that girl at the party" that has been "overserved" (as my friend Sean so eloquently puts it). She is the life of the party and then it just craters. It ends in crying and "I'm sorry" and "why doesn't anybody love me" and my favorite "you don't understand". It wasn't a fun time taking care of that girl in 1987 and it hasn't improved much in 2010 - especially when it's your 12 year old daughter with cancer.
Tuesday morning, she was still coming out from the effects of the Atavan and did not want to take her meds or have anything to do with me. PA finally arrived and saved me. I kissed both of them goodbye and wished PA good luck. It seems that once the Atavan wore off, Presley was active, sweet, hospitable, and social throughout most of the day. Although my relationships are with the night shift nurses, Presley has very tight relationships with the day nurse crew. It's like her little posse roaming the hall of TCH. They all come down to her room and spend time with her and she loves each and every one of them. So I get the Mr. Hyde and Peri gets Dr. Jeckyll. (if i screwed that up, it's because I never read the book, but you get the notion.)
So on Wednesday morning, she went for an echo and EKG and spent most of the day hanging out with her posse and her little boyfriend Grant. Grant is here going through MTX treatment and is doing quite well. His hair has grown back and he looks so cute. We all know it will be gone again in a couple of weeks, but it is like that first sign of spring after a long, barren winter. Little signs of normalcy have so much meaning.
Wednesday night rolls around and the meds arrive late and Presley is asleep. I prepare them (fruit rollups), and wait for her to wake up to potty. She finally wakes up and then I tell her she has to take her meds before going back to sleep. It was like I asked her to climb Everest. The fireworks begin.
My daughter is an enigma to my wife and I on several different levels. I know it's called raising a pre-teen. In most situations, she is bright, confident and has no trouble accomplishing tasks. However, when she gets snakes in her head, she gets Boa Constrictors. Since her cheer days in Fort Worth, when she faces adversity, she goes from success to total lockdown to success to total lockdown like a fainting goat (see YouTube).
In cheer, she tumbled like a champ and then decided she couldn't do a round off back hand spring. After 2 months of begging, pleading, bribing, yelling and private lessons, she did the ROBHS. Then she would lock down again and we would start all over at Square One. In volleyball, it was the overhand serve. She got it in her head she couldn't do it and guess what. Yep. Two months of begging, pleading, bribing, yelling and private lessons. The difference here is that leukemia butted in before she locked down.
So until May 19th, my daughter had never swallowed a pill. If you scroll back to the first updates, you will see our struggles. We finally found the trick (fruit roll ups), and she has been taking them for 7 months. Granted, she gags from time to time and she procrastinates, but this week, the Boa Constrictor was wrapped around her head. I blame Atavan, fatigue and my general disposition for most of the struggle. But........ Wednesday and Thursday night, we hit DefCon 1.
Wednesday night, I woke her up to take her meds and that is never a good thing. She was upset, and tired and all she wanted to do was go back to sleep. Easy solution - take 4 pills and go back to sleep. Not with Presley. It's like an Angelina Jolie movie. She would rather fight, cry, rock, and watch TV than take her pills and go back to sleep. Sparks flew, but she finally got them down and we got a restful night of sleep. This round has been mostly restful for us except for the frequent trips to the potty - her & I.
I know most of you tolerate my ramblings because there is some humor behind it. Tonight the rambling is my way of avoiding the situation. So here is where the other shoe drops.......Thursday, they dropped the hammer on Peri-Ann.
Thursday was a stressful day for Peri-Ann and I had no clue until I called around 6:00pm to ask what Pres wanted me to bring for dinner. PA said she didn't want anything. I asked how the day went and she said "I'll tell you when you get here". Ruh roh Raggy!!!! Here's the scoop:
Andrea (nurse practitioner) told PA that cardiology had been consulted regarding Presley's echo and they were on their way to talk to her. She said not to worry and that she thought everything would be normal. Unless, you have just tuned in, nothing is ever normal in this treatment. When Dr. Knutsen came in the room, he started discussing Presley's echo and that there has been heart damage. Yep. Once again, a doctor comes in the room and delivers bad news in front of our daughter without telling the parents first. Presley asked them to step outside and discuss it. (She can step up to that but can't take a pill? Huh?)
So, here's the deal. When you sign a release for treatment for leukemia, (or any kind of cancer that requires chemotherapy), they notify you of the possible side effects. They put it into three buckets - Likely, Less Likely, Extremely Rare but Serious. Every drug or procedure has the same criteria connected to it. In 2011, it will look like this: likely, less likely, extremely rare but serious & Presley Boydstun.
During chemotherapy, one of the "extremely rare but serious" side effects is damage to the heart muscle. Dr. Knutsen told Peri-Ann that a drug or combination of drugs has effected Presley's heart function. Her left ventricle is not operating at a normal level and squeezing enough of the blood to sustain normal function. They found this out through the echo but one symptom is high heart rate. Presley has been in the 120-150 range for the past couple of months (see ICU stay) where normal resting heart rate should be around 80 bpm. In Eric terms, her heart has been working double time to provide her body with the oxygen it needs.
The technical term is "chemotherapy induced, cardiomyopathy". The truth is the chemo induced to kill the leukemia took a toll on her heart. Most likely, it is a drug called daunoreubicin which thankfully we have no more doses on the road map. Unfortunately, the drug that stops Philadelphia + (Gleevec) is also shown to cause cardio toxicity.
They handed all of this to Peri on Thursday afternoon. Andrea, Dr. Knutsen (cardiology) and Dr. Redell bombarded her with diagnosis, information, treatment recommendations and alternatives. I was totally unaware until I got there that evening. Of course, I had 50 questions for Peri-Ann she couldn't answer. She anticipated this and they had asked the cardiologist to come by in the morning to give me the detail I wanted. In fact, PA told Dr. Redell that I was unaware and Dr. Redell said "So I can expect a text from Eric tonight?". I let her have her family time.
So, Dr. Knutsen explained to me Friday morning Presley has some mild heart damage from either daunoreubicin or the gleevac. They are not sure which chemo caused the damage and therefore can't determine whether it is reversible or not. He explained to me that her case now is mild but felt there was enough damage that she would never be able to become a world class tri-athlete. I explained to him that the genetics passed down from Peri-Ann & I pretty much took care of that prior to the chemo damage.
They started her on a drug called Carvedilol (Coreg) that will help her heart pump the blood. It is a beta blocker that is used with adults with congenitive heart failure. Sounds great doesn't it? They will continue to monitor her heart function and may add another drug that works in conjuction with carvedilol called enalapril. They are waiting until after this round of chemo to decide. Along with the drug therapy, they are going to keep her Hemoglobin count higher so her heart doesn't have to work as hard. Typically in chemo patients, they don't transfuse until the red blood count drops below 8.0. They are going to keep Presley above 11.0 now. She has typically been between 8 & 10 during her treatment, so she will be getting transfusions much more frequently.
The other side of this lovely story is the Gleevec. They know dauno can cause heart toxicity and there is some data that shows Gleevec also causes heart toxicity but the research is mainly in adults. Initially, they gave Peri-Ann three options: (1) Put on heart meds and continue Gleevec (2) Switch from Gleevec to a new inhibitor called Dasatinib or (3) go straight to transplant.
Peri-Ann and I had a discussion and we are perfectly aligned. Don't change what is working. Taking her off Gleevec is not an option at this point. It has worked and the last tests show no evidence of the Philadelphia chromosome. We don't want to change to Dasatinib because there is even less known about it. We know Gleevec, understand the risks and will continue down the path. We will be frequenting the cardiology floor now but that is an acceptable trade off. Transplant is going to be our last option. I also spoke with Dr. Redell and she is agreement with us. Keep forging ahead - cautiously.
So, other than that things have going well. Should be out of TCH by 5:00pm Saturday and no planned hospital stays until February 9th. PA & Pres will be putting some miles on the car though with more frequent trips to TCH the next couple of weeks and now months.
On a lighter note, we have a budding runner in the family. Piper ran in her school fun run on Thursday morning and completed 35 laps before the time limit was up. She also finished first in her classroom. Papa & PA were there to cheer her on and there is some funny video and pics. We are all very proud of her and the fun run helped raise money for physical fitness equipment at her school. Thanks to those that sponsored her run.
Finally, I was remiss last week and left a Team Presley marathon runner off the update. I have mentioned Jarrett Hubert in a couple of other updates and he has Team Presley pics from his tri-athlons on pbkicksit as well. We met Jarrett through Debbie & Preston Roobaert a couple of weeks before diagnosis and then ran into him on the 9th floor one weekend. He volunteers at the Ronald McDonald House three Saturdays a month and they run the family room on the 9th floor. Anyway, he ran for Team Presley last weekend and finished the 26.2 in 3:20. Not bad. Thanks Jarrett - You are awesome.
Also, for all the single ladies reading this: He's young, handsome, smart, has a great job, runs marathons & tri-athlons, and volunteers at the Ronald McDonald House. Call me if you're interested.
Holy Cow, I just turned into a pimpin' Chuck Woolery. Sorry Jarrett.
Thanks to all of Team Presley for running, calling, texting, hoping and praying. Love to all.
1/12/10 - 1/19/10: (Update from Eric) Is this really becoming routine?......
Two weeks have passed since Presley was in TCH for MTX treatment and it seems like yesterday. Although Presley & Peri-Ann have made several trips to clinic, it just seems like her time at home flies by and her time at TCH creeps by at a snail's pace. One of my favorite writers is Stephen King. Most people know his horror stories and his weird tales, but he has also written some great tales of the human spirit like "Shawshank Redemption" and "The Green Mile".
He also his written several volumes of short stories and in one obscure story called "My Pretty Pony", an elderly man gives his grandson his pocketwatch and explains the nature of time. He explains that as a person gets older, time moves faster and faster and slips away in great chunks. I am becoming intimately familiar with this concept. However, the old man explains that there is also "slow time" and specifically refers to being ill in a hospital. Stephen King has never been more descreptive of our recent hospital stays.
So, we have just started day one of our "slow time". Peri-Ann & Presley got up to make a 7:40am appointment this morning in clinic. The plan was to access her port, check blood counts, begin hydration for chemo and then off to PACU for a lumbar puncture (spinal tap). The hard part of this day would be the waiting. PACU was not scheduled until 1:30 so no matter how good or bad the counts were, they would be waiting around all day - "slow time".
Presley's ANC was through the roof even from last Friday's checkup - 8340 so she has the ability to fight off infection. Platelets were also good, but her red blood cells were 7.7 and she needed a transfusion. So she got whole blood and slept during the "slow time", then went to PACU for the LP. Although she handles anesthesia and the LP's well, she always gets upset. PA said today was no different and she woke up weepy but famished.
After PACU, she got moved to the 9th floor which had an UNBELIEVABLE 8 open rooms. In fact, there are still 7 open rooms tonight. I am not sure it has ever been this quiet up here and that means that cancer kids are home and not here. Thank God.
Presley has completed her first round of etoposide and cytoxin and it has gone relatively well. She had some nausea but overall is sleeping peacefully. The major side effect from this round of chemo are the mouth sores again. There is a mouth wash she has to use four times daily but doesn't prevent the sores - only keeps them from getting infected.
It amazes me how much support we receive from people during this long journey. When Pres was first diagnosed, Coach McElroy immediately came to Houston to give us guidance and advice because he too had been through a battle with this disease. One of the things he told us was to "let people help" and that "after a while, you feel like you are burdening them with your fight". He said it probably wasn't the case, but it feels that way.
At times, I feel this way - especially when things are not going well. I never want to be one that darkens your day with bad or difficult news. It's a long war and I don't want to wear out my welcome. But people continue to astound me with outpourings of love, and the gestures and support hasn't faded as I thought it would. Don't get me wrong, I never felt that the love for Presley or my family would lessen as this war went on. It's just that I never thought people would keep it as front and center as it has been. You have your own lives and challenges, yet you still find the time for Presley and I will be forever grateful.
This weekend we stayed downtown on Saturday night for the marathon. We had several friends running and most were running in support of Team Presley. The world continues to get smaller during this war and we had a couple of our friends come together in a weird way.
Brett Donohue, "Donoho" as I nicknamed him years ago, has run several marathons including Boston in 2008. He called me a few months ago and said he was going to run Houston and wanted to run in honor of Presley. He didn't know how he was going to honor her but he would do something. I told him we would be honored and if Presley was healthy, we would get together and support him during his run.
Fast forward a couple of months and my friend and co-worker Jim Palamara calls me into his office. His wife, Blythe, has a PR firm that represents the Houston Marathon. They always ask people to submit stories explaining why they are running. Whose story comes across her desk - Brett Donohue - running for Team Presley. Kind of cool how the world gets smaller.
So we went downtown Saturday night and stayed at a hotel along the race route. We saw Julia & Jim Palamara running the half marathon. Julia smoked her dad by the way. Then we followed the race route to the finish line to meet Brett. A funny thing happened as we walked to the finish line - Piper got the running bug. It was hilarious. She would run to the end of each block and we would have to make her wait until we caught up. I yelled at her a couple of times but she was going to run just like all of the other runners. Consequently, we are going to put her in a race or two this spring to see if she really likes it.
We made it to the finish line and because Blythe had gotten us media passes, we waited inside the George R Brown for Brett. Somehow we missed him as he finished but finally caught up with him and the entire Donohue family. Not only did Brett run, but his sister, Tracy and mom ran the half for Team Presley. Little gestures mean so much but running a total of 52.4 miles as a family? Where does that land? Brett also gave Presley his finishers medal. She tried to say no, but he wasn't having any of it. Not only did the Donohue family run for Team Presley, but Brett recruited a couple of his friends as well. Unbelievable.
I would also like to tell you about another member of Team Presley. James Stone runs the chemicals and wiper blades marketing for Shell Car Care. He is a health and fitness guru and like most people in this world, cancer has touched life as well. So, as he and I are having a discussion about Presley the other day, I began telling him about her weight, nutrition and strength issues. He asked if he could make some recommendations for nutritional supplement drinks and I told him sure. He gave me the low down on some drinks and made some brand recommendations.
Then yesterday, he called me to his office. In a wheeled Igloo ice chest, he had a selection of every nutritional supplement drink he had recommended - all chocolate flavor - Presley's passion. He and his wife have tried every single one and he assured me his wife would not suggest something Presley wouldn't stomach. Along with the drinks were magazines for Presley and a card. We are extremely grateful for the thought, time and effort put into the gesture.
Finally, thank you for reading these ramblings.
Thank you keeping us in the front of your hearts and minds.
Thank you for praying for her health and recovery.
Thank you for all of the texts, calls, and emails.
Thank you for being Team Presley.
1/4/10 - 1/13/10: (Update from Eric) Yep, I've been slacking off........
I apologize to everyone for the long delay in updates. Presley has been out of the hospital since January 5th and been home recovering. A lot has happened but not a lot has happened. Understand? Probably not.
I last left you on January 3rd, still in the hospital and Pres' MTX number was 0.15. We needed below 0.10 to be discharged. The morning of Monday, January the 4th, the level had dropped again to 0.12. Oh, so close. Hoping for a good number on monday night and we were getting excited about the TCU game.
Then, she became a TV star!! Here's how it all came about. After the first appearance from Kevin Klein's courageous run through Texas, I emailed the reporter (Chris Stipes) and thanked him for putting her on TV. Earlier that day, we had to tell her we weren't going to the TCU game. She was crushed. We had tickets, airfare, hotel, the whole works, but she wasn't going to clear and even if she did wasn't strong enough to make the trip. I love her and will indulge her wishes right now, but not at the risk of her health.
Anyway, Chris emailed me back and asked permission to interview her and the ball started rolling. They came to the hospital and Chris just talked with her for about 20 minutes. He was great and she was nervous but did very well in spite of the camera. The took a few more shots, interviewed the "fat guy" and got out before the game started.
Debbie and Preston Roobaert then joined us for the game and brought a tailgate style dinner. The Frogs were so close. The nurses thought we were nuts and I am sure our neighbors hated us during the game. So, as the game was going on, we got the MTX level back from the 7:00 labs.
0.14!!!! What the heck? They went UP!!!! How in the heck does that happen? I almost blew a gasket. I kept the results to myself until after the game and everyone was gone. By that time, Pres was asleep and just wanted rest so we hoped for a lower number in the morning.
So, on January 5th, Pres hit 0.08 but needed blood. She got the transfusion and got to go home.
She has been home since and has been getting stronger on a daily basis. She has battled severe mouth sores and has been on TPN until yesterday. Pres & Peri-Ann went to clinic and her numbers were decent but good enough to be deaccessed. Huge relief and change in lifestyle. Showers. No longer chained to an IV bag and a pump at night. Little things.
Her immune system is still low so we have to be very careful. The cold & flu season is upon us and every precaution must be taken. We must keep her fever free during these times.
The plan is to go back to clinic to check counts on Friday. We have another round of chemo scheduled for the 19th which will last five days and will require hospitalization. She will get Etopicide & Cytoxin for 5 consecutive days and another drug (mesna) to protect her bladder during these treatments. She has handled these drugs fairly well in the past, however, they did give her mouth sores. That seems to be the biggest nuisance of side effects recently.
Thanks to everyone for the notes & calls about the TV appearances. She received several blogs on the site from friends we have not met yet and that touches our hearts.
thanks for all the texts, emails, thoughts & prayers. They truly have an impact on her spirit and ours as well.
12/31/09 - 1/3/10: (Update from Eric) Happy New Year!!! Sort of........
Well, as usual my predictions about Presley's hospital stays are about as good as Mike Leach's concussion treatments. When I left you last year, Presley had just finished the methotrexate treatment. Our past couple of MTX treatments were monitored closely due to the horrible reaction to the initial treatment. We followed the same protocol as before - Off all meds 24 hours prior to treatment, 6 hours of hydration and then monitoring levels at Hour 2 / Hour 6 and then determine what, if anything needs to be done.
Her MTX level at Hour 2 & Hour 6 were within parameters and acceptable. Hour 24 was 76.14 - high but still ok. The bag came down and they started her on fluids. It's a delicate balance. They want to leave the MTX in for another 18 hours to do it's magic but at the same time, flush it with fluids. They started leucovorin (a drug used to flush MTX) at Hour 42 and her level is hopefully around .40. Unfortunately, it was 2.30. Uh oh, we've been here before.
Hour 48 was 1.34 and they want it close to .10 Trouble was on the horizon.
Hour 72 was @ .44. We are settling in for the long haul, but Presley was crushed at the number. It meant we were spending the weekend in TCH.
We had made reservations to fly to Phoenix, provided Presley was healthy enough and watch TCU play Boise State in the Fiesta Bowl. There was no way we were going to make it out for our flight and I'm afraid we may be watching the bowl game in Room 910 at TCH on Monday night. Andy Dalton, TCU Quarterback, has been wearing a Team Presley bracelet since practice started this summer. He and Presley have developed a nice little relationship. Presley texts him before and after games and Andy even got a penalty for pointing to Presley's bracelt after scoring a touchdown this year. They had never met face to face and were hoping the bowl game would present that opportunity.
Presley was very upset. One thing I have learned over the past seven months, is to manage expectations with not only Presley, but myself and the rest of the family. Making plans and raising hopes to pull off this trip, was a bad choice on my part. In our situation, we really can't plan day-to-day, much less a month or even a couple of weeks in advance. I blame myself for her disappointment. I know better.
Presley was feeling OK despite having to pee every 30 minutes and the diahrrea. (that sounds bad, doesn't it. Diahrrea isn't fun for anyone, yet seems minor since this ordeal started). She was actually stronger than the past couple of weeks so things were OK. Her creatinine and BUN (kidney function) were all looking normal and good. However, the longer it stays in the body, the more likely other side effects will kick in.
So, we celebrated the New Year at TCH. Piper was with our friends Jim & Deana (Blake's parents) at a New Year's party. Piper & Toni (Blake's sister) used to hang out on the floor when we were both on the 9th floor and siblings were allowed. So, PIper was chomping at the bit to spend the night with her when Jim & Deana asked if they could take her with them.
Meanwhile at TCH, Presley was tired but feeling ok. We made Presley get out of bed at 11:45. We told her she wasn't starting the New Year laying in a hospital bed. So, we popped the bottle of Welch's sparking grape juice and toasted the New Year at the nurses station. Funny, we were the only family up doing this. I know the nursing staff thinks we are crazy and they are probably right.
Plus, we had one of our favorite nurses, Steph, on call that night. She was fresh back from a visit to Minnesota to see her boyfriend who plays hockey for the Houston Aeros and was called up to the NHL Minnesota Wild. Of course, Peri-Ann had to ask "uterus" type questions like, "How did you guys meet?", "Is he the one?", etc. So she proceeded to tell us the story and that they were in love. Of course, being the lone sample of testosterone in the room I exclaimed "You're in love and you got a Minnesota Wild sweatshirt - it must be serious". I believe sarcasm adds levity to any situation. My wife & Stephanie disagree.
So Peri-Ann & I alternated getting up every 30 minutes with Presley and woke up to 2010 on a pull out couch.
January 1, 2010 brought about football, black-eyed peas and Presley winding up on Fox 26 News. However, Presley's MTX count did not give us any reason to celebrate the new year. It moved to .37 and then stayed there for the entire day. However, we did have a rather fun & strange day.
Kevin Kline is a radio DJ for 93Q Country here in Houston. He founded the Snowdrop Foundation a few years ago to raise awareness and funding for childhood cancer care & research. This year, he attempted to raise $500,000 and awareness by running from Dallas to Houston, via Austin & San Antonio. 481 Miles. In 13 Days. Totally Insane!!!
On New Year's Day, he finished his ultra-marathon at the TCH Clinical Care Center and invited all current and former patients to run the final block with him. We all went down from the 9th Floor to join him. Blake, Bucky, Johnathan, Caden and all of the gang were there to run with him. Presley was weak but excited to down amongst the crowd. Unfortunately, she was the only child still connected to an IV and we stuck out like a sore thumb. A news crew from the local Fox 26 station, grabbed us as we went to the area to join Kevin in his final leg. They grabbed Peri-Ann initially and she shoved them off on the fat guy. I answered several questions very eloquently. The camera loved me. And then he moved to Presley and asked her a couple of questions.
When I watched the broadcast at home that night, my gargantuan head only got 2 seconds and the rest of my interview wound up on the editing room floor. They say the camera adds ten pounds. I don't care. I had Nutrisystems on the line 10 seconds after the piece ended.
Presley, however, was a star. She did a great job and my phone started lighting up with messages confirming my opinion. Piper, on the other hand, wasn't so happy. She was not happy she didn't get on TV while Presley & Peyton did. I comforted her and told her not to worry. There is an episode of "Cops" in her future, I am sure of it.
Anyway, the MTX started taking it's toll late Friday afternoon and Saturday. Presley started developing mouth sores and now her entire mouth (tongue, inside cheeks, gums and throat) are covered in ulcers from the MTX. This has happened only once before with another drug (ARAC). It is difficult for her to eat and talk. We basically now have to manage the pain and try to keep them from being infected.
Her MTX level at 9:00 PM tonight was 0.15. We need to be below 0.10 to get discharged. It sounds like it's easy and within our reach, but it is more like a 4th down and long 1 yard. They have doubled her leucovoring and will continue fluids. She also had to have another whole blood transfusion because her counts were low.
All in all, she is doing OK. Emotionally, the number trickling down is harder on her than the physical aspects. She just wants to go home and I agree completely. However, we still have to get her below the level before being discharged.
Thanks to everyone for the New Year's Well Wishes. We love the texts, emails, calls, fb, thoughts and prayers. We couldn't make it through this without the support of Team Presley.
Hoping everyone has a Happy, HEALTHY, and prosperous 2010.
12/29/09 - 12/30/09: (Update from Eric) Merry Methotrexate and a Happy New Year.....
Presley completed the 24 hour dose of methotrexate last night around 10:00 pm. All went as expected. Her levels stayed within the normal range and the expected side effects (nausea & diahrrea) have dominated the last couple of days. Monday night / Tuesday morning was a long one for Presley & I. She was up every half hour or so in the bathroom so not much rest was had by her or myself.
Papa, Bicki, Peri-Ann and Piper showed up around 11:00 to relieve me for a little while. Peri-Ann, Piper & I went to lunch leaving Papa & Bicki to watch Presley for a little. What do you think showed up? Boydstun Hospital Law. When we came back, it turned out there was a little drama in our absence. Katie (one of Presley's favorite nurses & TCU alum) has been our day nurse since we checked in on Monday. Well, she made a slight error with the IV and combined Zofran (anti-nausea) with the methotrexate. It wouldn't be a big deal except Presley has bi-carb fluids and Zofran is incompatible with bi-carb. Simple mistake. Has happened to every nurse at one time or another.
However, it clogged up the IV line and Presley had to get re-accessed with a new needle. Not her favorite experience. Katie was crying, Presley was crying, it was a great situation for Papa & Bicki. When the TPN nurse (IV specialist) came to reaccess, Presley wanted Katie to be there with her. It made Katie feel even worse.
When we got back to the room, all was quiet and over but Vicki met us in the hall and let us know what had happened. So what did I do - what I do best of course. Give Katie a hard time. First thing out of my mouth was "OK, what the hell did you do to my kid?" She turned pale white, started apologizing, and almost started crying. I actually felt bad for her. She loves Presley and I know she felt awful. Did that stop me from giving her a hard time. Of course not!!!!
Piper & I left to head home for a while. I needed a nap and shower. Piper needed some space. They lifted the sibling ban for the holidays but aren't allowed in the playroom. Piper was bored instantly. Before I left, I asked Katie in front of Suzanne (the nurse practitioner), "is it safe to leave my kid here for the next few hours?". Apologies abound again.
At 10:00 pm, they took down the chemo and started IV fluids. Here levels were good and her electrolytes were coming back up. Good signs. The night was again full of potty breaks but every couple of hours instead of every 30 minutes.
Katie is our nurse again today and showed up at shift change with purple TCU sock monkey and a couple of teen magazines for Presley. I told her it was unnecessary, but she said it made her feel better. What a great kid!
At 4:00pm today, they will give Presley Leucovorin which is a drug that flushes out Methotrexate quicker than regular fluids. She will get leucovorin three times over 18 hours and check her MTX levels at the same time. As long as her levels are below the parameters and she continues to clear without problems, we should be out of here Friday afternoon.
Thanks for all the calls, emails, texts, fb, thoughts & prayers.
12/15/09 - 12/28/09: (Update from Eric) Like most everyone else, we survived Christmas........
Christmas was wonderful at the Boydstun house. Uncle Greg headed home on Christmas Eve to prepare for his Vegas trip, so it was just the four of us on Christmas Day to see what Santa had delivered. Presley wasn't 100% by any means but improves daily. She usually calls for us once or twice during the night and she called around 2:00am on Christmas morning but PA & I didn't hear her. Piper came downstairs and told us that Presley needed us and commented on the way back up to her room that there were some gifts under the tree that weren't there before she went to bed. That's it. Just making comments. Went right back to her bed and asleep.
At 7:30am, Presley called for us again. I got out of bed and went upstairs. Pres wasn't in her room but in Piper's bed with her. They were ready to get up and come downstairs to see what Santa had delivered but knew they weren't supposed to leave their rooms yet. Do we have them trained or what? So, PA & I prepared breakfast and mimosa's (for us) and began the Christmas present carnage.
After the melee, we went to the Palamara's for a wonderful Christmas dinner. Blythe prepared the wonderful traditional turkey and trimmings and we provided the desserts (actually Princess provided the desserts - thanks again). One funny moment was Blythe asked if any of us liked cranberry to which of course we said no. "Well, that's $0.74 down the drain." Obviously, the Palamara's don't care for cranberry sauce either. It's a good thing she didn't go all out to try and impress. She knows us well. Thanks to the Palamara's for having us over and showing us such hospitality.
Saturday, we hooked up with the Thomas' and Beard clan and had lunch. Presley's mood and morale improved dramatically around Jordan, Ashley, Alex & Abby. She seems to feel stronger and better when her buddies are around. Imagine that.
Papa & Bicki were waiting for us when we arrived home and Santa (Bicki) had been to our house again. The girls opened more presents and we had a great evening eating dinner, watching football, and playing games. Of course the games involved wagering - it's the Boydstun-Winder way. However, Piper is catching on and doesn't seem to want to risk her own money anymore. She uses Papa to front her gaming now and still does not lose gracefully.
Sunday, Presley continued to improve and gain strength. It was another day of rest, relaxation and football.
Today, we came back to the real world and had a 7:50 appointment at Texas Children's. The plan was to check her blood counts and if she made them (a long shot condering last week) be admitted for methotrexate chemotherapy. Presley was not happy about being up early and I can say that I was in her camp. PA, Pres & I got to TCH around 7:40 and got checked in. Since she was already accessed, we checked in and went to the infusion room. It was like homecoming week. Grant & Caroline were there and we got caught up on each other's holidays.
We were paged to Band-Aid junction for vitals and then Nyree took us back to a room for the blood draw. Presley has been on TPN (IV nutrition) since our last hospital stay. However, the past couple of days when administering it, I had not been able to get good blood return on her port. It would still flush and we could administer TPN but no blood return is not good. Nyree tried as well but to no avail. So, we drew blood the old fashioned way and replaced the needle in her port to see if that would fix the problem. No Dice. Same issue. Flush but no blood return.
We
then made it back to a room and met with Cara (nurse practitioner) to determine if she made counts.
Cara walked in and said "she (Presley) continues to amaze us." Her WBC count was 5250 - up from a big fat 30 last Tuesday. 5250 is actually in the normal range. Unbelievable. ANC was actualy 4250 which is an astounding increase from ZERO. Red Blood cells were 9.1 (good) and platelets were at 97 (low but acceptable).
So, we went to 8 for an x-ray of her port to make sure it was still in the correct place. No issues there. Then to PACU for the traditional lumbar puncture with chemo. Presley got a little upset before the anesthesia but was OK. It's different each time she goes to PACU. Sometimes she gets upset and sometimes she's calm before the LP.
In recovery, she was cool, quiet and collected. No tears or emotions which she used to have upon waking.
The funny thing is the procedures are now commonplace for Peri-Ann & I. Do we like our daughter going under anesthesia or having the procedures? Absolutely not, but we are comfortable with the staff and routine of the procedure. I remember the first one in May and it was absolutely terrifying. Considering the circumstances, I understand my fear and reaction, but now it seems trite to have been so worked up about it.
What was chaos and terror 7 months ago, has become our normal everyday life.
Wrapping up. Presley started methotrexate chemo around 10:00 pm tonight and will receive 4 grams over the next 24 hours. Although we have had problems in the past, we don't anticipate anything this round. They have her dosage figured out and we know what to watch for when they take labs. She will have nausea and diahrrea but we should be able to control them with zofran and phenegren.
Barring any surprises, she will get leucovorin tomorrow night and fluids to clear the MTX. We are keeping our fingers crossed for a Friday discharge.
Thanks to everyone for the Christmas calls, texts, emails, fb, thoughts & prayers.
12/16/09 - 12/24/09: (Update from Eric) We wish you a Merry Christmas........
Since I left you hanging, Presley came home after two days on the 9th floor. After we got to the 9th floor, it was relatively calm. In fact, they wanted to send her home, but Presley didn't feel well and was honestly a little anxious about going home - away from the comfort of the 9th floor. So, we stayed an extra night and they discharged her Friday afternoon. Of course, there was a little drama, as they didn't like her low sodium level. We have been through this before and Peri talked some sense into them.
She was discharged but we are continuing TPN at home to maintain her weight and nutrition and she is also on an introvenous antibiotic.
The weekend was not very fun for Presley but she did enjoy the comfort of her own room and bed. She felt absolutely awful and didn't get out of bed much at all Saturday and Sunday. Monday was much of the same - pain in her legs, bones, joints and back. We managed the pain with Tylenol with codeine but she slept most of the time.
Tuesday, we all went to clinic to get her counts checked and a general checkup before the holiday. She looked and felt awful, so they put her in a triage room. They checked her counts and her red blood cells were ok, platelets were low but not in desperate need of transfusion but her white blood cell count was non-existent. For a healthy 12 year old girl, the WBC should be between 5,000 & 15,000. Presley's was 30. Yep. Big fat 30 which means she has NO immune system whatsoever. They gave her fluids and we had several discussions with the HemOnc doc on call - Dr. Craddock. They were leaning toward admitting her, but we asked what they were going to do for her in the hospital. Fluids and watch for fever. We could do that at home so they allowed her to go home.
Wednesday she was a little better and a little stronger. Uncle Greg confirmed it when they started pestering each other. That's the litmus test when Uncle Greg is around. If she fights back, she's a little closer to normal. The Bortmess family came over Wednesday evening and Presley hung out for a while. Another sign she is a little stronger and a sign that she needs more than just mom, dad and Piper to lift her spirits.
She continues to improve each day and today was another step forward. She's in less pain and gets around a little better and sleeps a little less.
If all continues in the right direction, we go back to TCH on Monday to check counts and if she makes it will start another round of methotrexate treatment. Originally, this chemo was the worst, but now, I can look forward to it because her body has figured out how to metabolize it and clear it quickly. MTX doesn't have the major side effects like the round of chemo we just completed.
On a personal note, I had a moment last weekend when Presley was in ICU. On Sunday morning, our third day in ICU, I came home to shower and repack some clothes for the next couple of nights. Piper was staying at a friends and Peri was with Presley at the hospital. I came home to a quiet house and an unlit Christmas tree. I sat down on the couch, exhausted from a long, sleepless night in ICU and looked at the tree. In the middle of the tree is a large decoration that says "This Home Believes". I think it is supposed to mean this home believes in Santa, but it hit me right in the solar plexus. I just started crying. It was mainly worry and exhaustion, but a million things were going through my mind looking at that simple phrase.
"This Home Believes".
Never before have I needed to believe.
To believe that God has planned a long and meaningful life for Presley.
To believe that modern medicine will finally find a cure for this disease.
To believe that despite all my inadequacies as a father, husband, son, brother and friend, I am doing all the right things in this fight.
To believe that we are paying enough attention to Piper during this saga.
To believe I can be a good father and a good husband at the same time.
To believe that all the prayers from Team Presley are being heard and will be answered.
My philosophy of life has always been that "In the end, all we really have is family, friends, and memories."
I was wrong. We also have belief.
I believe.
Merry Christmas.
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12/15/09 - 12/16/09: (Update from Eric) Home, Sweet, Second Home.....
I last left you with blood pressure under control and fever free. Presley has continued that trend for over 48 hours and we are now on the 9th Floor of TCH. Let me just say that the 9th floor room 36 is the Ritz Carlton of the hospital system right now. There is a luxurious bathroom with toilet AND shower, 19" color TV, storage for belongings & a FULL SIZE BED that I can lay flat on!!!! Heaven!!
Presley is stable, doing well but completely exhausted. ICU is not a place where David Hasselhoff would go to recover from "exhaustion". It is absolutely impossible to get rest, however, the care of the NURSES in ICU is first rate.
All of our ICU nurses were good, but Bob (night nurse) & Sandy (day) were exceptional. Unfortunately for them, Boydstun Hospital Law reared it's ugly head in the ICU AGAIN and Bob & Sandy helped manage both us & the ICU staff.
This time I was at work and again arrived at the hospital in the middle of a firestorm. I am beginning to believe that we are the test subjects in a bizarre behavioral hospital project. Hospitals make their staff put us in awkward & uncomfortable positions to see how we react. This time, instead of communicating next steps, the PA decides we don't need to know anything instead of explaining everything to Presley.
Presley had been stable for 24 hours and they had secured a room the 9th Floor. The team had just made rounds & moved on to the next room. Peri was packing up to move to the 9th floor when someone knocked on the door. They said they were there to do another echo cardiogram on Presley. No one had notified PA or Pres about the procedure. PA grabbed the doc at the next room and asked why Presley was having another echo. It seems that the original echo on Monday was read to have a blood clot near Presley's port-a-cath. No big deal - a BLEEPING BLOOD CLOT!!! Peri lost it on everyone & especially the PA that neglected to tell her again.
So, after it calmed down, they did another echo.
Henceforth, we didn't get to move to 9!!! Presley was emotionally crushed.
I arrived and Bob was managing the hospital staff & trying to recover credibility for the hospital. It seems in ICU, that most kids are so bad off that there is no resistence from parents on any level. No matter, they had failed twice in our eyes.
Finally, they came in later and told us there was no clot and it was a misread. Presley was safe to move. Unfortunately our window had closed. I even made a stop on 9 and begged the charge nurse for a room. I'm a Diamond Member @ Hilton, I must be a Quadruple Diamond Member @ TCH. No rooms at the Inn.
So, Presley settled for another night peeing in bed pans & loud nurses & I settled for sleeping in a chair.
PA arrived to relieve me yesterday morning but I had already "confirmed" from the PA that she was being transferred to 9. He explained everything in detail & and "confirmed" with the HemOnc doctor. It was a swap. A non-cancer kid on 9 was needing ICU & we were getting their room. So PA, Pres & Papa (who has been a saint) moved up to 9 around 1:00 pm. Presley's attitude changed dramatically. Although she was exhausted she went & hung out w Caroline and was in a great mood.
She slept well last night (not as well as I did) and is still sleeping this morning. Currently, she is getting another platelet transfusion (this makes 5 this stay) so she can go to PACU later and get her spinal tap. The spinal is the last part of this round of chemo.
After that, it's really a watch to see how she feels thing. She may be able to go home tomorrow. We will be going home on TPN & IV anti-biotics. It doesn't matter though as long as we are home.
Will keep you posted.
Hugs from Presley. Thanks for all the emails, texts, calls, fb, thoughts, and prayers.
12/14/09: (Update from Eric) Progress, sweet progress.......
After last night's scare and debacle, the morning and afternoon went relatively smooth. Presley woke up and was very emotional. She did not sleep well at all during the night (who can in a hospital, much less ICU) and she was still very tired. When PA arrived, Presley just broke down and cried in her arms.
Sandy was our day nurse again and we went through the day with her before I left for work. Of course, as soon as I left, the plan changed.
> They were contemplating holding off on the scheduled Vincristine chemo push - Definitely not doing the spinal tap.
> They took her off food and fluids. The BP medicine can cause some issues with the stomach so they didn't want anything in it. Too late, she had already eaten a hard boiled egg for breakfast.
> They needed to do a blood draw out of her arm. They couldn't get blood return on the IV they put in on Friday. The port had so much medicine in it, they were afraid to disrupt it.
Even with all this going on, Presley started making some forward progress:
Her blood pressure started to come up around noon and they started pulling back on the medicine.
Around 2:00, her fever broke and she has been fever free since then - Praise the Lord. Her blood pressure continues to improve and they have backed off the medicine accordingly. They went ahead and gave her the vincristine push around 6:00 pm.
By the time I arrived, she had a normal pressure 105 / 80 and her heart rate was around 110.
However, they still wouldn't let her eat and that has been the most difficult thing to deal with this evening. It actually seems trivial after the past 3 days. Every time a food commercial came on the TV, she would start crying - combination hunger and exhaustion. We convinced them to let us have a "clear" diet, so she ate a cup of jello while taking her evening meds.
They have dialed back the medicine and she still has strong vitals. She is sleeping quite well for the moment.
I can't tell you what the plan or timeline is but at least we are in a better place than 24 hours ago.
I apologize for the lack of creativity tonight. I am working on a few hours sleep over the past 48 hours but I wanted you all to know she has improved significantly.
Thanks for all of the texts, emails, calls, fb, thoughts and especially prayers. They delivered her through a very rough time.
12/12/09 - 12/13/09: (Update from Eric) Starting Day 4 in ICU.....
The last 36 hours have been pretty intense for Presley. Even though they thought they got her BP stabilized and took medicine off on Saturday morning, it continued to erode and hover around unsafe levels. Her heart rate continued to be in the 160-170 range and her temperature was all over the place.
Much to Presley's dismay, they told her she would be in here for at least another 48 hours. There is still nothing growing in blood cultures and anti-biotics seem to be working on her urinary tract infection because her back pain is much better. However, the fever still is there so she is not out of the woods yet by any means.
Yesterday, I went home for a few hours and came back around 7:30 to a fire storm. Some jag Physician's assistant came in while PA was on phone and explained a procedure they were going to do to Presley. PA lost it on him. He was unprofessional & stupid for telling a 12 year old girl something without discussing with us or even asking for our consent. So when I arrived, Bob, the night nurse, was trying to calm PA & Presley down & explain what was going on. I told him to give us some time. A few minutes later, the doctor on call came in with Bob and we had a long discussion.
They had put Presley on another BP drug to help elevate it to a safe level. They had a very small dose going and it wasn't making any impact. However, before they increased it, they wanted to put in an arterial line so they could monitor Pres BP in real time. An art line is essentially the same as an IV except that it goes on the artery. They would deaden the area, insert a needle and then insert the line that has sensors on it that can constantly monitor her BP. I asked several questions, challenged why we were treating the signs of the infection instead of the cause and finally was satisfied with their diagnosis.
Guess what happens next.....Boydstun Hospital Law.
Presley was prepped for the procedure and given Atavan to relax her. Finally, the doc came in and we were ready to go. Against their wishes, I stayed in the room with Presley. They gave her a local which got her upset and then they TRIED the procedure. The needle went in and hit artery as blood poured out, then she tried to put in the line and couldn't get it in. She tried three times and finally gave up. The whole time Presley is screaming and crying. The doc told her that she should be in the opera. It took all I had to not jack her jaw.
So, the end result was traumatizing my kid even more and no success. They gave me a wide berth in the ICU the rest of the evening. PA finally went home around 10:30. At 11:30, the doc said they we're going to increase the medicine without the art line. They doubled the dose. Still no impact.
At 3:00 am this morning, Presley's BP got dangerously low (58/35). I was watching the monitor and obviously Bob was too because he came in and took her BP again immediately. Same. He called doc and they increased again. We watched the monitor for the next hour & a half. Finally, it started to come up. At 4:30, it was finally at 97/60 and maintained for the next three hours. Along with that, her heart rate came down to the 135-140 range. Still high, but better.
During all of this, Pres was in & out of sleep & dreams. It was hard to tell if she was awake or talking in her sleep. Her imagination was working overtime no matter which state she was in.
Currently, she is asleep and they increased her dose again to maintain a good BP (92/62).
PA is taking over & I will head to work for the day. Will try to keep everyone posted somehow throughout the day.
Thoughts & prayers needed and appreciated.
12/7/09 - 12/11/09: (Update from Eric) The other shoe dropped.....
As I explained in the last update, Presley has a difficult time with this round of chemo. It really knocks down her counts and she experiences quite a bit of lower back & leg pain.
I returned home from California on Thursday evening and she was not feeling well at all. She tried to eat dinner but couldn't keep it down. She felt warm but wasn't running a fever. While in California, I called Dr. Redell and we decided to bring her in to clinic to check counts and possibly get fluids.
So today, I met PA & Pres @ TCH around 10:00. Clinic is usually a madhouse but today was a complete zoo. Four radio stations were there on the 14th floor broadcasting live for the Miracle Makers TCH Cancer Center drive. We did get to see our friend Bucky there talking on the radio live. He has one more round of chemo and will hopefully conquer Ewing's just like Blake.
So, it was total chaos as I went with Pres to BandAid Junction to get accessed and labs. As we were walking to BAJ, she got light headed and a little dizzy. They checked her weight, blood pressure, and temp and then decided to send us back to triage since her pulse rate was high (150) and BP was low (80 / 42) . Triage is a an area off of the infusion center, where you get your own room & bed for fluids, procedures, etc.
They accessed her port there and Pres did amazingly well. She didn't "freak out" before they poked her and she barely whimpered when they did. Since her BP was low & pulse high they started pumping her with fluid. They ran labs to check for pancreatitis because of her back pain and went ahead and did blood cultures for infection.
Over an hour and a half she got 3 bowlus of fluids and had not improved her BP or dropped her heart rate. The labs came back and the counts were very low.
HGB (Red) - 8.3. Transfusio usually below 8
White - 0.01. Nada. This means she has no ANC - no ability to fight infection
Platelets - 7. Transfusion ahead.
So, with all of those factors, they decided they wanted to watch her very closely and sent us to ICU.
When going to ICU, they send in an ER team to transport and it is quite a spectacle and somewhat unnerving. PA & Presley were visibly shaken. I think it is because they have watched too many hospital dramas and only bad stuff happens in scenes like today. I tried to stay out of the team's way and talked to Dr Redell most of the time the whole hubbub was happening. She didn't seem worried so I tried not to worry.
We all went over to PICU and the team took Presley while PA & I checked in. They came and got us when Presley was settled. In all of our cancer escapades, we have never been to ICU. Thank God for that. If our 9th Floor room is Motel 6, the ICU is a roughing it in a tent. No bed (other than Presley's) and no bathroom. And it is loud, open chaos.
Because of all the stuff they are giving Presley, they had to start a secondary IV. Pres was not happy but Randy did a great job & Pres took it pretty well. Then they started the IV barrage of fluids, antiBiotics, blood pressure medicine, platelets and blood. Her fever spiked to 103 and they gave her tylenol & much to my dismay - morphine for her pain.
Currently, it is 11:00pm. She is sleeping and has finished platelets & blood and they have backed off her BP medicine in half. With a little luck, we may get moved to the 9th floor tomorrow whuch would be home, sweet, home.
She will be in until Sunday afternoon at the least. The blood cultures take 48 hours to determine infection & how to treat.
Thanks to everyone for the texts, calls, emails, fb, thoughts & prayers. Will keep you updated.
12/1/09 - 12/6/09: (Update from Eric) Frogs in the Fiesta Bowl. TCU, TCU, TCU.
I last left the update with Presley going to the clinic on Tuesday for more dauno and then an admission for cytoxin on Wednesday.
Tuesday was uneventful as Presley was already accessed and the dauno push was quick and easy. They were home about three and scheduled for a direct admission on Wednesday. I was in Minneapolis on business and surprisingly enough it wasn't bitterly cold.
Wednesday was a wild day. Peri & Presley got the call from the hospital for admission around 1:00 and headed down to TCH. At about the same time, I was headed to the Minneapolis airport to catch an earlier flight and head straight to the hospital to relieve PA and take the night shift. Presley got admitted and was greeted by several of her favorite nurses - Debbie, Jennifer and Lindsey, her nurse for the rest of the day shift. PA said Presley was very quiet and reserved on the trip down to TCH and thought she was a little down. Debbie, Jennifer and Lindsey helped her mood immensely and she fell into her social self and roamed the floor until it was time for chemo.
I, on the other hand, was not having such a great time in MSP. We got to the airport early and I paid $50.00 to confirm a seat on an earlier flight. Things were looking good. Then, as we backed away from the gate, the tell-tale sign of trouble - the engines powered down and then back up again. Finally, the pilot informed everyone that there was a problem with the de-icer on one of the engines and they were heading back to the gate to check it out. I'm no aeronautical engineer, but I think we need de-icers in Minnesota in December. "Bye Bye Miss American Pie" suddenly burst into my head.
They couldn't get the problem fixed, so my co-workers and I got off the plane and got in line to catch the next flight - our original one. Sorry, they had already filled our original flight and so we got the next one. I finally arrived home around 10:45, picked up Piper and PA stayed with Presley - with no pajamas, make-up or clothes for the next day. Not the way we planned it.
Treatment on Thursday went as planned and I took over my usual night shift that night. Presley felt relatively well and if no surprises would be discharged Friday afternoon. However, the whole hospital was abuzz about the possibility of snow on Friday. And for once, the weatherman was correct. Presley & I woke up to snow flurries outside the 9th floor of TCH.
Presley's cytoxin treatment went as planned - 4 doses over a 48 hour period - and she got discharged and home around 2:00 Friday afternoon. Just in time to hunker down for the huge winter storm.
I grew up in SE Colorado and the Panhandle of Oklahoma and Texas, so I have seen snow, snowstorms and blizzards. However, I absolutely ABHOR cold weather and snow usually comes along with cold weather. The climate in Houston is partly why I love living here so much. There really isn't much of a winter, in fact, it was 84 degrees last New Year's Day, so we heated the pool and let the kids swim. I don't mind blistering heat and humidity really doesn't bother me either, so, the only way I live in a better climate is to become fluent in Spanish or Portuguese and figure out a different currency. That's not really in my skill-set, so Houston is where I will continue to call home for a while.
On the other hand, most Houstonians don't see snow on a regular basis and driving in wet, snowy or icy conditions terrifies most of them. I arrived at the office on Friday around 9:30am after leaving Presley & PA at TCH. I met a couple of my co-workers on the way as they were headed out. What? Then Shell being the safety conscious company it is, puts out an email about the inclement weather and shuts the office down at 1:00. WTH? So, let me get this straight. Sure, there are flakes of snow in the air, but melting as they hit the ground and a "snow day" is declared.
I talk with PA and she is headed home around that time and traffic is pretty heavy. She asks what I plan on doing. I am staying until I get my work done because I am travelling on Monday. So, I hold my 2:00 meeting to a limited audience of dedicated car care marketing and sales people - about 10 people total and work until 5:45 and hit the road home. It was like driving home at 3:00 am. Not a soul on the road. I could have gone 150 mph on the Hardy Toll Road and no one would ever know or tried to stop me.
The winter storm amounted to a dusting of snow, 32 degrees, and whole bunch of panicked Houstonians.
Sorry, I got sidetracked. Presley handled the treatment fairly well but this mixture of chemo has side effects that kick her butt. She was tired all weekend long and had some pain in her mouth that we treated with a lidocaine mouthwash to numb it. She also has serious bone, back and joint pain after this chemo. She has been taking Tylenol w/ Codeine for the pain and we have been giving her massages and using a pain cream called Bio-Freeze. It helps some, but it will take some time until she feels 100% again after this round.
On Sunday, we finished up the weekend by going to our friend Blake's Cancer Free celebration. We met Blake and his parents, Jim & Deana on the 9th floor during our first couple of weeks of treatment. I have written about them several times before and we have all become close friends. They had a big luncheon and party over in Cypress and had 100 or so friends, relatives, kids, doctors and nurses in attendance. Blake looked good and Jim & Deana put together a slideshow and presentation and recognized the people who had given them so much love and support in their battle against Blake's cancer.
Presley didn't feel well but was a trooper and we stayed for a couple of hours. We were leaving and Jim & Deana brought us up and told the story of how we met and how thankful they were for us. Amazing. They were the ones who were veterans on the floor and in the clinic and showed us the ropes. I hope we can give back to them as much as they helped us.
Natalia's parents, Dan & Melissa, also made an appearance. I can't imagine the thoughts and emotions they were experiencing at this celebration. Jim & Deana were celebrating the health of their son and Dan & Melissa are still mourning the loss of their daughter. Strength, courage, love and faith is all I can say to describe them.
Monday, Presley goes back to TCH clinic for another vincristine push and then will be done for the rest of the week.
Thanks to Team Presley for all the emails, calls, fb, thoughts, and prayers. They truly lift us up.
11/26 - 11/30/09: (Update from Eric) Back to reality......
After a great holiday weekend, Presley and Peri-Ann headed back down to TCH this morning for treatment and a couple of procedures. Of course, the clinic was a total zoo after the holiday weekend and delays were going to be the norm for the day. The appointment was scheduled for 8:20 and they arrived on time despite the Monday, rainy day traffic. However, they didn't get to Band-Aid junction until 10:00 to check vitals, get her port accessed, and draw labs.
They saw Cara (nurse practitioner) at 10:30 and then headed to PACU for a lumbar puncture and bone marrow aspiration.
More waiting. Presley finally went back for the spinal and BMA around 1:45. Once she woke up in recovery, they headed back to clinic for a push of vincristine and daunorubicin. They finally left the clinic around 4:30 and of course, the valet couldn't find PA's car.
Dr. Redell called me around 4:45 to tell me the initial results of the bone marrow aspiration. No leukemia cells. We should get more results back in the next few days but it was definitely positive news. What does it mean? It means Presley is still in remission and the chemo is working. We have a long way to go, but we are headed in the right direction.
Tomorrow, Presley & Peri-Ann head back to the clinic for another push of dauno. Wednesday, she will be admitted for 4 doses of cyclophosphomide over a 48 hour period. She has had this drug before and handled it fairly well. The major side effect was sores in her mouth and throat. We hope to be discharged on Friday.
Thanksgiving was last Thursday and it cracks me up that people take this one day out of the year to reflect and give thanks. So, in that spirit, here is six things I am thankful for:
My wonderful family -- without them, I am nothing.
My lovely wife -- she has taken on the biggest job of her life and done so selflessly.
Piper's sense of humor and outlook on life. She keeps things interesting for sure.
Presley's courage.
My job. I couldn't work for a more caring and giving company.
Finally, you - Team Presley. Thank you for caring enough about my daughter and family to read these updates, send words of encouragement, adopt us, and saying prayers. It is humbling to know you care so much. We are eternally grateful and forever in your debt.
11/18/09 - 11/25/09: (Update from Eric) Sorry to leave everyone hanging.....
Presley got discharged from TCH on Friday morning around 8:00am. We were hoping to get out on Thursday evening but a lesser version of the Boydstun Hospital Law kicked in of course. Wednesday and Thursday were very good days for Presley in TCH. She felt well, spent most of her time roaming the halls and her MTX level was dropping to normal levels.
To be discharged, a patient must be BELOW 0.10 MTX level. During her first MTX treatment, it took Presley two weeks to clear the MTX but only a week (which is normal) this past treatment. We were hoping that she would clear Thursday night and Andrea (our bestest Nurse Practitioner Buddy) made sure everything was in place if she got below 0.10. My truck repairs were finished so I left work Thursday evening and caught a ride home with Jimmy P to get it. Then, I went to the house, picked up Piper, so she could see Presley and headed back to TCH. They had drawn blood at 4:00 and her level was 0.14 so we were going to draw again at 8:00 to see if she could be discharged.
Piper & I met Presley on the 16th floor because they still won't siblings under 13 on the floor. Piper & Presley hung out at Radio Lollipop for a while and then we headed down to get Presley's blood draw. Peri-Ann & Piper headed home because they were heading out to Lubbock in the morning and still needed to pack. Koko (our night nurse) drew Presley's lab and put a double stat on it so we could get it back ASAP and get out of there.
Boydstun Hospital Law kicked in -- It usually takes an hour or hour and a half to get labs back. MTX is usually the last number to return so I kept checking in with Koko. Presley was tired and drifted off to sleep. Finally, at 10:00pm (two hours) I asked her to call down to the lab. The lab had not even run it yet.
So, when Koko came in the room at 11:00, it didn't matter to me one way or another what the level was -- 0.11. We could draw again at 2:00am but by the time the labs got back and all discharge papers signed, we would be home at 4:30 in the morning. I decided to wait until the 5:30 draw and just get out of there as soon as possible in the morning. Presley was upset but drifted back to sleep quickly.
So we were home by 9:30am Friday, and Peri-Ann & Piper were off to the airport to fly to Lubbock.
Lubbock -- Peri-Ann is an alumnus of Texas Tech and Papa coached there with Spike for 15+ years. On Saturday, Tech was playing Oklahoma and Coach Leach could pass Spike as the winningest coach in TT history. So, the alumni put together a reunion for Spike and all of the former coaches and players. There were festivities prior to and after the game on Saturday. Our friend, Allison Davis Gosney, took the opportunity to host a Team Presley drive and fundraiser to coincide with all the events. So, Peri-Ann & Piper flew to Lubbock to represent and reminisce.
Both had a great time seeing friends, coaches and players past and Tech would up spanking Oklahoma which was probably good for PA's safety. She had been to two previous TT games this season and they were 0-2. If they would have lost against OU, they might have taken back her degree.
Meanwhile, back at the hacienda......
Presley's main goal for early release was so she could go to Alex Beard's belated birthday party. Alex had postponed her party two months until Presley was healthy enough to attend. Sweet kid. It also just so happens, that her party was going to be the "Twilight: New Moon" opening weekend. So Beth picked up Presley around 2:00 and I was on my own for the evening. Hello Rico's. Early Evening. That's all I can say.
I picked Presley up Saturday morning from Mike & Beth's and we headed home. PA sent an email from a friend wanting to know if we wanted Rockets tickets for Saturday night. Presley & I were in. Presley painted most of the day and I watched football and did some grocery shopping. Around 4:00, Presley came downstairs and had her face painted with an "H" & "R" in Rockets colors. She had also made a spirit stick from a paper towel roll. I didn't want to but I had to break the news to her. She had painted her face while looking in the mirror and had the R&H on the wrong sides of her face. So, she washed it off and repainted. Perfect this time.
We headed downtown and had a nice Italian dinner at Little Napoli, then headed to the game. We picked up the tickets at will call and went in the Toyota Center. We had to get some Rockets gear and of course, she had to get Rockets gear with "bling bling". After we got geared up, we headed down to our seats. 2ND ROW BEHIND THE ROCKETS BENCH. I have never been that close to the bench even when I played in high school. We watched the shoot around, marveled at the size of the players and had a great view of the Rockets Cheerleaders. Quit -- Presley used to cheer so we evaluated their technic - wink wink.
During the fourth quarter, we were watching the game and the guy in the row behind us tapped Presley on the shoulder. She was on the big screen on the scoreboard. Beautiful Presley with her Rockets painted face on the big screen. Perfect ending to a perfect day.
Ernest -- Thank you so much for the tix and thinking of our family. Presley had the time of her life and we are forever grateful and in your debt.
Sunday, Presley spent the day with the Palamara's while I played golf in Jimmy P's son's hockey team golf tourney. I was awful as usual but we had a blast. Peri-Ann & Piper got home late and we all crashed from a very eventful and fun weekend.
Monday & Tuesday were back to normal with school, work and chores to get ready for the Thanksgiving Holiday.
I love the holidays, but this year Thanksgiving has a much more special meaning and importance. I'll give a special Thanksgiving update tomorrow.
Thanks to everyone for all of the emails, calls, texts, fb, thoughts and prayers. Each and everyone means so much and lifts us up.
11/17/09: (Update from Eric) Metamorphosis.....
As you read from Presley & Peri-Ann's update, Presley has had quite a run the past 10 days. The real Presley is back. Bright, positive, funny, and even a little 12 year old angst. Of all the little victories in the past 6 months (yes, it will be 6 months on Thursday), the full day at school was the most impressive and emotional for me. I tried not to let anyone see it, but there were inopportune moments, my emotions were at the surface and part of them leaked out.
For healthy children (Piper included), school is loved, hated, anticipated, and dreaded all in the same breath especially this time of year. The novelty of the new class, teachers, and challenges has worn off and repetition and boredom have set in. The holiday break gives them something to look forward to yet makes them even more anxious to get to the much needed and deserved break.
Presley, on the other hand, probably wants school to be a part of her every day life more than anything right now. It is a symbol of normalcy and a place of freedom and fraternity. She has wanted to go for the past 3 months, but she finely had the physical strength and courage to act upon her desire. She wasn't going to let her fears (or mine or PA's) stop her from having a "normal" day in her life.
I won't deny it. I was afraid of her being at school all day. It had nothing to do with her physical condition or the social or emotional aspects of her visit. My fear was centered around one thing - sick kids. When PA & Pres told me of her plan, all I said was "you are going to bathe in Purell and keep a mask handy if there is even a sniffle in the classroom". The first Swine Flu awareness was the reason Presley was diagnosed. I'll be damned if I will let the Swine Flu put her in danger now.
So, she had an "awesome" day, even handling a couple of taunts from other kids about her appearance. Yep, a kid took a verbal swipe at her head cover. She handled it very well according to Peyton and it didn't cause Presley to bat an eyelash (did Peri-Ann tell you they are growing back). Already, she has learned that her appearance is temporary and wears it like a badge of honor.
Peri-Ann brought you up to speed on the admission and to the point of the "hanging of the chemo" (sounds like my high schools Christmas ceremony). They hung a full dose of Methotrexate Monday around 8:00pm. We were lucky to draw Rich for the night nurse. He is the senior nurse on the floor and has been a huge source of information regarding treatment, patients rights, etc. He is also good friends with Dr. Thompson who will be monitoring Presley's levels during the methotrexate treatment. Plus, Rich is the only other source of testosterone on the floor. Even when he isn't Presley's nurse, he comes and hangs out. We have been accused of having a little "Bromance" - whatever the hell that is.
Since we were successful with the 70% dose a couple of weeks ago, the docs decided to go back to a full 5 gram dose and see if Presley's body could handle it. They were to check levels at Hour 2 and Hour 6 and let Dr. Thompson know the levels so he could adjust if needed. Hour 2 levels were 43.76 MTX (OK) and 0.5 Creatinine (kidney function) - good. Dr. Thompson gave orders to check levels at Hour 4. Hour 4 levels were 99.35 MTX (not good) and 0.4 Creatinine (good). The huge spike concerned him so he instructed Rich to reduce dosage and increase fluids to flush the MTX and keep it at acceptable levels.
Thank goodness that he was keeping close tabs - Presley started to get sick around 1:30 from the MTX levels. It was only once but I had visions of the first go round in my head. Rich checked levels at 5 am and they were back down to acceptable levels. Dr. Thompson settled on a rate that would not endanger Presley and we were off to the races. At 8PM tonight, they took down the bag, and we started the hydration portion of the treatment. Her MTX level was 66.42 which is higher than the last go round's at the 24 hour mark, but still within good range.
Presley is feeling surprisingly well and actually made the rounds this afternoon and has been eating well. We are at the mercy of the numbers now for discharge, but hopefully we will be out before the weekend.
Thanks to everyone for the calls, emails, texts, blogs, thoughts and prayers.
11/10/09 - 11/16/09: (Update from Peri and Presley)
(Mom) WINNER WINNER CHIKEN DINNER........................Stephenville Yellowjackets win bi-district game, Tarleton Texans win playoff game, TCU continues being undefeated, Piper wins Cobra volleyball tourn, and Presley rides the bus and attends school ALL day on Friday. Is there much more to say?
(Presley) It was a winning weekend for everyone. Pip won, Jackets won, Texans won and I also won at reaching my goal at staying at school all day.
(Mom) We have had a good 10 days since being discharged on the 6th. Last week Presley did lots of catching up in school and tried to do some extra assignments, knowing that she would miss again this week. Ms. Auld came Mon - Thurs and Ms. Youkum came Tues thru Thurs., so needless to say there was not much of anything else done those days. We were able to meet Debbie for dinner on Thurs. night, in which, she gave her her birthday present. Yes, all you men are going to very jealous - its a signed picture of 2 individual Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders and a group picture. Eric keeps threatening that he is going to take it to work so he can drool over it all day. Good Luck Shell with him getting any work done!!
(Presley) I got an amazingly awesome birthday present from Debbie the other day. She gave me a signed picture of the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. It is so going in the media room with all my signed footballs.
(Mom) Wednesday Presley and I were hanging out watching the CMA's (country music awards) for all you head bangers, when out of the blue Presley says "Mom I think I am going to go to school on Friday" so I asked her if she would like to go in the am or pm. She replies "I'm going the whole day and I'm riding the bus". After my inital shock, I said we would talk to dad and think about it. Naturally, I was terrified at the thought of her being on the bus and honestly thought there was no way of her making it a whole day. So, Friday morning came and the child who I used to have to literally pull out of the bed for school was up, dressed, and ready to go by 7:30 - the bus doesn't come until 8:15. She asked if I would take her to Peyton's so she could get on the bus with her, off we went. She did call once during the day for some Tylenol and the nurse was able to give her some and said she DID NOT want me to pick her up. So long story short, she got home off the bus around 4:30 and hungout with girlfriends until later that evening. She had a wonderful day!!
(Presley) During the CMA's I said," I think I'm going to go to school on Friday." My mom said,"Okay, when do you want to go?" I told her, " I want to try to stay all day." So I couldn't believe it either, but I did. I was so proud.
(Mom) As you read above, it’s pretty obvious what our weekend was consumed with - SPORTS. Thurs. night we had text updates for the Yellowjackets big win. Sat. morning we got up and went to support Piper in her Cobra volleyball tourn. The girls play 3 on 3 and there were 4 total teams. Her team wins the 1st two and then loses the 3rd one, which had to have Presley fill in because one girl had to leave. Needless to say, tears started swelling in Piper's eyes when she saw Presley's team was beating her. Finally, in a playoff game, Piper's team wins and she is prancing around with her winning certificate asking all the other girls, "what does yours say"? Yes, you can say this child is just "a little" competitive. Acts just like her dad:-) Then later that afternoon we received text updates on the Texans - wow what a win!! Finally on Sat. night we were able to watch the Frogs, holy cow, they looked awesome and we were able to see Andy Dalton flash the blue bracelet in warm-up.
(Presley) I would just have to say one thing about Piper. She is REALLY competitive!!! She won her tournament and she was asking the losing girls what theirs looked like. We watched the Frogs play on Sat.. It was so awesome to see the QB (Andy Dalton) wearing my bracelet and now SuperFrog has one of my bracelets. I always wanted to be famous, but not this way.
(Mom) So, back to TCH this morning to get accessed, counts, see doctor, and hopefully a room available to start chemo. Presley and I arrived around 10:30, checked in and were sent back to the infusion room. Once we are back, Niree comes and tells us they have 8 rooms available but also have 8 admissions scheduled (not counting if anyone comes through the ER. They get priority). She calls us back to get accessed, I must admit this has been one of her better accesses - quick and over with. Now, we wait for results, she's good, so now the room drama starts. Oh my goodness, Niree comes up to us and says your going to room 923, are you kidding? She laughs and says nope your on your way!! So, we started hydration and were in our room by 1:30 - this is has NEVER happened before. I'm so hoping this is a good sign for entire stay. We get to our room and find out we have one of our favorite nurses, she told us they are already making her chemo and should start around 7:30. So, Presley started decorating her door, roamed the halls to said Hi to everyone and is now doing a craft for her room. It’s been a good day!!
(Mom) We wish we could give each and everyone of you HUGE HUGS for your daily text, emails, phone calls, support but mostly your love and support.
(Presley) XOXOXOXO to everyone. Love ya. Thanks for all the prayers.
Please give a little tug to your bracelet for uneventful & successful round of chemo.
Much love to you all!
11/6/09 - 11/9/09: (Update from Eric) How much is Presley worth..........
Well, according to the officiating crew of the Mountain West Conference - 15 yards.
During the TCU vs San Diego State game on Saturday, TCU Quarterback Andy Dalton got a 15 yard Excessive Celebration penalty after he scored a first quarter TD and then pointed to his Team Presley bracelet for the cameras. It was an extremely nice gesture from an exceptional young man and athlete.
It made Presley's day!! Thanks Andy for showing love and support.
It also got some press and conversation on the broadcast. http://www.star-telegram.com/sports/story/1745352.html
Presley was discharged from TCH on Friday morning after what seemed like an eternal wait for the docs to make rounds. She is feeling well and definitely has an appetite because the first thing she wanted to do was go to lunch with Grammy and eat pizza. She spent the afternoon and evening hanging out with Peyton and Lindsey.
Saturday was another good day. We went to Peyton's soccer game and then had the Schard's and Bortmess' over later that evening. Nicole spent the night and they hung out all day Sunday making jewelry and vegging out.
Monday brought her back to reality with some schoolwork but still a good day. She is feeling well and her energy has been pretty good.
We have the week off as we don't go back to clinic or TCH until next Monday provided she stays fever free. On Monday, we will start at clinic and then get admitted for the second round of methotrexate treatment in this block. Since she did so well with it this round, they will probably raise her dose back to the 5.0 grams she took during the first go round. I am still nervous about how her body will react, but the docs feel confident she can handle the dose and don't predict any problems. They seem to forget about Boydstun Hospital Law - we NEVER do.
Thanks to all for the fb messages, calls, emails, texts, thoughts and prayers. They brought her through unscathed last week. More will be needed next week. A very special thanks to my mom for coming down and helping us out with Piper, Presley and everything else during her treatment.
11/5/09:
(Update from Eric) 7:15am.
Yes, Pat Sajek, I would like to buy a vowel. I would like to buy a "K"..........
I write this as I sit in TCH 907 waiting for the team of doctors to round and sign our discharge papers. I want to say it's a slam dunk that we will be out of here, but I have been proved wrong too many times.
Yesterday morning, the doctors made rounds and Presley's MTX was 0.18 and her creatinine was 0.4. Dr. Ariwelling said they would check counts late in the afternoon again, give her a blood transfusion to get her red levels to normal, and would be out of here. She would sleep in her own bed. Yeah, well, he should have known to make such a prediction.
I left work a little early to come load up all the stuff and get Presley home. Kami had just drawn labs and we were waiting on results to make sure the MTX level was below 0.10. The lab was having problems and it took a little while. Finally, she called down, got the results and wrote them down on a piece of paper and showed Presley. 0.9!!! Woohoo!!! Top her off with some blood and we are out of here!!!
Kami went to type the blood and Boydstun Hospital Law stikes again. Her potassium level (K) is 2.3, well below normal. She is worried they won't discharge us at that level. They decide to give her the transfusion (it takes about 3 hours total) and then check again to see if the lab was off for some reason. So, at 8:30, they do a blood draw, send it to the lab and mark it "stat". I'm getting good at these hospital terms. Marissa (our night nurse) brings us back the news. 2.8 - not high enough to discharge and she has called the resident to write "K" in her fluids and an oral dose. Poor Marissa. She seems to always draw the short straw and deliver bad news. It has happened a couple of times before.
So, the new resident comes by, says she is writing the potassium fluids and oral dose and that we should be discharged tomorrow morning (today). Another night in TCH!!! I don't know who was more upset, Presley or me. This is around 10:30pm. So at 11:30, we are still waiting on the "K". Marissa has called the pharmacy 10 times and they either hang up on her or tell her it is "on the way" or "in the tube". Finally, she gets Rich to call down and check. Someone fesses up that they don't even have the order in the system. What the heck?
So, we send it back down "stat" and 30 minutes later a pharmacist delivers it personally. Marissa goes to hang it and it is the wrong concentration of potassium. 2K instead of 6K. So we do it all again. Finally, around 12:45am we get the right fluids and the oral dose - the wrong oral dose. It's the liquid instead of the pill. Marissa warns me it tastes awful and asks if we want to call the pharmacy again for the capsule. I pour a little into a dose cup and taste it. HOLY UNDERWEAR!!! It is putrid, but I mix it with a box of orange juice and it just tastes like salty orange juice. So, between the salty orange juice and the salty tears, Presley has plenty of sodium AND "K".
She is back to sleep quickly and I finally lay down around 1:30am.
Marissa comes in at 4:00 am and draws labs. An hour later, the "K" is at 4.1 and all we have to do is wait on the Dr. Ariwelling.
Tick, tock, tick, tock.............
11/4/09:
(Update from Eric) Holding our breath.......
Presley has had a very good 24 hours since the methotrexate dosage ended. Her creatinine (kidney function) has remained at 0.5 which is close to normal for her. The methotrexate is also clearing quickly. She was at 43.85 at hour 6 and when they finally did labs after the treatment, she was already down to 0.85 so she was never in any real danger. The last draw before we left her tonight was 0.53.
Don't worry, we didn't leave her there alone. Grammy took over tonight so I could see Piper, and Peri-Ann and I could sleep in the same bed. Like PA really wants to hear me snore....
Although the rapid drop in MTX is a good sign, we have found out the hard way, that getting below 0.10 is the difficult part. It takes much longer between 0.20 and 0.10 than 43.85 to 0.85. We are keeping our fingers crossed though.
She hasn't been sick but has been very tired due to the chemo and a low red blood cell count. Her attitude is what I would describe as "between despondent and surly". She is really only interested in sleeping and iCarly depending on the episode. Good luck Grammy. You will probably deserve combat pay for tonight although you deserve some attitude for trying to spoil her rotten for 12 straight years.
No predictions on when she will be discharged. She will need a blood transfusion in the next 24-48 hours.
SIDEBAR -- We suffered another family loss today. "Uncle Dan" Rowe passed away this morning around 7:30 am after a brief illness. "Uncle Dan" and "Aunt Candy" are surrogate grand parents in Norman, OK. PA used to work for Candy at Steve Owens & Associates in Norman and we spent a lot of weekends at the Rowe Retreat. "Uncle Dan" spoiled Presley rotten - I can't sugar coat it. It was like Grammy or Papa's house.
Dan & Candy taught her to swim and made her the "fish" she is today. Presley spent the evening in the bathtub with Dan during the tornado that destroyed OKC in 2000. We spent holidays, birthdays and some normal weekdays and weekends that wound up being special with them. We spent a wild & painful (for Dan) weekend in Lake Tahoe together as well.
We hadn't seen "Uncle Dan" for a couple of years so we were going to meet them in Las Vegas the last weekend of May this year. Presley was diagnosed the weekend before and we wound up cancelling. It broke our heart to tell them, but not as much as Dan & Candy's with the news about Presley. I hope that Dan is watching over Presley right now and whispering guidance and encouragement in her ear.
I am heartbroken at the loss of my friend. I love you Dan and will miss you dearly.
Thanks to all for the fb, emails, texts, thoughts and prayers. They give us strength beyond belief.
11/3/09:
(Update from Eric) Day 2 and chemotherapy is complete.....
Presley started and finished her 24 hour High Dose Methotrexate treatment this evening around 6:00pm. Methotrexate is the drug that caused the severe reaction and near renal failure the first time it was given in June / July. For this dose, they brought in Dr. Thompson to consult and reduced the dosage from 5 grams to 3.5 grams over a 24 hour period. We started yesterday around 3:30 pm with a 1 hour dose and then hung the big bag.
As I stated in a previous update, Dr. Thompson is writing a paper on methotrexate and the unpredictability of the reaction with patients and the consequent unpredictability of the second dose. Presley had a severe reaction during the first few hours of the first treatment. She was immediately sick and her creatinine (liver function) sky rocketed. They had to stop the infusion and started leucovorin (rescue drug) immediately. Even after they got her out of the woods, it took her two weeks to clear it to a safe level. Some patients get one or the other, but very rarely do both situations happen at the same time (Boydstun Hospital Law).
So, for this treatment, Dr. Thompson ran labs at hour 2 and hour 6 to determine how her body was metabolizing the methotrexate. At hour 2, Presley was at 0.5 creatinine and 40.34 MTX concentration. These were safe levels. 1.2 & 65.0 are the high ends of the spectrum and at these points cause alarm. Hour 6, Presley was still at 0.5 creatinine and 43.85 MTX concentration. Great numbers for hour six for Presley. During the first treatment she was at 1.0 and 50 at hour 6. Our nurse, Caroline, called Dr. Thompson with the numbers. We spoke and he felt confident that she would not have any problems with this dosage and was confident enough to not run any more labs until the end of the infusion. I did not share his confidence and slept with one eye open next to Presley.
Nothing. No problems. Nada. Thank goodness. She actually got up three times during the night and didn't even need my assistance.
Peri-Ann took over for the day shift and it was relatively uneventful. Presley slept most of the day and only got sick a couple of times toward the end of the treatment. She woke up for a while and did a craft from Radio Lollipop. She tried to eat a little bit but her heart wasn't in it. She did eat a part of a chocolate ice cream bar, go figure. Currently, she is sleeping peacefully. She is a little puffy because she is retaining fluids from the MTX treatment. They are hydrating her and will start leucovorin to help her clear the MTX. She must get below 0.10 before they will discharge us. This is the other wild card in the MTX treatment. There is no way to predict how quickly she will clear it.
On another note, our friend Johnathon is getting discharged tomorrow for a week of R&R at home. They have been in the hospital for 10.5 weeks attempting to get him in remission for AML. He is still searching for a bone marrow donor, so please encourage people to get tested for a match.
Thanks for all of the fb, texts, emails, calls, thoughts and prayers.
10/29/09 - 11/2/09:
(Update from Eric) Checking into Hell......
Reality bites. Not the 90's angst movie where Ethan Hawke was a slacker and felt the world owed him something, but reality. Kristin will make fun of me but "reality, reality". Presley has had the best three week run of this cancer roller coaster and it all comes to a screeching halt Monday around noon. I don't mean to sound negative but it's tough to get your daughter back and then check her into the hospital and kick her butt with chemotherapy again.
We had a great weekend. Thursday she turned the big 12 and we went to dinner to celebrate. She chose the Olive Garden. So, we braved a torrential downpour and enjoyed a nice Italian dinner with Grammy. Just the five of us. Nothing fancy. Food, wine, laughter. Is there anything better? She ordered fettucine with marinara sauce, ate the middle out of 12 breadsticks and then had molten chocolate cake for desert. Piper had pizza and a HUGE piece of raspberry cheesecake. I consequently banned her from deserts when I had to carry her up the stairs. That kid is thick.
Friday morning, Presley & the gang went to Clinic to get her counts checked and get set up for admission on Sunday night. As usual, it was a total cluster. If it wasn't for Niree, PA & Presley would still be sitting there. They arrived for their appointment at 8:45 am and the lobby was total chaos. So, they checked in and headed for the sanctuary of the infusion room. They ran into Heather & Caroline and eventually wound up sitting there until 10:15 when Peri went to the desk to check on their status. Guess what? They had it totally screwed up. They had Presley as an admission for Friday and no schedule for Band-Aid junction. I don't know how this always happens but it does. So, they were going to put her at the back of the line for BAJ and PA & Pres would have sat there until mid-afternoon to get blood draws.
Niree saved the day and said “No way”. She took Presley back to a room and would do the blood draws herself. They hadn’t even taken her vitals so she had to do that as well. Now, Presley has a reputation of being dramatic when she gets stuck so the entire clinic & 9th floor take special care and precautions when they draw blood or give an injection. Niree took extra care on Presley’s arm and was doing fine until her scrub sleeve caught the syringe and yanked it out of her arm. Blood everywhere and she has to stick Presley again. She was humiliated and the rest of the staff wouldn’t even talk to her. Veronica (whom is supposed to still be on light duty) was going to do the stick because she was so upset about the mishap.
Anyway, Niree got it done and then hunted down Dr. Redell and pulled her in for the visit.
Counts OK. Everything is set up for Sunday admission. Time to blow the doors off this popsicle stand. I meet the girls & Grammy at the house @ 1:00 and we are headed to Stephenville for the Yellowjackets game against Arlington Seguin. Load the car, drop off the dog at B&M’s and hit I-45 North. We get about 200 yards and get right in the middle of a traffic jam. Dead stop on I-45. This is awesome!! The sign said Big Wreck in Shenandoah!! Hey, we’re in Shenandoah. Finally started to pick up. No wreckage we could see. Traffic is a force of nature like tornados and hurricanes. No way to predict and tough to stay out of the way.
For those of you who don’t know, Peri-Ann’s brother, Greg, coaches football at Stephenville High School. It is a very nice community about 90 miles southwest of Fort Worth. They have a great program, full of tradition and won several state championships under now Baylor head coach Art Briles. This is Greg’s second stint at Stephenville. He was there for a year and coached current Philadephia Eagles backup QB Kevin Kolb and Ole Miss starter Jevon Snead. Yep, I’m name dropping and you can’t stop me.
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A couple of weeks ago, Stephenville beat their district rival and perennial powerhouse Everman. Coach Joseph Gillespie gave Greg the game ball and said it was for Presley. From that, Coach Gillispie & Coach Jeffery Thompson declared Friday night’s game against Arlington Seguin “White Out Leukemia” night for Team Presley. They got together with Matt Copeland of Barefoot Athletics and created some T-shirts and sold them at the school and around Stephenville. Coach Gillespie called Presley and said if she was able to come to the game, she would be a team captain and be out there for the coin toss.
We rolled into the ‘ville about an hour and a half before kickoff, met Bicki & Papa, got on our “white out” shirts and headed to the stadium. Presley was beside herself with excitement. She slept most of the way so she was recharged and ready for the game. Coach Gillespie, Coach Thompson and Uncle Greg met us at the locker room. It was a beautiful night, cold but clear and calm and Presley was a celebrity for one night.
Peri-Ann & I have tried to figure out a way to move to Stephenville several times over the past few years. And as I finish this story, you will understand why. We made our way to the sideline and Presley met up with the captains of the team and walked out to the center of the field for the coin toss. I can tell you, that I was as proud of Presley at that moment as I have ever been. No insecurities. No doubts. She marched out there like she belonged there and I guess maybe she did. It was magical and comical at the same time. She shook hands with the captains of the other team. They were all 6 foot plus and 200 lbs plus and she didn’t even flinch. She walked off the field with the biggest grin I have ever seen on her face.
Peri-Ann & I looked in the stands and saw white t-shirts everywhere. They sold well over 1000 Team Presley White Out T-Shirts. It was an incredible show of support for a child and family most people in the stands didn’t even know. The game started and Stephenville took it to the Arlington Seguin Cougars. At one point, I was freezing and put on my jacket. The PA announcer then told everyone in the stands to stand up, take off their jackets and white out leukemia for Presley. Incredibly it worked and the jackets scored on the very next play.
At halftime, Presley went to the car to heat up and eat a hot dog. The Yellowjackets were up 28-14. Presley wanted to stand on the sideline with me during the second half. While we were down there, the cheerleaders introduced themselves and took pictures with Presley. She hung out with Uncle Greg & Rivas when the defense was on the field. Then the class of Stephenville High School really showed itself.
It was the fourth quarter, the Yellowjackets had the game in hand with another touchdown and an offensive lineman ran off the field and headed straight toward us. The young man introduced himself as Kody Travis, shook mine & PA’s hand and then told Presley it was an honor to meet her and that she is in his prayers every night. I continue to be amazed at the young people I have met in the past few weeks. They are mature, considerate and light years ahead of me when I was their age. (If we can convince them to vote republican, there is a future for this country).
After the game, Presley was a celebrity. Coaches and players asked to have their picture taken with her. She was gracious, humble and loving every minute of the attention. We learned that one of the senior defensive linemen, T.R. Varnado, even bleached his hair white for Team Presley White Out Leukemia Night. It was quite the topic of conversation around the school and town.
Even on the ride home, we were listening to the post game show on the radio. Kids were calling in, commenting about the game, T.R.’s new hairdo and then would give a shout out to Presley and wish her well. Totally amazing!
Coach Gillespie, Coach Thompson and Matt Copeland,
Thank you for going the extra mile to create one of the best nights of a young girls life. We are honored to be a part of Yellowjacket football, your staff, families and the community of Stephenville, TX. We can never repay you for your kindness and generosity. We are Yellowjackets for Life!
Saturday was a tremendous Halloween. It was a great day of watching football, hanging with Papa, Bicki, Meredith, Grammy, Uncle Greg, Debbie, Rivas, Coach Butler, Kathy & Ty. Piper & Presley decorated Herbie (Papa’s golfcart) with orange and black streamers and went trick or treating. Piper was a very cute and sweet bunny while Presley let her glamorous side show again and was a Diva. Her costume was complete with incredibly long fake, glittery eye lashes and long, black wig. Both of the girls were beautiful and got lots of candy. Presley got tired quickly and was ready to go back to the house. Selfless as ever, she kept going so Piper could enjoy Halloween as much as possible.
Sunday came way too quickly and we loaded up and headed back to Houston. We got the call that our room was ready around 2:00pm while we were driving through Huntsville. So, when we got to the house, we repacked for our stay at the Texas Children’s Hilton for the next few days.
It took everything I had to put Presley in the car and drive her to the hospital. When you are on a high like the past few weeks, it is so difficult to mentally prepare to subject your daughter to chemotherapy again. Presley, on the other hand, was very matter of fact about it. She didn’t object, fight, cry or ask to not go. She even had to prod me to get in the car. She said we don’t want to take any chances of losing our room and delaying treatment. She is 12 years old and much wiser and mature than this 40 year old man.
Today, we had a lumbar puncture (spinal tap) and then started methotrexate around 3:30 pm. So far, so good.
A couple of updates ago, I promised you an update on our buddy Blake. This is the high point of the update. Blake completed his chemotherapy treatment for Ewing’s Sarcoma and has been declared “No Evidence of Disease” – CANCER FREE!!!!! Blake will continue checkups and scans but he has kicked cancer’s butt.
We are so happy for Blake, Jim, Deanna & Toni. I enjoyed reading Jim & Deanna’s updates regarding the victory and read one from Jim aloud to Presley while we were hanging at Subway a couple of weeks ago. I was so overwhelmed with joy for them, I lost my composure a couple of times. Presley seemed to understand and just let me take a moment. I know she looks forward to her own update of the same nature.
Selfishly, I will miss seeing them on the 9th floor and in clinic. Jim & Deanna gave us so much support, advice, love and wisdom from the very beginning of Presley’s diagnosis. We can never repay them for all they have done. Even through times like these, we are fortunate to meet great people in this world. I thank God for giving us the gift of their friendship.
Unfortunately, the line between victory & loss is very, very thin. We lost a brave warrior in the fight against this awful disease this week. Natalia Lopez left this life after a brave battle with AML. She had been fighting the good fight and had relapsed August 29th after a bone marrow transplant from her mother. My heart goes out to Dan & Melissa and the Lopez family. I cannot imagine their grief and to be quite blunt, I do not even want to attempt to fathom their loss.
Natalia was a Rock Star on the 9th floor. She was loved by all of the staff and fellow patients alike. We were fortunate enough to meet and talk with her only a couple of times although we spoke to her parents regularly. Although Presley and Natalia didn’t spend any time together, Presley was acutely aware of her condition. She was always asking Peri for updates. It made it that much harder to break the news of her passing to Presley.
The evening of Natalia’s passing, we sat Presley down and told her the news. She knew that Natalia had been in ICU and had been on a ventilator to help her breathe. She then asked a very peculiar question: “Did they have to put Natalia to sleep?”
We explained Natalia’s condition again, but something about the question bothered Peri-Ann and I. The next day, PA & I talked about it. We realized that the only experience with death that Presley has had was her dog Tigger. Tigger had a stroke right after we moved to Houston and was never the same dog. In fact, he was in such poor shape at one point after we got him out of the vet, that I told Pres that if he didn’t improve in 24 hours, I was going to put him to sleep.
The more I thought of her question and the more I thought of her experience, some things started to make sense. No matter how bad she felt, she fought going to the hospital. I thought it was just her not wanting to disrupt our time at home or just not wanting to be in the hospital. But it continued to gnaw at me, so I talked to her about it again. I asked her if she thought that if she got sick, that we would have to “put her to sleep like Tigger”. I assured her that we would fight and fight and fight no matter how sick she got.
We had a long conversation about Natalia as well. She said she wished she could have spent some time with her and gotten to know her. I believe she saw Natalia as strength and courage and wants to be like her in those respects. Natalia’s T-Shirts said it all about her – “Natalia’s Crew – Being Bald is Beautiful, but fighting leukemia is Brave.
No one ever wants to have conversations like this with their children. I can tell you that I am proud of my daughter’s maturity and ability to handle adversity. Although, she is still very much a child, she has also grown up so much in the past five months. I wish she still had her innocence.
Thanks to everyone for the calls, emails, thoughts and prayers. They truly lift us up.
10/19/09 - 10/28/09: (Update from Eric) Sorry for the long delay in updates. It's been an
insane 10 days and all of them GOOD. The last update was for the blood drive last Sunday afternoon.
We had an INCREDIBLE turnout at the Blood Drive at Xtreme Volleyball. It
started at 11:00am and went to 4:30. The Gulf Coast team never expected
the turnout and we kept them busy until the very last minute. In fact,
they filled some of our open spots a couple of days before the drive with some
of their Commit For Life regular donors. Guess What? We didn't need
them.
We had 37 people donate their blood and 8 counted double as they gave platelets
and double red blood cells for a total of 45. AMAZING!! There were
7 or 8 others that tried and didn't qualify for various reasons or had to be
postponed. According to Gulf Coast, those 37 people will have an impact
for 111 people needing blood or blood products. That's right - 111.
Thank you to:
Mike & Beth Beard - for donating and Beth for setting up the whole thing!!
Kris & Mark Beard - It's ok if you went to the wrong place at first.
Thanks for showing up!!
Joan Landes & Steve. Thanks for sharing your survivor story!!
Kambra Drummond - Thanks for Team Presley Bling
Dennis & Kathy Canciulli / Coach Kristen Zelaya (quit drinking so much
tea), Coach Royce Molitor, Ray Gonzalez, Becky & Brantley Harris, Cliff
Brown,
Candy Johnson, Jill Frazier, Pam Crabb, Amy McFall, J.W. & Lauren Turner,
Tammy Soza (I'm glad you didn't pass out), Christina Bowser, Duane McCoy, Dino
Pinton, Brenda Carruth, Amanda Yeager, Paul Primavera (his blood was burnt
orange for some reason), Scott & Mei-Leng Holland and David Testerman.
It's no wonder Xtreme Volleyball is such a successful club. The girls are
a direct reflection of the character of their coaches and parents. I am
so proud that my family is a part of Xtreme.
Thanks to my peop's for taking time out of their Sunday to show up and donate
the gift of life:
Scott Hagy - you are good people. Thanks to Jim & Blythe for
introducing us.
Sean Charles - Love your family, even though Kristin chickened out and
your kids got me in trouble with the nurse!
Kevin & Amy O'Bryant -- Thanks for coming after your swim meet. I
know you were worn out.
Jarrett Hubert - Gave double & then caught a plane to Vancouver for
work. Did you have the wine like I suggested?
Morgan & Pam Gottsponer -- Cajun blood is good blood.
Wanda Waltrip - She went and gave during the week after finding out on
Monday. You rock, girl.
Finally, Matty B. It's a wonder you still qualified after eating that
size 8 Florsheim shoe!!! Love ya man.
Also, a special thank you to Heather B. During one of our PACU visits at
TCH, the clinic PACU recovery was closing and we still didn't have a bed so
they moved us to the hospital PACU to wait for an opening. Heather's son
was in PACU recovery in the bed beside us. She & PA started talking
and Peri wound up telling her Presley's story. Heather sent Presley a
note on the website later that week and has stayed in contact. She has
four children of her own and still took the time to remember Presley and donate
her time & blood. She just proves there are still good people in this
world you haven't met yet! We are proud to call her a friend.
Presley came up and hung out for a few hours and then we enjoyed a nice dinner
with the O'Bryants. Good Times.
However, as usual, I was unprepared to be standing in the sun for 5 1/2 hours
and at the end of the day, there was a huge 20 pound tomato on top of my
shoulders. It wasn't pretty.
The week following the blood drive was good and relatively uneventful.
Presley went to TCH to get her counts checked on Tuesday. Her ANC was
still a "big fat 20" and her other counts were low as well but no
transfusion was needed. She has maintained her weight and her albumin
& creatinine levels were normal. They felt her counts would start to
improve, but we still had to be careful.
Presley's home bound teacher, Ms. Yoacum, came by for normal lessons.
Presley also went up to the school on Thursday and met with Ms. Wofford to go
over her math homework. Ms. Wofford helped her straighten things out and
Presley really enjoyed the time at school and with her.
Friday, Presley & Peri returned to TCH to check counts again.
Although, there was a short wait, Presley made her counts again and her ANC
improved to 2570. Low but much, much better. Platelets were good
and Red was good as well. Although she got to see Caroline & Kenna,
she wanted to get the heck out of Dodge ASAP. The schools had early release
so she spent the afternoon with Peyton and Lindsey roaming the
neighborhood. We also had a retro "normal" Friday night by
having the dinner at the Schards.
Saturday, PA & I were able to have a little adult time and went to the
Texas Tech - Texas A&M game. We traveled in style with Mike Beard, a
couple of other Aggies and a couple of Tech fans. David S. thanks for
hooking us up. So far this year, we are 0-2 at Tech games. I'm
pretty sure we will be banned from any further contests. We got to see a
lot of old friends and enjoyed the game immensely.
Presley & Piper hung out at Camp Beard and got to hang with Alicia and
Jordan Thomas as well. Jordan is Presley's BFF from Fort Worth and it was
like they haven't been apart for the past 22 months. They took Alicia out
to dinner for her 5th anniversary of her 39th birthday. (I know this will
be edited).
Sunday was an another INCREDIBLE day of love and support. Beth Beard
signed up Team Presley for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society's Light the Night
Walk. It is a night of support for people currently fighting battles
against leukemia & lymphoma, a night of remembrance of those lost, and a
night of hope for the future with a cure. Beth Beard signed Team Presley
a couple of months ago and Team Presley responded in Magnificent fashion.
A week or so before the walk, the LLS notified Beth that Team Presley was one
of the larger teams and had raised quite a bit of money already. So,
Peri-Ann & I decided to hold a little thank you Tailgate party at 3B's
prior to the walk. That's right, we even tailgate before a leukemia walk.
Thank you to everyone who showed up to 3B's and especially to Randy, DJ, Pam,
Bill & Madison for doing such a great job and putting up with our
shanigans.
It was wonderful to see everyone show up, bring their kids and hang out with
us. Next year, we will hold it at a park or at least a place where it is
safer for children to play!!! No casualties, but I was a little nervous
from time to time.
The turnout at 3B's was amazing but the turnout tripled for Team Presley at the
Walk. We were represented by Tom Cox Intermediate, Xtreme Volleyball, and
other special friends. The walk and event was crazy, fun, and very
emotional for me. I can't tell you how many times I almost started crying
looking at all the support and love thrown Presley's way. Presley had a
blast and, in my humble opinion, was a gracious and honorable host. She
ran out of gas before the walk but Jane Stoneking was there with the perfect
vehicle to help her make the course.
Beyond that, I am again amazed at the support and generosity of our
friends. The Light the Night Walk raised $300,000 for the Leukemia &
Lymphoma Society. Team Presley raised $8,700 of that total and was one of
the top teams in 2009. We can't thank everyone enough.
Although I thanked Beth Beard at 3B's, she deserves another huge thank you for
making this happen. Beth & her sister Alicia took us into their
family long before this ordeal began. We were constantly part of their
family events in Fort Worth and Houston. In fact, they had us over for
their family Easter gathering at Bob & Noreen's house the first spring we
moved down to Houston. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Monday was back to normal for everyone except me. I got up at 3:45 am,
drove to Hobby and caught a plane to Amarillo. I got off the plane and it
was 41 degrees and the wind was blowing 25 mph. Hello Panhandle!!
Mom picked me up and we headed to Boise City for the day.
A couple of months ago, an old high school friend called me and told me her
daughter was working toward the Gold Award for Girl Scouts. The Gold
Award is the equivalent of Eagle Scout for Boy Scouts so it is difficult to
achieve and prestigious when achieved. Kayla was required to do a community
service project and they asked if they could hold a bone marrow drive for
Presley. I was touched and honored and said I would help them in any way
I could. So, I was headed back to my home town to speak in front of the
school and community about Presley.
Kayla Mizer is a sophomore at Boise City High School and soon to be a Gold
Award Girl Scout. Although I was impressed with her over the phone and
email, my respect for her doubled after meeting her in person. I don't
remember what I was doing my sophomore year, but I darn sure wasn't spending
100+ hours on a community service project. Sometimes I hear people talk
bad about the younger generation, but if you meet Kayla, you will regain your
hope for the future. We gave our presentation together, and then signed
up 20+ people for the Bone Marrow drive. I say we.... I shot the
bull with people I hadn't seen in years and she signed up 20+ people. She
is also putting up the booth at the football game Friday night & the
community holiday bazaar Saturday. Her goal is 200 people out of a
community of 1200. That's pretty good penetration in marketing terms.
Kim & Billy,
You should be proud of the daughter you are raising. She has a maturity
and presence not found in girls much older. I am honored she chose
Presley and honored to work with her. It is a direct reflection on you
and you should take pride.
Kayla,
Thank you for everything you have done and are doing. Some day soon, you
& Presley will meet and hang out. It will be a great day.
Mom took me back to Amarillo (2 hour drive) and I got back on a plane and home
around 10:00pm. A long, exhausting, but totally rewarding day.
Thanks again to everyone that gave blood, money, love, & support.
It's been a great 3 week run and I hope it continues.
Presley is excited about her birthday on Thursday, going to Uncle Greg's game
on Friday, and Halloween on Saturday.
Thanks for every hug, kiss, call, email, text, thought & prayer.
10/14/09 - 10/18/09: (Update from Eric) When you're on a streak, you don't talk about the streak.... - Crash Davis - Bull Durham
Presley had a good week and an even better weekend.
Wednesday and Thursday were good, uneventful days. She had Ms. Yoacum, her homebound teacher come each day and they got caught up on schoolwork. Even her reading teacher, Ms. Nodarse, gave her an assignment and she began work on it. Presley was feeling well, her strength is ok, and it shows in her attitude.
Friday, Presley & I loaded up and headed to TCH to check her counts and meet with Dr. Redell.
Peri-Ann and "PJ Funnybunny Piper" went to school for the book character parade at Birnham Woods Elementary. Piper had to dress up as a book character and she chose PJ Funnybunny. Grammy had made her a bunny suit for Halloween, so she took full advantage and wore it to school for the book character parade. She was a cute bunny that shakes her tail a little more than what Daddy Funnybunny is comfortable with, but I will let it slide in 1st grade. Once she gets to 12 years old, I will put the clamp down on it and all will be good. Yes, as a matter of fact, the sky is pink & purple in my world when I wake up.
So, Presley & I went to clinic for our 7:45am appointment. Presley & I had also decided to do a "Day in the Clinic" video with her camera. (Thank you C-Store Team again). We want people to see the clinic, the different stations and steps, and a "normal" day in her clinical life.
When we arrived, we were the second or third patients in the clinic, yet it still took them 20 minutes to get us a pager just so they could buzz us to Band-Aid junction. First of all, it is always about 50 degrees in the clinic waiting and infusion rooms and Friday was no different. So after we got our pager, we walked across the elevator bank and hung out in the hall where it is 10 degrees warmer. This is the reason Grammy's blanket program is so popular in TCH.
Anyway, as always, there was some confusion:
1) Presley requested Vernonica to do her blood draw (they asked if she had a preference). After a few minutes, they told us that Veronica doesn't do port access. We explained that we didn't want to access the port unless she needed a transfusion and just do a regular blood draw.
2) Then we found out that Veronica is on light duty because she has tendonitis in her hand. Not good for a phlebotomist.
So we went to Band-Aid Junction and got Cheryl who is always so good to Presley. Then we headed to the infusion room to wait to see Dr. Redell. It didn't take very long and we were in the Pod with Dr. Redell. Her blood counts were good and bad:
Hemoglobin (Red) - 10.0 Low but not transfusion level
Platelets - 13 -- Normal is 150. She needs a transfusion - DRAT!!! (that's old school).
WBC -- 0.22 (Lowest Normal level is 5.00)
ANC -- A "Big Fat 20" as Dr. Redell put it. Lowest normal level is 1500. Yep, she has NO resistance to infection.
Another wrinkle is they are "overbooked" for chemo & transfusions for the clinic today. Dr. Redell says it may be a few hours before they work us in for platelets, but she had already put in the order. She checked Presley out and was happy with her Creatinine and Albumin levels (kidney & liver function).
We discussed the upcoming round of chemo and she told us that she had put off the next round until November 2nd. Since it will be methotrexate (the bad drug), they are pulling in another physician to consult during this round. Dr. Thompson is very respected within the TCH Oncology team and around the country. He is also a pharmocologist which puts his IQ somewhere in the neighborhood of my weight - don't even ask.
From there, Presley and I had some time to kill, so we decided to go across the bridge to the 9th floor and see our little friend Grant. We arrived at the desk and started to sign in to visit. The lady recognized Presley and asked if she was being admitted. I explained we were waiting on them to call us for a transfusion in the clinic and we wanted to see Grant & Melanie. She asked Presley how old she was - What? - and Presley told her 12 in a couple of weeks. The clerk at the deck said she had to be 13 and then called the charge nurse (whom I didn't know) and ask her.
THEY WOULDN'T LET US ON THE FLOOR TO VISIT.
Ok, I get they are trying to avoid flu and infection during this time but we LIVE on that floor almost 50% of the time for the past 5 months. Are you kidding me? If it would have been a different charge nurse, I would have pressed the issue, but instead we were turned away.
So, we head down and decide to walk across the street for a chocolate chip muffin at Starbucks. On the way, we pass a Subway and Presley decides she wants a sandwich. Hello, it is 10:05 in the morning, but there is no way I am going to deny her eating at anytime right now. So, at 10:15, we are sitting in Subway and she is enjoying a ham & turkey sandwich while I read an update about our buddy Blake. (will give update on Blake tomorrow - it's ALL good!). She finishes her sandwich and we head back to TCH. On the way, they call us and tell us they are ready to transfuse - Rock On - we are getting out of here early.
We get back to the 14th floor and get a nice new nurse. They do a good job accessing Presley and we start the platelets transfusion. At the same time, Peri-Ann makes it down to TCH and we meet her in the infusion room. It is then that Dr. Redell and Dr. Thompson come discuss the next round of treatment with all of us.
Long Story Short, here's the plan:
Normally, Presley would go to clinic, then PACU for a bone marrow aspiration and spinal tap, and then be admitted and hang chemo sometime later that night. Dr. Thompson wants to pull creatinine and blood levels one hour and 5-6 hours into the treatment so it works out better if they start the chemo in the morning. (I accused him of liking sleep & he didn't deny it). So, we are being admitted, Sunday evening, November 1st to get the room, get the pharmacy started on the methotrexate and be ready to hang it first thing Monday morning, November 2nd. They said we could just hang out and watch movies or whatever. I said that it would be just like the Hilton, except the food sucks, the room isn't as nice, the bed isn't as comfortable, and the price is about 500 times a normal Hilton rate. Plus I don't get any Hilton points for TCH!!!! They didn't deny that either.
Sorry for the tangent. Once they pull the levels at hour 1 and 5, they will project what the levels will be at hour 12, 18, & 24 and determine a course of action from there. Dr. Thompson is a self-proclaimed "math nerd" and told us he is working on a paper about methotrexate right now. The funny thing about this drug is there is such a different reaction leukemia patients. There are two issues with methotrexate treatment: 1) the toxicity to the kidneys & 2) the time it takes the body to clear the drug.
Dr. Thompson said that there is no way to predict how the patient will handle the toxicity (Presley's was severe) or the ability to clear the drug (Presley took 2 weeks). The wild thing about the drug is the second & third times the drug is administered to the patient, the difference in reaction from the 1st time can be as random as patient reactions. There is no way to predict how Presley will handle treatment number two. He said it is just as likely that she will have no issues and clear it in 24 hours as she is to have another severe reaction. In fact, that is the subject of a paper he & other oncologists are writing.
Anyway, I have a better comfort level with him & Dr. Redell monitoring the situation hour by hour this time. Dr. Thompson is a quirkly little guy. 5'7" of intelligence and passion. He has a wonderful sense of humor and got Presley with a little joke. They told her we would stop the Gleevec during the methotrexate treatment this time and that it would help immensely if she stopped talking to boys and texting on the cell phone as well. Presley's jaw hit the floor. It was comic to say the least. And, like most insanely brilliant people, he has a couple of quirks. The one that got Peri-Ann & I was that his eye glasses were FILTHY. I do not know how the hell he could even see us. We both commented that we were going to get him some microfiber and glass cleaner when we get admitted.
So, Presley & Peri-Ann were able to shake away and get home around 2pm on Friday. We had several invites for dinner, and Presley was invited to stay with some friends, but with her ANC so low, we decided to lock her down for the evening. She got some rest and it was a good thing, because, Saturday, Presley had one of the best days in her ALL life.
Last week, I purchased tickets to the Toyota Texas Bass Classic fishing tournament. Slow down, I haven't gone total redneck. Pat Green was headlining a show after the weigh-in at Lake Conroe Saturday evening. It was an "outdoor" venue - it was a huge field so I wasn't really worried about Presley's ANC in that environment. We headed north with the Bortmess family about 3pm on Saturday afternoon. We had no idea where this was, but we headed out 105, across the lake, and found it. It literally is a field that has been cleared and a small tent city with a huge stage erected.
There were lots of booths with food, drink and of course bass fishing equipment. Boats, mowers, sunglasses, jigs, lures, you name it. I have only fished one time in the last 15 years so I found the libation booth immediately. We moved down to the stage area as they were weighing in the last angler's catches. They would bring in the anglers in a Toyota pickup and then interview them about their day on the lake. It was like a NASCAR interview. They were thanking sponsors and discussing, in detail, docks and logs they fished - successfully & unsuccessfully. Holy Cow. I've never fished without a beer in my hand, so I don't know how these guys do it without meeting my friend Betty Ford.
Anyway, we found a place to sit down and have a decent angle at the stage. Presley & Nicole were restless and said they couldn't see sitting down, so they decided to make their way closer to the stage. Pat Green came out, kicked off the first number and holy cow, he was wearing the Team Presley bracelet that Billy Joe Tolliver gave him a couple of weeks ago. Right hand, picking the guitar, plain as day.
I don't mind telling you, that I got a little emotional. Not because Pat was wearing her bracelet either. It was much more powerful than that. I realized at that point, that a simple effort and gesture on Billy Joe's part just had a HUGE impact on Presley. I've met Billy Joe Tolliver one time in my life and my wife has
probably spoken to him twice in the time we have been married. Yet, he
loves my father-in-law and in turn loves his family, all the way down
to Presley. However, Billy Joe thought enough about Presley to take time out of his busy schedule to track down someone and give him a bracelet. It doesn't sound like much, but how many of us truly do those little things for people everyday.
Presley, Nicole & Brittany were right down front for the entire concert. They were having a ball. Peri-Ann & Jeannie made their way down to the front to join them and they wrote a note to Pat from Presley and handed it to the security guard. The note made it to Pat and after the encore - "Wave on Wave", the security guard came and took Presley, Piper & Peri-Ann backstage to meet Pat. Pres has met him before but this was something entirely different. She was star struck. Pat was being pulled to get to his meet & greet, but he took the time to take pictures and told Presley "I will not take this bracelet off until I hear you are cured". It was a magical evening.
So we made it back to the house late Saturday evening, full of wonder, music & margaritas (not Presley of course - she's a beer drinker. JK).
Today was the Team Presley Commit for Life blood drive @ Xtreme Volleyball. Beth Beard (our everyday angel) set this up with the Gulf Coast Regional Blood Bank. As always, she did an incredible job and we had tremendous turnout. Her husband, Mike and I were the first to donate followed by Ray Gonzalez owner of Xtreme. Ray has been so compassionate and supportive of Presley and we can never thank him enough for keeping Presley top of mind at Xtreme. I cannot wait until the day Presley is back full strength at Xtreme and Ray is pushing her to the limit.
It was a good day and I will go into much more detail in tomorrow's update.
A special thanks to Michael & Carrie Winter for adopting us this week. In another update, I thanked Michael for the 3000 pounds of smoked meat and he and his family continued to give this week. He brought me some of his father-in-law's famous grill seasoning and jelly on Wednesday and then brought a basket of treats for Presley on Friday. We have snickerdoodles as big as my head for the next couple of weeks. Presley is in heaven.
Thanks to all who showed up for the blood drive (I will thank everyone individually tomorrow). Another huge thanks to those for the emails, texts, calls, FB, thoughts & prayers. We love and appreciate you all.
10/12/09 - 10/13/09: (Update from Eric) So far so good......
Presley is still at home and feeling quite well. Monday, she & Peri-Ann went to the clinic to check her counts. It was total mayhem at the clinic and they didn't even get to Band-Aid junction until an hour after their appointment. The goods news is Presley got to see her friends Grant & Blake.
When they finally got to Band-Aid junction, PA & Pres informed them that it was Day 9 on the needle she had accessed. 10 days is the max for a needle before they
deaccess, clean the area and reaccess and dress. Since there was a chance of getting off TPN, they decided to wait until she met with Cara. So, they weighed and took vital signs. Presley is at 57 pounds now. She has fluctuated between 57 & 60 since putting her on TPN
depending on if she is on fluids. Although 57 pounds doesn't sound like much, it is considerably better than the 50 she was at when admitted after Labor Day.
After that, they waited another two hours before they even drew her labs. They had to take her to a triage room because it was so busy. So, three hours in and they still must wait another hour to see Cara and see counts. Finally, they get called back to a room to see Cara. Guess what? Boydstun Hospital Law. They can't find her blood for the
labs. So another round of waiting and confusion and screw up.
They finally found it, ran the labs and they came back surprisingly well.
Hemoglobin - 9.3 Low, but they transfuse below 8.0
WBC - 0.95 very low
Platelets - 101; low but transfuse at 20
ANC - 850; low, but Cara was surprised at how high it actually was.
The Albumin level is the big number that would determine whether or not she could get off TPN. Albumin is a way to monitor kidney and liver function. Her level after Labor Day when she was admitted was 1.7 where 3.7 - 5.5 is considered normal. Her test came back @ 3.2!!!! Not quite within the normal range but Dr. Redell said anything over 3.0 and we
could get off TPN as long as she kept eating well.
So Presley got deaccessed, set an appointment for Friday to check counts again and
schedule a transfusion. They are anticipating she will need one. Another
little tidbit, is they are so overbooked for Friday, that even if she needs blood, they might not have capacity to give the transfusion in clinic. Where we go from there is yet to be determined.
So Monday night was a good night. We chowed down on Michael Winter BBQ and just hung out. Presley informed me as I tucked her into bed that she wanted steak for dinner - if she ate as much as she thought about food, she would be back to 70 pounds in no time.
Tuesday was back to normal as Piper went back to school, I was back in the office and
Presley's Home Bound Teacher came by for a lesson.
She is still feeling well and her spirits are good.
We finally got our first batch of Team Presley T-Shirts today as well. Presley wanted to make a statement and that she did with the design!!
A HUGE THANK YOU TO RONNIE FLOWERS AND ATHLETIC SUPPLY FOR THE T-SHIRTS AND TURNING THEM AROUND SO QUICKLY!!!
We will be bringing them to the Light the Night Walk for all of Team Presley walking with us on Sunday, October 25th. We are also trying to coordinate a get together prior to the walk with food, beverage and fellowship. Will keep you posted. Thanks
to all who will join us in the walk and those who have once again
donated their money and time. We are humbled by your kindness, spirit
and generosity.
Finally, we are having a Team Presley Blood Drive at Xtreme Volleyball Gym on Sunday, October 18th. The Drive will begin at 11:00 am and run until 5:00 pm. There are still spots available from 2:00 - 4:30 so if you have blood and time to spare......
Thanks
to Kristin Eberhard for adopting us last week. The girls loved the
bags and jewelry kits. I, on the other hand, will be cussing you later
when I step on beads for a week after a jewelry session. Just
kidding. I really appreciate it.
Thanks to all for the calls, emails, texts, FB, thoughts & prayers. We cherish each and every one.
10/6/09 - 10/11/09: (Update from Eric) I see trees of green, red roses too.........
Presley was discharged from TCH on Wednesday afternoon following her ASP injection and fluids. It was efficient, seemless and I totally screwed it up. When we have planned hospital stays, PA & I try to work it so we only have one vehicle and that vehicle doesn't stay in the parking garage very long. TCH has changed their parking program in the past couple of weeks and it's amazing how expensive it is. So, we drove to the hospital on Saturday and used one car for the entire stay. PA would take the car home at night and I would drive it to work @ Pennzoil Tower in the morning. Good plan. We would have to pay $5.00 for the limited time the car was in the garage.
Well, when we learned that Pres was going to be discharged on Wednesday afternoon, I decided to take the train from TCH to the office. Houston has a light rail system they put in for the Super Bowl a few years ago and it conveniently runs from Reliant Stadium to Downtown Houston. It costs $1.50 for a one way ride from the medical center to a station 1.5 blocks from my office. Perfect. So, I help load the car, and begin my ride on the rails. 20 minutes later, I am downtown at my office and into my work groove. Then, PA calls me around 1:30 and asks "Do you have the keys to the car?" DAMN.
Out of habit, I put the keys in my pocket, ride the rails downtown and put the keys in my desk drawer (out of habit). So, I have to leave work, (catching a ride from an angel Angela Kirby) and head BACK to TCH to take the keys to PA & Presley. So, we all head home together.
As we have documented, Presley has not had AraC before so we have no idea what to expect. Honestly, we would take this every day of our treatment if we have this type of reaction.
Presley feels great and is almost back to the kid we all know and love.
Wednesday night she wanted to go out to eat and her counts were still very good. We go to Rico's with Uncle Muff and have a great time. Uncle Muff had a flight late Wednesday but we all enjoyed his company and wicked sense of humor. We did have one little scare because Peyton was diagnosed with swine flu and Piper had been over there after school all week long. Our friends, Jerry & Tammy stepped up and took care of Piper when she got off the bus for a couple of days. We greatly appreciate their help trying to avoid the flu at all costs.
Thursday, Presley had her home bound teacher and plenty of lessons to catch up on. She had a great day and her energy level was still high.
We actually had a NORMAL Friday night this week as we all went to the Schard's and Madora cooked dinner. Presley got her favorite Schard dish (goulash) and some fancy peas that Mr. Brad likes. He can't just have normal peas, they have to be some sort of "baby" something or other peas. I make fun of it, but Presley & Piper loved it, so I can't complain.
Saturday was the start of a GREAT weekend for Team Presley:
1) She hasn't felt this well in months
2) We went to the Xtreme Gym to support Piper
3) We saw some great music and had great food.
As I said, we would take AraC treatment any day over some of the other drugs we have had in the past 5 months. She feels great and is as close to the old "Presley" as we have seen. So, Saturday morning, we all go to Xtreme to watch Piper play in her first tournament. Piper is participating in a "little league" volleyball program and practices every Friday night. Xtreme decides to have an intrasquad tournament and Piper is stoked. It winds up being a 3 on 3 game where they use the fundamentals learned in practice.
Piper's team is good even with a lame duck third player. They win all three games handily but when they announce winners, they say it is a 3 way tie - the teams are 2-1. Piper's team gets beat in the first round of the playoff. I am watching her on the sideline and I can tell you she is not a happy camper.
After they finally decide a winner, Piper gets her "participant" certificate and candy and heads over to me - bawling her eyes out. She says "We won all 3 games and they said we only won two". PA, Pres & I try to console her and say she played well. PA said it's ok and shows Piper the "participant" certificate. Piper takes it and crumples it up and throws it down. I love this kid.
After the tournament, we went to the Conroe Cajun Catfish Festival. It is in downtown Conroe and has music, food and booths with arts and crafts. We go with the Schards and the Bortmess' meet us there as well. We have a good time walking around, checking out the booths and having some food and drink. Wade Bowen is playing and we get down next to the rail for most of the show. It worries me when Presley says "I like the music, but he is so cute". OK.
After the show, Wade is signing autographs and merchandise. Presley, Nicole and Peyton get shirts and he signs them all. Presley also gives him a bracelet and gets a picture with him. Wade is very kind and gives her a kiss and tells her that he will pray for her. Pretty awesome.
Speaking of awesome, there are some people in the past few days that have gone above and beyond.
1) Michael Winter -- brought us about 3,000 pounds of brisket, ribs and sausage today. Great stuff. We chowed down.
2) Erin Bailey Carter -- She went to a Walt Wilkins concert and requested and videoed a song that has meant so much to me in the past 5 months.
3) Drew Myers- Drew was football operations at TCU when Papa was coaching. He created a video for Presley that shows him all over the world with the bracelet and gives life lessons -- Please view on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Db9FEyvmK9A
4) Billy Joe Toliver -- A) Wore his Team Presley bracelet on TV at the Reno Celebrity Pro-Am tourney. B) Also, cornered Pat Green in Shreveport, gave him a bracelet and got a pic.
5) JD Walker -- Rallied his PAL's @ Allen High School to raise money and give tremendous encouragement and support. The video was awesome JD!!
Sunday was another great day for Presley. I dropped off Peyton, Nicole and Pres at Main Event to run amock while I go watch the Broncos versus the Patriots. (Broncos 5-0 BABY!!!! - Still can't believe it). The girls had a great time playing laser tag, bowling and video games. It was almost like having a normal 12 year old.
Finally, Presley goes back to clinic tomorrow to get counts checked and re-accessed. We don't anticipate any problems and are looking forward to another great week.
Thanks to everyone for the calls, texts, cards, letters, emails, thoughts and prayers. They truly lift us up.
10/5/09: (Update from Eric) I wish Cowbell did cure Fever........
Well, about 4 hours after i finished yesterday's update, Presley spiked a fever. It got as high as 101.4 around 4:30 am during her second dose of AraC. They gave her tylenol, drew some blood cultures and started her on an anti-biotic as a precautionary measure. We were up and down most of the night and they restarted her TPN after the chemo was down around 6am.
Dr. Mueller made her last rounds this morning as she is off after two weeks of attending. It's too bad. I really like her because she is no-nonsense and doesn't make you tell the history again and again. Her residents do not say a word when they come in the room with her which is also a bonus. Anyway, she said that the fever is more than likely a direct effect from the AraC chemo but they will watch the cultures for something more serious.
Peri relieved me after putting Piper on the bus and I headed to the office. The only good thing about staying nights at TCH is my commute is about 10 minutes. Pres slept most of the day and they kept her full of zofran and phenergren to help her with the nausea. Uncle Muff dropped by again this afternoon and hung with them before his meeting @ 6:30pm. They started the 3rd dose of AraC at 3:00 so we are almost through with the scheduled chemo.
Our day nurse today was Lisa. She is very good and I knew we had her before but couldn't remember when. After I left, she told Peri-Ann that she was our nurse the day they diagnosed Presley. She said she felt so bad seeing our shocked and hurt faces and unfortunately has seen "the face" a few times in her career.
HAPPY NOTE: Our little friend Grant got admitted today as well. He & Presley are the only Philadephia + patients at TCH right now so we stay in constant touch and keep tabs on his progress. He is only 3 years old and cute as a button and he ADORES Presley. His mother Melanie was getting settled into the room, so PA went over to sit with Grant while Melanie got all of their stuff from the car. Uncle Muff was hanging (aka napping) with Presley so all was cool in 912. As soon as PA walked in the room, Grant asked where Presley was. Peri-Ann sat with him until they were all settled.
After I got to the hospital, Presley & Peri-Ann went visiting again and Grant's face lit up when he saw Presley. He just stared and smiled at her the whole time she was in the room. I see a crush forming already and look forward to seeing it blossom when he becomes a young man.
Before Peri-Ann left for home tonight, we talked about how proud we are of Presley. It literally makes me ill to think of the transition from Friday to today that she has endured physically. It takes all of our will to take a happy, seemingly healthy 12 year old kid on Friday and take her to the hospital for "medicine" that we know will make her sick and weak again. This is the toughest thing to wrap your mind around the chemotherapy treatment. It's hard to believe "medicine" that makes your child so sick is hopefully healing her in the long run.
So, if it is that difficult on Peri-Ann & I, can you imagine being 12 years old and it is your body that is getting pummelled on a regular, voluntary basis. She never fights us about going to the clinic or coming in for treatment. She isn't happy about it but she doesn't fight it or complain one bit. There are times when she is in the hospital that she "just wants to go home", but never fights her treatment. Courage is a word that is often over used but I believe it is pretty accurate in this sense. I truly admire our daughter's courage to do the things she must do to be healed. I have never done anything in my life to deserve something so beautiful and strong and courageous. I am so lucky and so unworthy.
She is sleeping peacefully now without fever but has gotten sick a couple of times this evening. We start the final dose of chemo at 3am and then we will monitor her blood counts, watch the cultures for infection and try to keep the fever at bay.
Thanks for all of the calls, emails, texts, fb, thoughts and prayers. They truly lift us up.
Finally a HUGE thanks to Beth Beard for setting up the Team Presley "Light the Night" walk in the Woodlands on October 25th. A HUGER (if that's a word) to those who have joined Team Presley and are giving their time, money and feet to support Presley & all other leukemia patients in their battles and war.
God Bless.
10/1/09 - 10/4/09: (Update from Eric) Another strange trip in this long journey.......
As you read from Pres & Peri's update, Pres had an appointment at the clinic on Friday to check her counts and then be admitted for a round of chemo. They arrived at 11:00am for her appointment and got into Band-Aid junction rather quickly. Her counts were excellent which mirrored her good spirits and energy level. They saw Cara, our nurse practitioner, for a few moments because Dr. Redell was at the Children's Oncology Group convention.
Unfortunately, the 9th floor was full and they told Pres & Peri that there was probably no chance of getting a room on Friday. So they put them on the call list and sent them home. It was kind of a blessing in disguise. Presley's friend from school was having her 12th birthday party Friday night and with her counts so high, she got to go for a little while. They had a treasure hunt and she had a blast. It was good to see her being a normal almost 12 year old kid again.
When they put you on the call list, they can call you at any time of the day or night with an open room. There are discharges in this hospital at midnight, transfers to other floors at all times and other crazy stuff that can impact room availability. We half expected to be called at 2:00 am and have to head down to TCH. Our friend Blake has gotten several calls like that over the past year.
SIDENOTE: Blake had his last hospital chemo this weekend and was discharged on Saturday around noon. We are so happy for Blake, Deanna, Jim & Toni. They have ridden the cancer roller coaster and now are at the end of the ride. They will still continue to have regular check ups but at this point, Blake is cancer free. There is much to be said about faith, hope, love & modern medicine.
Saturday morning we woke up, got dressed and were still expecting a call to come into the hospital. Since we had not heard anything by 9:00am, we decided to go to the Xtreme volleyball gym and watch the scrimmage. Their were having a fall ball scrimmage and they decided to have a concession stand and donate all proceeds to Team Presley. The gym has been a tremendous source of support for Presley and our family. Piper is now playing Cobra ball on Friday nights and is loving it.
We made it up to the gym right at lunch break. Pres & Pip had hot dogs and just hung out with all the girls. It was great to see all of our Xtreme family. I really want to thank Ray, Dan, Dino, Greg & Beth for all of their hard work on the concession stand. The food was great and the Team Presley banner looked beautiful. We also got to watch the girls scrimmage for a couple of hours. It was bittersweet for us to watch Mia, Regan, Alex, & Abby and see how much they have improved in just a few months. Their confidence has grown tremendously and it is showing in their play on the court. I know Pres really wanted to be out there but she handled everything with grace & dignity.
After the scrimmage, we went and watched a couple of football games (including Tech vs NM) with Mike, Beth, Abby and Alex at Fox & the Hound. After that, we headed to Mike & Beth's to watch more football and let Pres rest. PA & I were getting nervous about no call from the hospital so we went to the house and checked the answering machine just in case. NADA. So, I called the 9th floor and asked for the charge nurse, which just happened to be Angela. I told her I was just checking to see if we were actually on the list. She said they were in the process of transferring a kid off the floor to make for us. Good news. However, we know nothing happens fast at TCH so we still had a few hours to kill.
Finally, we got the call and left Piper @ Camp Beard for the rest of the weekend.
We arrived at TCH at around 8:00pm and checked in at the ER desk downstairs. It took about 10 minutes to get cleared and we headed to the 9th floor. JACKPOT -- We got one of our favorite nurses - Stephanie. She was excited to see Presley and she had everything in order and ready to roll. As we got settled in, she got the chemo and fluids ready. Finally, around 9:30, she brought in the IV pole loaded for bear. It is here that Boydstun Hospital Law kicked in once again.
Presley has had her port accessed since we left from our last hospital stay. She has been getting TPN every night at home to help her maintain her nutrition and gain back some weight. At the clinic on Friday, they took counts but didn't change her needle because we were due to be in the hospital for the next few days. So, when Steph tried to flush her line - It wouldn't budge. No saline, heperin, or blood return. So, our next move was to reaccess the port and change the needle. Presley does not handle this well so it was even more discouraging when the new needle could not flush or get blood return.
Stephanie then called in Angel and she reaccessed with another new needle. NADA - NOTHING. This is not good. Only explanation now is there is a clot in the port. So, we had to put off everything until morning. Stephanie had a pretty rough Friday night and this was the frosting on the cake. She was visibly upset as were Presley and Peri. One day delay due to no beds available, and now another day delay due to the port.
So, Sunday morning we are greeted by Debbie (our favorite Canuck nurse), an XRay technician and a TPN - IV specialist (Amy). She first tries heperin & saline again with no luck. Next, she tries hydrochloric acid to dissolve anything that may have crystalized in the port. NADA. So, we go to the last chance - Altaplace. It is a drug that is supposed to dissolve clots in situations like this. 2mg in the line and then left for 2 hours to work it's magic. While administering altaplace, they use a technique that pulls out the fluid in the line and replaces it with altaplace. They pull back on the syringe to get a blood draw and then let go, popping the syringe. Stephanie did this numerous times the night before trying to unclog the port. As she pulled back on the altaplace, she lets go and the syringe pops and cracks spraying all of us with saline and altaplace. Guess what - she has never had that happen before - BOYDSTUN HOSPITAL LAW.
Meanwhile, Dr. Mueller drops by as she is the attending physician this weekend. She explains that if altaplace doesn't work that Presley will get a regular IV, chemo will be given and then will have another surgery to replace the clotted port. Talk about depressing news.
So, two hours roll slowly by and Amy & Debbie come in to check the port. No progress. They work on the port, changing the angle of the needle and continue to pop the altaplace. I am holding Presley's shirt collar out of the way to keep the area sterile, Peri-Ann is holding her hand and trying to console Presley. We continue to work on Presley for 10 minutes. I have given up and accepted we are going to have to give Presley an IV and another surgery, when all of a sudden, Peri & Debbie start like they have been shot. The altaplace syringe disperses in the line and Debbie pulls back with blood return. It's slow, but it's a huge step. She pushes it back in and pulls back blood return. It's working again.
I have never seen such relief and joy from seeing my daughter's blood. Peri-Ann and Debbie are crying like babies and Presley's tears are actually out of relief and happiness instead of pain and agony. Amy fills the line & port with heperin to open it up even more and we are cooking with gas. Tragedy avoided.
So as I type this update, we have had one of the four doses of AraC Cytarabine, the Swine Flu has made it to the 9th Floor, the Broncos have defeated the Cowboys and Presley & I are back into our groove her at TCH. She has been nauseas and has gotten sick once so far from this medicine. That's OK. We will take that if we can just avoid the fever in the next 72 hours.
Thanks to all for your calls, texts, emails, fb, thoughts and prayers. Thanks to Xtreme for showing us a great day yesterday.
9/25/09 - 9/30/09: (Update from Peri and Presley)
(Peri-Ann) As Eric reported last week, Presley and I left the 9th floor of TCH on Thursday evening. Speaking of the 9th floor, it has become our 2nd home. We have made friends, found wonderful caregivers, and are starting to "learn the ropes.". Unlike most of the time, when people are discharged from the hospital, it is required that you have a wheelchair and an escort to take you to your car. NOT on the 9th floor, as I'm packing the bags, Presley is making her rounds telling her favorite nurses (which has continued to grow) goodbye! Its just like leaving a hotel we never say "Goodbye" we just say "see ya later or see ya next week", carry our own bags and walk to the elevators.
(Presley) Yep, my mom is right. Every time I leave I always tell my favorite nurses goodbye. I got a pink poodle as a gift and it was one that people were suppose to sign, so I had all my favorite nurses sign it and the signatures continue to grow every time we go in.
(Peri-Ann) When getting home, Presley still had some of her mouth sores but they seemed to be getting much better and she was determined not to take the morphine pills - she still seems to amaze us everyday. By Friday night she was feeling so much better and had bargained with her dad to treat her to Kobe Japanese Steak House. We are still very nervous about taking her around too many people, but figured the heat from the hibachi stove would kill of any bad germs that may come her way. It was a great outing for the 4 of us and she really seemed to enjoy herself.
(Presley) When we got home on Thursday I wanted to go out to eat so bad, but my parents said my ANC was so low. On Friday, my dad finally took me to my favorite restaurant, Kobe's Japanese Steakhouse. I had so much fun watching the Japanese guy cooking me my beef and rice. It was so good to go out and eat my favorite food.
(Peri-Ann) On Sat. Eric and I were able to get tickets to the Houston vs. Texas Tech game. Thanks dad and Coach Mainord!! It was really nice for us to get out, be around friends, and enjoy a little time away from the "real world". The game was awesome, we definitely couldn't have asked for much more football and excitement, too bad the Red Raiders couldn't pull off the victory. The girls had a night out with the Schards and I believe Presley enjoyed being away from the hospital and home for the night. Thank you Schards!!
(Presley) I stayed with the Schards while my parents went to the game and I had so much fun. We had ribs, beans, potatoes, and sausage. It was so good. Also on Saturday, me and my dad went to Blockbuster and got a ton of new movies.
(Peri-Ann) The week has been good, mouth sores gone, home-bound has continued, and she is feeling really well. We continue to try to keep her home, as much as possible, due to all of the illnesses that are going on around us. We have watched movies and tried to make it as enjoyable as possible especially since she is feeling so good.
(Presley) This week has been great. Although as you know we have to go back Friday. I'm so nervous about this next chemo because we have never got it before, but I know that I will knock it out.
(Peri-Ann) As Presley has said, her and I will be heading to TCH on Friday to make sure her counts are high enough and "patiently" wait to see if there is a room available. We will also be cheering on our friend Blake (he is in the picture on the homepage with Presley) because it will be his FINAL day of chemo, he is finishing his 14 rounds. We are so excited for their entire family, we dearly love them and wish them nothing but the very best. As for Presley, she is correct, this is a new chemo that we have not had before. She was to have this after the Methotrexate (BAD MEDICINE), but because of the kidney issues she was not able to receive it. This chemo is called Cytarabine (ARAC), she will get 4 doses in a 2 day period and then it will be followed up with an asparaginase injection. The side effects are similar to most of the others, but can also cause flu like symptoms and eye drops will be given for redness, pain, and inflammation.
(Presley) I'm a nervous about Friday, but if we get a room I hope we get to visit Blake before he says his final goodbyes. I'm very happy for him, but I wish it was me too that was getting the last chemo. I can't wait till I have my "Cancer's Gone!" party.
(Peri-Ann) SPECIAL REQUEST - On Friday will you please give a little tug to your bracelet and think wonderful thoughts that this round of chemo will cause no issues to our sweet little girls body? Also, please keep Bicki in your prayers for a speedy recovery from her back surgery.
Once again, there are not enough works to give our appreciation for all the gifts, food, text, calls, cards and mostly the support, prayers and love.
Much love to you ALL!!
Team Presley
9/24/09:
(Update from Eric) Home Sweet Home.....
Presley had another rough night on Wednesday night. In fact, she didn't even attempt to go to sleep until almost midnight and then was up several times with the sweats and potties. We helped the sweats by putting down some towels under the sheet to keep her from sweating on the vinyl mattress. They make the beds with only a fitted sheet onto a mattress covered in vinyl so it is almost like sleeping directly on it. We did this around 4:00 am and she slept until I left for work @ 7:15 when PA relieved me.
They drew labs this morning and PA updated me at the office.
Red Blood Cells - 7.1 (Another transfusion needed).
WBC - 1.25 (low but better)
Platelets - 91
ANC - 900 (low but much better).
They had a good day and PA spoke highly of the resident attending to Presley in the morning. We got a great nurse (Marcia). She helped spring us in quick fashion from our two week sentence a couple of months ago. Presley still showed no signs of infection from her cultures and has not shown fever since Tuesday. Dr. Meuller was our attending today and when they made rounds Presley was asleep. The resident told Dr. Meuller about Presley's improvement and said she could probably go home tomorrow morning. Dr. Meuller said if her cultures were still negative there was no reason to send her home this evening. That got a rise out of Peri-Ann!!! They also determined that we didn't need to come back to the clinic until next Friday. Rock On!!
So, with Presley improving from a count perspective and also with the mouth sores, the only thing left to do was get her a new needle to continue the TPN (IV nutrition) at home. The deaccessed around 2:30 and waited around for a while. She finally got reaccessed around 4:30 and were out of there by 5:30.
I left the office and met them at the house. It was great for all of us to be back at the casa together. Presley must be feeling better because she asked if we could go eat at Kobe Japanese Steakhouse. it's our favorite family outing place - hibachi "trimp" as Piper calls it is their favorite. I had to be the killjoy and postpone any public outings just yet. Although she is improving, an ANC of just 900 is just too risky right now. In fact, there are numerous cases on swine flu in schools across the city of Houston and we do not want to risk anything right now.
So, all in all, a pretty good day even though Papa had to go home. He & Piper got to spend some quality time together and Presley got to see him as well.
Although Presley will still be up several times during the evening, it will sure be nice to sleep in our own beds again.
Thanks as always for the texts, emails, calls, fb, thoughts and prayers.
Will keep you updated over the weekend.
9/22/09 - 9/23/09:
(Update from Eric) Tuesday night was a rough one........
Presley was admitted and got into Room 929 around 6:00 pm. I had run home and got some clothes, picked up Papa and headed back down to TCH.
Piper wasn't really worried about it since she was going with a couple of her friend to Skate Town. I could just see us getting a call to meet them downstairs at the ER for a broken arm but it didn't happen, thank goodness.
After Papa & Peri headed home, Presley tried to get some sleep but was restless. I finally drifted off around 1:00am just in time to wake up for a potty break. Earlier that evening, they came in and hooked her up to a PCA morphine pump for her mouth sore pain. Her mouth looks and feels brutal, but I am not really comfortable with pumping morphine into my kid at this juncture. It is a pump that she can hit the button and give herself a morphine shot into her IV. It is a very small dose and goes into her IV and system quickly. She has control but will only give a dose every 15 minutes. The pump also records how many times she actually hits the button, so if she is hitting it all the time due to the pain, they can either increase the dose or give her something orally for a baseline.
Look, I know she is going through pure hell and has endured a lot of pain in the past four months, but it bothers me that the staff is so easy to dole out powerful drugs like that to eleven year old girls. I understand the staff can't really do a lot for the side effects and pain, but managing it by handing out morphine tic-tacs is wrong. She slept restlessly and was up several times during the night. She woke a couple of times sweating and upset because she felt so clammy. Morphine symptom number 1.
SIDEBAR -- When I was about 12 years old, my mom had some back problems and they gave her some morphine. I remember her laying in her bed, sweating, clammy and just miserable from the effects of the drug. It completely freaked me out. My mom was not a tea totaler but I had never seen her under the influence of any drug or alcohol prior to that time. As far as my father - well, I am my father's son. I don't think I need to elaborate further.
So, this morning, the new resident (whom is OK) came by and was talking with Presley about her pain and how she felt. I let Pres control the conversation and let her discuss her position. The resident however, kept pushing that if she needed more pain control, they could give her something orally that would "give her a baseline" and still have the pump to control more intense pain. I stepped in and told her we would continue to manage it this way as Presley only used it a few times during the night. The resident said she had pushed the button only seven times since they put it in 12 hours ago. There you go. If she only needed it 7 times in 12 hours, she was managing her pain and didn't need a baseline. PA arrived shortly thereafter and I filled her in and she agreed completely.
I left and went to work and PA spent the day with Pres & Papa at the hospital. During the day, someone wrote a scrip for morphine pills for Pres to take every six hours. Do people just not get it. They delivered the pill but Presley did not take it and the night nurse took it away after she came on. Peri-Ann & I had the same discussion with the night nurse that she was managing the pain fine with the PCA pump and wasn't going to take the pills unless she absolutely needed it. They changed the scrip to "as needed" or PRN if you know the hospital term.
All things considered, it must have been a good day, because Pres was more talkative and more understandable so the pain in her mouth was improving. She had told me the previous night she wanted spaghetti for dinner, so I went to Little Napoli downtown after I left the office and picked up some spaghetti and meatballs. When I arrived at her room, I also found out Pres had Dutch Chocolate ice cream for dessert waiting for her. Papa "the old softie" had made a trip and got her some earlier in the day. PA, Presley & I had dinner and then PA headed home to Papa and Piper.
She is improving and her counts were better this morning.
Red Blood Cells were 8.1 which above the need for a transplant.
Platelets were 70 which is better. They were 4 at the clinic yesterday.
ANC is up to 340 from ZERO. Still neutrapenic but improving.
Finally, I want to thank Kay Fleenor for bringing by a couple of gifts for Presley today. Kay works at Shell but we don't work together on a daily basis. She is in a different department and we know each other casually. Yet, she took the time to find out what Presley likes and go spend her hard earned money on Presley. On top of that, her aunt passed away today and she wanted to deliver the gifts before she left for the funeral in Albuquerque tomorrow. It's humbling and overwhelming at the same time when someone puts you & your family ahead of their own heartache.
At times over the past few months, I feel completely inadequate as a human being. I don't feel I have ever done anything to deserve this love and support and yet people continue to go out of their way for my family. I have a powerful desire to repay all of this in some form or fashion, but have no idea how or where to begin. I guess I will try to do the "little things" warm my heart in return.
Thanks for all of the texts, calls, emails, fb, thoughts & prayers.
9/15/09 - 9/21/09:
(Update from Eric) Sorry for the delay in updating....But we've circled back anyway. Presley was discharged last Tuesday afternoon as planned but with one little wrinkle. Her port was still accessed because we were to continue TPN (IV nutrition) at home. She still needs to supplement her food intake with nutrition so she can get back to a normal weight. She was glad to be home and felt relatively well when we got home but got tired very easily. I went to work Wednesday and she hadn't gotten up yet. They had a busy day as her home bound teacher came for her lessons and home health care came to set up and train everyone on how to hook up the TPN. When I got home from work she was the Presley we all know and love. She had her personality back, her appetite back and it was absolute euphoria for the evening.
She got to spend some quality time with Grammy on both Wednesday and Thursday. Also, she basically took over the handling of her TPN. There is some mixing of vitamins with the solution.
Friday was our meeting with Dr. Redell and Dr. Steuber who is head of the Leukemia team. Presley also had a clinic appointment to check her counts and change her needle.
Our meeting with Dr. Steuber & Dr. Redell was meant to vent our frustration with Presley's care more on the emotional and psychological level than physical. We had not met Dr. Steuber, but Dr. Poplack had suggested the meeting to Steuber. Our nurse practitioner, Cara, was also there. We basically started out the meeting saying that we were happy with Presley's progress but felt she did not have a connection with her doctors. She needs to feel a part of this and explained everything from the doctors instead of us. She sees other patients we know have a very strong emotional connection with her doctors and she lacks that connection.
At this time, Presley pages me that they are going to re-access her port, so I leave Peri-Ann with the three doctors to go be with Presley. I think this is when Dr. Steuber felt he needed to assert his authority. It was then he basically turned into a "pompous ass" and he & PA began to butt heads. He told Peri that she needed to quit talking with other patients about their treatment and comparing to Presley. This is when PA went nuclear and told him "Talking with other parents is the only way we get information around here". He made another crucial mistake and told her that the residents were our primary care givers and we should show them more respect and let them do their jobs. PA basically ended the meeting and conversation there.
Stueber is a pompous ass (i wanted to make sure everyone knew our position) and I know we won't be dealing with him directly anymore. Dr. Redell, however, got our message and responded exceptionally well during Presley's appointment. She paid direct attention to Presley and explained everything to her and not us. Great move. Presley was more engaged than any time in her treatment.
Her counts were low but could wait for a transfusion. Not that we had a chance of getting one on Friday anyway. It was absolute mayhem!! As we left, we made one last pass through the infusion room and ran into Blake & Jim. They were there to check counts as well and get blood if needed. Jim made several comments on how well Presley looked because she was 180 degrees from the last time we saw them. Blake is almost at the end of his treatment. They have on more cycle of chemo and then scans and then they are done. Jim & I have had several conversations about this. There is some insecurity now that they won't have the safety net of the hospital and clinic and just allowing Blake to be a regular kid again. I can understand somewhat but I am envious of their position and cannot wait to be in their shoes.
We left the clinic, went to lunch and then I had to take Grammy to the airport. She had to get home because she had a big initiation on Saturday night. Mom is now a member of the BPOE - The Elks!!! I don't know really what it is, but it sounds cool. Plus, now I can call her a cow and get away with it.
Friday night, we were taken care of by 6 beautiful and wonderful women. Debbie Shelton, Kristin Chiboroski, Kristin Eberhard, Lorena Garcia, Susan Dansby, and Bree Sandlin went to Dream Dinners and prepared some fabulous meals for us. It sounded like they had a great time (wine always helps) and the food looks wonderful. Our freezer is stocked and I can't wait to try all of these wonderful dishes. Thanks Guys. You are awesome and I can't thank you enough.
Saturday, we got up and headed to Katy to hang with Debbie & Preston. We watched a terrific Texas - Texas Tech game and just hung out.
Sunday was another good day and Anna & George brought us dinner. Beer Can Jalapeno Chicken, home made enchilada casserole and salsa plus a chocolate cake for Presley. Yummy. Thanks guys.
Monday, Presley really started struggling and getting tired and feeling poorly. One of the side effects of the chemo drug is mouth sores. She had a couple pop up in the hospital but Monday it just exploded. They had given us some "Magic Mouthwash" and Presley was using it but it wasn't very effective. She also has sores in her throat and they are making it hard to swallow.
This morning she woke up around 5:30 and was really hurting. We gave her some tylenol for the pain and she settled back down to sleep. Presley had a scheduled appointment to check counts at 8:40 and it was pouring rain. They arrived a little late but got into Band-Aid junction quickly. Her counts came back EXTREMELY low and she had a litle bit of low grade fever. Not good.
Red Blood Cells: 6.1 -- Extremely low. Transfusion level is 8.0
White Blood Cells were also low.
Platelets - 4 (20 is transfusion level)
ANC - 0 -- Ability to fight infection - None.
So, Presley got a transfusion of Platelets first and then whole blood. Her temperature kept spiking so we were finally admitted around 5:00pm
Room 929 - where it all began. So, we are back in TCH. They have given her some anti-biotics, fluids & now her TPN. Going to continue to monitor her temperature and follow the cultures to see if she has an infection or just fever from lack of blood cells. No game plan or prognosis as of midnight. More info coming in the morning.
Thanks for all of the texts, emails, fb postings, thoughts & prayers.
Will keep you posted and will update more frequently.
9/13/09 - 9/14/09: (Update from Eric) Presley had a decent weekend considering......
Sunday she felt pretty well except for a little upset during the day. We have come to determine that it may be more reflux than actual nausea now. So we started her on a strong reflux drug to see what the impact would be. Unfortunately, we kept her on marinol throughout the weekend so she was pretty looped most of the time and couldn't get a true read on the reflux.
Todd Bortmess dropped by on Sunday. They went to the Brad Paisley concert Friday night at the Woodlands Amphitheatre and picked Pres up a t-shirt. She liked it but was right in the middle of the purple haze during his visit. We were joking around with her and said she probably didn't recognize Todd and I said she probably thought he was Big Bird when he walked through the door. She thought that was pretty funny, so I did my best Cookie Monster impression. I asked her who that was and she said "Mr. Jim (Palamara). She thought that was hysterical and I'll admit it was pretty darn clever for a kid under the influence.
Grammy & Presley spent most of the day with us @ TCH on Sunday as well. Piper had a painting in the exhibit for the Periwinkle Foundation. Their signautre event is Camp Periwinkle and it is a camp for kids 7 to 15 with cancer or blood disorders and their siblings. They have been doing this since 1983 and I have heard many people mention how wonderful it is. Piper's painting was on display and she got a T-Shirt, ribbon and her name & picture in the program for the exhibit. She thought that was cool, but the best part for her was she got her face painted. Most kids get a flower, or heart or something dainty on a cheek. Not Pip. She got a full face paint like an Indian Warrior Princess. Then proceeded upstairs to the 9th floor and rode the Big Wheel around the floor all afternoon. She looked like a pediatric version of Mad Max.
We watched football most of the day and relaxed. The haze wore off Presley around 8:00 and we had a really nice conversation. We discussed the treatment, what it was going to take from her & the rest of us to win the war and that we weren't ever mad at her for any of this mess. She has been pretty emotional for the past few weeks and continuously apologizes for feeling bad, getting sick and everything else she has no control over.
She said she felt that I especially was mad at her during those times. I told her I am NEVER mad at her. I am frustrated because she is sick and I have no control over it and am powerless to help her in any real manner. I told her I wanted to rip the head off of this disease but there is no physical way for me to do this. She said the look on my face scares her sometimes during this ordeal. Talk about making you feel 2 inches tall. She is going through physical and mental hell and I am not only not helping but scaring her as well. So, we came up with a code word. When she sees the look on my face and she doesn't like it, she says the code word to alert me to cool off for a while.
We also discussed her nausea and taking the marinol. She doesn't like it because it makes her "loopy". I will agree. It knocks her on her butt and I don't particularly like the way it efffects her either. So, we decided to back off of the marinol and go back to the traditional nausea and anxiety meds and see if she can handle everything ok for now.
It was a relatively uneventful evening and night. The usual bathroom breaks at 1:30; 3:30; 5:30 & 7:00am. And that's just me!!!!
Monday morning rolled around and she woke lucid and hungry. They brought breakfast and she wanted her yogurt first. She tried a few sips (she drinks it through a straw) and then said her tummy was starting to hurt. We got her some Zofran and waited for that to take effect. She tried again and her hard boiled egg. Again, she started to feel crummy so we got her some Ativan on top of it. I think at this point, it is mainly a mind over matter issue with her. She has been sick so much, she expects to get sick after eating so it happens. I would like to try a placebo one day, just to check my theory, but I don't think I can get anyone here to agree with me. After she calmed down, she ate and felt fine. In fact, we made several laps around the floor which we had not done until today. PA arrived in the middle of lap 1 and joined us for a couple more. I took off for work and left them for an exciting day.
As I told you a couple of days ago, our social worker has been non-existant to say the least. And, it's not that we are destitute and can't pay our medical bills - quite the contrary. But, we want Pres to be included in all of these events that kids like her are participating in and she is not. So, I guess our social worker strolls in this afternoon and PA lights her up like the 4th of July. In fact, the social worker asks her "Can we please just sit down and talk about this?" PA goes through our entire history and the social worker realizes we have been seriously neglected up to this point. PA reels off all of the things she has learned from other parents on the floor that we would not have known about if it weren't for them. Also, they discuss Presley's care and our recent lack of communication with our doctor. The social worker relays that she sits in the all important "Thursday staff meeting" and that Presley & our little friend Grant are a
serious topic of discussion. She says that our case and child is not discussed outside of that room and that the rest of the clinic does not know our situation.
It is here that PA says "Oh yeah, then why do they call us the "Bed Bug" people when we walk into the clinic?" The social worker's jaw drops and says "That was you?" That put the icing on the cake. She didn't even know WE were the famous "Bed Bug" people.
All in all, I think PA rattled her cage today and hopefully some good for Presley will come out of it - short term & long term. Follow up is always the key and PA & I now know, we have to keep pounding or it will slip through the proverbial cracks.
Presley had a pretty decent day and actually wanted Taco Bell tonight for dinner. I was happy to oblige until I found out that the "Mexican Thumb Wrestlers" weren't the prize in the kids meals anymore. Stupid paper car. Who cares about a stupid car?
It was shaping up to be a good Monday evening but of course, there is always a wrinkle. The only Monday night of the year with two football games and the cable for the entire hospital goes out. Even Presley was disgusted.
Finally, we are being discharged sometime tomorrow evening. Presley has one more round of chemo in the morning and then has to get some fluids and continue to hydrate by drinking water and then we can go home. We will be back in clinic Friday (1) for an 8:00 meeting with our doctor, and (2) to check Presley's counts & vitals. We have NO idea when Presley's appointment is since we have not seen our doctor since Friday. This is a major topic of discussion at 8:00 on Friday.
Thanks for all of the visits, cards, emails, texts, calls, thoughts & prayers. They truly lift Team Presley up!!!
Oh yeah, Presley wants to wish Uncle Muff a Happy Birthday on Friday!!!!.
9/12/09: (Update from Eric) Saturdays are no different in the hospital than every other place on the earth...... Presley & I actually slept until 9:00 am Saturday morning. Unbelievable in my own house. Impossible in a hospital and yet we did it. Our nurses were great, didn't disturb us and we woke up on our own. Presley was lucid, hungry and in good spirits. They brought the hospital breakfast, and she actually ate a french toast stick and the hard boiled egg white. After that, she wanted a chocolate chip muffin. I went to the hospitality room and picked up a blueberry muffin, raspberry danish and strawberry pop-tart to see if those would suffice. NOPE. So, i marched my unshaven face over to Starbucks across the street and picked up a couple of pastries.
I HATE coffee. So, I especially HATE Starbucks since they charge nine thousand dollars for one cup of the most plentiful crop on earth. Also, I make "fat guy" jokes all the time and know I can pinch an inch. However, you don't want some 20-something pierced Starbucks employee making judgments, but that's just what she did. Everything I ordered, I ordered for Presley but....... I walked in, grabbed an orange juice, and stepped up to the pastry display case. I am searching for a chocolate chip muffin - they don't have it, so I get the next best thing. I tell the 20 year old mal-content that I would like the chocolate doughnut and she says "I saw that coming". Seriously!!! I am 58-0 against women and small children and she wants to pop off to me!!!! I start stretching out so when I order a slice of banana nut bread and she comments, I won't pull a hammie SPRINGING across the counter and ripping the EARRING out of her LIP.
Nada. No comment. Either, it was my self esteem heckling me or I frightened her into keeping her comments to her self.
So, I return and Presley eats half the doughnut (I HAVE ONE BITE SMARTASS), a bite of the banana nut bread and then she takes a nap. Upon waking, she eats a ham & turkey sandwich, some chips, beef jerky and some Dr. Pepper. I think she finally has her appetite back.
We just hang for a couple of hours switching between iCarly & college football. All the while, Kate (our day nurse) is hanging chemo and running like crazy. Around 2:00, I get a text from Jimmy P saying they are on their way to visit. I text back an hour later and they have hooked up with PA, Piper, & Grammy in the parking lot. Everyone hangs for an hour or so, and then JP has to go pick Preston up from hockey practice. I don't know if Presley got anything out of it, but I was damn thankful for some extra testosterone in the room for a while.
Here is where the story turns serious.....
I don't pay much attention to my immediate surrounding in Texas Children's Hospital. There are several reasons for this:
1.) I am focused on Presley - her misery & her health.
2.) I mind my own business.
3.) I am obviously intimidating according to the nurses....until you get to know me.
4.) I don't really want to pile on anyone else's heartache onto my own. In other words, i am selfish.
Well, the baby that has been crying next door for the past week is being held by Nurse Judy from yesterday. They are just hanging out outside of his room. I think this is kind of strange so I walk over and start messing with the baby. Judy says, "Here you go", hands me the baby and heads back to the nurses station to finish her paperwork. So now I am holding a 9 month old baby boy named Trey. He looks at me - I look at him........ I've done this before so we walk around and look at the paintings on the wall, play with his pacifier and just hang out.
Peri-Ann comes out and says "So this is the boy that has no one to look after him." What? Trey spends most of his time in the room by himself and only gets held when a nurse or PCN has time to pay attention to him. No mother or father to look after him all day, much less spend time with him.
The boy has a legal guardian but they only visit when it's time to take him HOME after his treatment.
Then it hits me..... We have been complaining about all kinds of trivial things about Presley's treatment and road map and this little guy spends every night in a hospital room ALONE. Then the knock out punch comes....He isn't the only kid on the floor this week in this situation.
During World War II, they put orphanages into the futbol stadiums and actually hired girls & women to pick up the babies and hold the babies for a few minutes at a time. They knew that the children needed the personal contact to develop into productive human beings. Fast forward 60+ years later and we have two children in Houston, TX that are fighting a battle against cancer by themselves - at nine months old. I don't get it. My perspective is seriously rocked right now.
I don't want to get on a soapbox, but how can someone bring a child into this world and when they are in dire need, they get abandoned. I believe in the death penalty and I believe this is justification. You don't take care of a child, you don't get to breathe......Enough said.
Sunday, we head back to TCH for Presley and for another reason. Piper painted a picture a few weeks ago that got selected to be in the art show for TCH. They have already put it up in the bridge for everyone to see, but they also have a presentation planned. She will get recognized and receive a t-shirt for her painting titled "Dancing Flowers". She is stoked and we are ready to see her receive her award.
Finally, Presley finished the day strong after chemo and actually had a blood transfusion because her counts were so low. I hope this will help her energy and speed her recovery from this treatment.
Thanks for all of the calls, texts, emails, thoughts and prayers.
9/11/09: (Update from Eric) Today was another crazy day in the world of Team Presley.
We woke early to our new nurse Judy. She is young and a real go-getter. She had already called PACU and got us in line and had ordered our chemo so we could start immediately upon our return. Judy won't last long. She obviously hasn't realized that's not the way things work around TCH. The PATIENT is supposed to hurry up then wait on the hospital - not the other way around.
Presley was already upset and anxious about PACU so Judy got her some Ativan to cool her down. She put it in the IV at the same time our ride showed up to take us to PACU. Peri-Ann arrived at the exact same time and we all headed down. This was a little after 9:00 am. Things are looking up - efficient and ahead of the game. We head across the bridge to the Clinical Tower and get up to the 7th floor quickly. And then the wait begins........
We sat in the waiting room with Presley sleeping until 11:00 am when they finally brought us back. Andrea (nurse practitioner) is doing the procedure again. We have been to PACU for a lumbar puncture 6 or 7 times already and she has been there all but one. She knows Presley by name and I think Presley likes her, but considering the environment and Presley's anxiety - who can really tell. We head to the waiting room and Andrea comes out 10 minutes later. The procedure went fine, but she is concerned about Presley's mental condition.
Finally..... Someone realizes she is struggling emotionally besides PA & I. Well, I don't think she thought her good gesture was going to become a 15 minute discussion about the future care of our child but that's what it turned out to be.
From this discussion, we are going to make a couple of decisions over the weekend.
Anyway, when we joined Presley in recovery, she was awake and surprisingly enough wasn't crying and emotional. The anesthesia has always made her weepy even prior to this ordeal. She was very weepy in Fort Worth when she got her tonsils out and tubes in her ears and earlier this year at the dentist when they pulled some teeth. She said she was starving which is a great sign. They finally found a wheelchair and transport personnel to take us back to the 9th floor.
Here is where Boydstun's Law kicks in today:
First of all, trying to catch an elevator in the Clinic Tower during lunch is very difficult. Finding an elevator with enough room for a wheelchair, IV Pole, two parents and transport is virtually impossible. Unlike the West Tower (hospital), the Clinic does not have patient elevators. So we hit the down button and had to pass on three elevator cars. So, our transport makes the decision we will ride up and then back down. Up button -- car opens -- barely enough room for wheelchair and IV pole, but PA & transport wedge in. I tell them I will see them at the bridge. Down button -- car opens 5 seconds after they go up -- empty car heading down. Figures. I ride the whole way down without stopping and then wait 10 minutes for their car to go up - dump everyone else out and then they head down, picking up passengers along the way. Total cluster.
Sidebar -- If you are admitted to a room in the hospital, it is regulation that someone from the hospital transport you from your room to procedures and back. Safety and cover their ass - all in one motion. Now, the transport (Xavier) we had from our room to PACU this morning is awesome. He has been with us several times, engaged Presley in conversation and handled both the wheelchair and IV pole skillfully. I would say that Xavier is the John Elway of hospital transport - he's that good. On the ride back, we unfortunately had Ryan Leaf.
So, we head across the bridge to the West Tower back to our room. Fridays & Mondays are a MADHOUSE at TCH. The bridge is crowded with patients, families and friends, plus they are having a bake sale. Presley wants some brownies. We stop and get brownies. Ryan Leaf is pushing Presley in the chair and I am trying to keep up with the IV pole. Let's not forget that Presley is attached to the IV pole with a 4 foot line of sterile, plastic tubing that ends in a needle in her chest. Ryan Leaf is dodging several small hispanic kids while I am trying to dodge the same way. We finally get across the bridge, turn toward the patiend elevators and the line gets caught between the wheel and the chair. THANK GOD it tears out of the IV pump instead of Presley. Saline is spilling everywhere. Ryan Leaf is looking for her glasses and trying to fix the problem. I tell her to just get on the elevator and let Judy take care of it. I win.
We get to the 9th floor leaking saline and finally get Presley back into her bed. Holy Cow!!!
We get Presley back in bed and she begins to dismantle a bag of beef jerky. OK, the kid can't handle applesauce two days ago, but can mow down a dehydrated Elsie the cow! It must be the marinol.
Do you remember that I mentioned Judy is an overachiever? Once, Presley is settled, she literally has the chemo ready to rock and roll. We hang chemo less than an hour after getting back from PACU. Next to parting the Red Sea, this might be the biggest miracle in history. Presley has lunch, keeps it down, but threatens to be sick several times.
During this time, our little friend Grant and Melanie visit us. Grant is the only other ALL Philadelphia + patient in TCH right now. He is three years old and cute as a bug. While Presley is very emotional, Grant is pissed off. He is hungry because he hasn't eaten since last night and due to the GFR & MRI, he probably won't eat for a while. It's quite funny to see a 3 year old kid give you the stink eye.
Melanie (Grant's mom) and Peri-Ann have become pretty good friends over the past several weeks. Grant & Presley have had similar difficulties with the treatment and the mom's get together to compare notes. This is where Boydstun's Law kicks in again.
Have we told you about our social worker? No? When you become a patient at TCH, you are assigned a social worker to help guide you through the labyrinth of the healthcare system. It doesn't matter if you're insured or not, US Resident or not, or destitute or wealthy. They are supposed to support you by explaining medical bills, providing assistance (financial and non-financial) and social networking for your kid with cancer.
Well the reason we have never mentioned our social worker is we have only seen her twice in 110 days. We were diagnosed the weekend before Memorial Day. Smack dab in the middle of 3 day weekends, vacations, etc. Our social worker was on vacation and we had a substitue come by and give us a pamphlet, our social worker's card, and tell us she would contact us next week. She did. She called me after we got Presley home, apologized for being on vacation and told me to come by her office on our first clinic visit. I did and was told that she didn't work on Fridays -- our clinic day. Great. She had left a application for us for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society to fill out and they would pay $150 for parking. Peri-Ann has met her once when she needed some paperwork signed for Presley's home bound school. She signed the papers and that's it.
Well, Melanie informs Peri-Ann about several different organizations that THEIR social worker has arranged for them They are getting help in several different areas, but the main thing that pisses us off is other kids with cancer are getting invited to events.
Presley is a social kid. Leukemia has in effect taken her social life away from her and it is showing dramatically in her behavior and willingness to fight. She needs to be around other kids in the same situation. She needs to see she is not alone and she needs to feel love and a connection to a world she has been thrust into for the last 110 days. You don't get that on a hospital floor in a room next door to a kid with cancer. You get that from a social setting in the real world where there is love and compassion and trust.
Needless to say, we are lighting our social worker up next week as well.
Presley has a pretty rough afternoon. She doesn't feel well, is emotional from the myriad of drugs in her system and well, honestly, is an 11 year old basket case. She sleeps and then can't sleep. Her stomach hurts from all the dry heaving. She has leg pain as a side effect from the drugs. But life gets a lot better when I bring Grammy in the room from the airport. Born 49 years and 364 days apart, these two have a powerful connection and Grammy always makes the world a better place. I could make two peanut butter sandwiches, hand them both to Presley to try and tell her Grammy made one and Grammy's is the best peanut butter sandwich in the whole world. That's how Grammies are I guess. Thank God they aren't around all the time or they might turn into stupid parents.
Anyway, Presley settled down when Grammy arrived and fell asleep. PA & Grammy left around 8:15 to head home to Zoey and the Monster and Presley and I are on our own again. I made her chicken, mashed potatoes and gravy & mac n cheese again and she ate well. She has been taking Marinol for nausea the past few days and it tends to make her a little goofy. For those that don't know, Marinol is a derivative of THC (not TCH) or marijuana. It comes in pill form and helps control nausea and also stimulate appetite. HMMMMM............ The side effects are......well....... similar to the college experience. She has been taking 2.5mg and they make her pretty loopy. Earlier in the day, Overachiever Judy decided that 5mg might be even better for her since she was still having stomach trouble. The night nurse brought her Marinol, Gleevec and anti-biotic after she ate dinner. Presley fights taking all pills but really fights Marinol "because it makes her
goofy". So, we wrestle around taking it and I win. Then we begin negotiations about Gleevec and Bactrim the antibiotic. Somewhere during the negotiations, the 5 mg Marinol kicks in -- in a good way. Presley tells me it's night night time and she will take her pills when she wakes up in the morning.
I may not be able to relay this in words, but it is the most lucid thing she has said in 2 weeks. She is literally playing a game - A GREAT SIGN. So we negotiate. She takes two pills and I massage her right leg. She takes two more pills and I massage her left leg. She takes the last pill & I massage her feet. Game over. She falls asleep as I am massaging her feet and she has been restful ever since.
We will probably be in the hospital until Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. Currently, she is healthy enough for visitors but I cannot guarantee her physical or mental state if you decide to visit.
Finally, it's 12:55 am and I am sure most of you are wondering why in the world I put so much detail into this update. There has been so much that has happened in the past 110 days, and I want to document it all for Presley and the rest of our family. In fact, I think I will continue to do this even after she is cancer free. If you don't want this much detail, let me know and I will keep the updates short & sweet and just write the rest as if it were a journal.
We very much appreciate all of the cards, gifts, emails, blogs, texts, thoughts and prayers. Good night.
9/10/09: (Update from Eric) Thursday was a strange but good day for Presley. The doctors decided on Wednesday to give her some nutrition through her IV. It's called TPN and they basically give you lipids (fats) and vitamins and minerals through the IV to help you get back to normal. They ran it overnight and I think it helped dramatically. Although, she had a rough night getting comfortable on Wednesday, she actually said she got some good sleep from 3:30 - 7:00 am on Thursday morning. She woke up in a good mood and actually had a little breakfast - yogurt and cocoa puffs with chocolate milk.
We also got one of our favorite nurses, Debbie. She is originally from Canada. On one of our past stays, she saw Presley eating ketchup on her potato chips (a little trick she learned from Dad). When she went home to Canada this summer for vacation, she picked up a bag of ketchup flavored potato chips (which is a normal item) and brought them back in her carry on. When she heard we were admitted, she told our night nurse to go get them out of her locker and bring them to Presley in case we got discharged before she came to work. The nurse delivered in the middle of the night. How thoughtful is this woman? Little things.
Anyway, we had the GFR (kidney function) test this morning and they came and got Presley & I around 8:00 am. It is a simple procedure done in the nuclear medicine department. They inject a dye through her IV and then she gets an MRI on her kidneys. This took about 15 minutes downstairs and then Presley was back in her room with new cocoa puffs from Debbie. She said the other ones had gotten soggy.
The rest of the GFR was three blood draws and that's it. Our first GFR was during our marathon Methotrexate / Bed Bug stay. Her kidneys took a beating from the methotrexate and she scored a 22. 80 is considered normal. A week later, she had another GFR and scored a 35. Still quite a ways from being normal but they were excited to see improvement after our orderal. Today's score was 85 - back to normal.
So, with the good GFR score and her improvement after TPN, we are staying in the hospital this weekend and starting the next round of chemo tomorrow after all. She will have another lumbar puncture (spinal tap) tomorrow morning and then hang the chemo tomorrow evening. We will also continue TPN throughout the weekend and possibly also after we are discharged. The kid needs some nutrition and meat on her bones.
Peri-Ann was with her most of the day and of course, the experiences, learnings and shenanigans do not stop. Thanks to Debbie Roobaert and Madora Schard for stopping by and hanging out with PA & Pres today.
I will withholding comments or stories until after discussion and resolution with the parties involved, but it will be eventful in the next few days - I guarantee it.
9/4/09 - 9/9/09: (Update from Eric) Who would have ever thought the "Bed Bug Saga" would be the Good Old Days? Peri updated last week about the Vincristine treatment and Lumbar puncture that was so much fun. Presley had been doing well but this round was obviously wearing down her strenghth and stamina. The vincristine has caused us one hospital stay by dropping the sodium count too low and unfortunately it has now cost us another one.
Presley has gone to school a couple of days and I took her on Friday for lunch and the back half of her math class. When I returned to pick her up, she had already been in the nurses office for about twenty minutes. She gets tired so quickly and is very weak. Since her treatment was on Monday, we expected her to "bottom out" on Friday, but hoped she would start to recover Saturday. She spent the rest of Friday, sleeping in her bed. She has also been having a lot of leg and back pain in the past week. Some joint and jaw pain is a side effect of the vincristine but this pain was throughout her legs.
On Saturday, we had some neighbors and friends over for brisket and swimming. We hoped Pres would feel well enough to join us in the pool. Unfortunately, she had not improved much and spent most of the day in the chaise lounge by the pool or in her bed. She wanted to go to the beach (Galveston) on Sunday and although she didn't feel well, she was going no matter what. She & Piper slept the entire two hour ride to Galveston and when we go to the hotel, our rooms weren't ready. The Bortmess family joined us on the trip so we decided to get a big poolside lounge bed with an umbrella so Presley could be comfortable. She only joined us in the water once and spent most of her time asleep on the bed.
We ordered room service Sunday night and Presley ate a little bit, but unfortunately wasn't able to keep it down. She had a pretty restless night with leg pain and nausea. In the morning, she joined me on the balcony while I was playing guitar. She started crying and apologized for ruining everyone's holiday. What a kid. She has not felt worse in her life and still continues to worry about other people. I asked if she wanted to head home and she said she wanted to go to the beach. We got ready and made our way to the beach where we rented an umbrella and some chairs along the water. She waded out in the water for just a little while and then went and lay in the shade on the sand. She spent most of the time sleeping.
TIMEOUT -- PIPER STORIES:
People often ask Peri & I how Piper is doing and coping with all of this. I can tell you that she is fine and is usually in her own little world.
She doesn't like it when Presley feels poorly or is in pain. She usually plays outside with her friends when Presley is at home. When she visits Presley in the hospital, she will do crafts or draw / color with Presley when she feels up to it. Otherwise, she plays in the 9th floor play room or with other patient's siblings on the floor. Kids adapt quickly and she has become even more independant.
The other night, she crawled in bed with Presley and fell asleep. Around 12:30am, I heard her come in our room and come to my side of the bed. Mainly, because she knows I give in and let her sleep in our bed much easier than her mother. She walks up to my side of the bed and says "Dad, it keeps going back and forth really fast." I wake up and am confused. "What Piper?"
"Dad, it keeps going back and forth really, really fast like Air hockey". I am totally confused now and ask her "What is going back and forth really fast?" She replies AND I QUOTE: "My mind, dad! It keeps going back and forth really fast and I can't go to sleep".
Where in the world does a six year old come up with that? Of course, I let her in bed and her mind obviously slows down when it hits MY pillow because she is out like a light. I, on the other hand, go outside in the yard and look for the pot she must be growing.
Our last trip to the beach was to Clearwater, FL a couple of years ago. Piper was 4 and not a big fan of water at the time. She didn't like the waves even when I held her in my arms and walked out into the water with her. She obviously wasn't the fish she has become today. This trip, she had no issues with the water.
Nicole Bortmess is in 7th grade and met Presley on a trip when they were down from Chicago looking at houses. They hit it off but unfortunately, Presley was diagnosed a couple of weeks later. Piper thinks she is the bomb and likes to hang with Nicole when she is around. Well, Nicole rented a boogie board and Piper of course go upset because she wanted one too. Todd & I went to get some lunch and when we came back, Piper had a board and was trying to fight the waves, but they were bouncing her around quite a bit.
So, I took Piper out on the board where the waves began. I told her that I would boost her into the wave and she would need to kick like crazy. Sure enough, she caught one and rode it all the way to the beach. She hopped off the board and turned and gave a fist pump. So, we caught waves for the next hour and a half. At one point, the waves were thinning out and she asked me "Dad, where are all the waves?" I told her, that finding the perfect wave was just part of the game. After a bit, she caught one and rode it to the beach. I went and got her and towed her back out. I told her we would catch one more wave and then we had to go home. As she is laying on the board waiting for a wave, I hear her say "It's all part of the game, it's all part of the game". What a kid! At least she listens to me sometimes.
So, I boost her into a wave and she doesn't catch it and only goes a few yards. She thinks that's the end and starts crying and yells "Dad, that was not the right wave". We get ready again and she catches a good one to end the day.
Presley and Piper sleep the whole way back to the house from Houston. Presley is weak and tired and Peri has to carry her to her room and bed. I sleep with her Monday night and she has a very bad night with leg pain and nausea.
At work on Tuesday, I call home around 1:00 to see she did with her home bound teacher. Peri said she got sick and was in bed. I called Dr. Redell and she told us to bring her in to the ER.
PA & Presley arrived around 2:00 pm and they took vitals. Presley now weighs 50 pounds. That's right - 50. When she was diagnosed, she weighed 72 and now weighs 50. She is literally skin and bones and they are concerned. She is also dehydrated so they are going to give her fluids.
Everyone has heard of Murphy's Law right? Well, from now on in Texas Children's, it will be known as Boydstun's Law!!
We have documented that Presley struggles with getting her port accessed. She gets very anxious, nervous and upset and this time was no different. So, as they were preparing to access her, she was getting upset and crying. In this little ER room, there were 3 ER nurses, PA & I and a Child Life Specialist. Child LIfe Specialists are basically there to explain things in kids terms to the patients, keep them entertained and take the mind of the upcoming procedure. WE have encountered good specialists like Dana in the clinic and not so good ones. Well, obviously this one did not have much experience with older kids. She asked Presley what sticker she wanted for her port dressing - Elmo or Dora the Explorer. HELLO, she is 11 years old. She outgrew them back when the child life specialist was in junior high. So, I took over trying to calm Presley.
The nurses brought in the tray (kit that has everything needed to start the IV) and then noticed that they were giving detailed directions to the youngest nurse. PA & I lock eyes and you guessed it - a first timer. Texas Children's is a teaching hospital and we have had our run-ins with interns and residents but the nursing staff has always been outstanding. I decide to give the rookie a shot - Poor decision on my part.
I am trying to calm Presley by holding her hands and her head and looking in her eyes while the rookie gets ready to access the port. As the nurse is about to put the needle in her port, I look and the rookie's hand is shaking like a leaf. She is very nervous. And because she is so nervous, she tries to be gentle and punctures the skin and not the port underneath with the needle. Not once, not twice, but three times before she gets it into the port. Then, it gets better. They hook up the flush and it won't flush or draw blood. They have to pull it out and do it again.
I have had enough and explain that someone with experience is going to access the port. The rookie can learn by watching. Sure enough, the experienced nurse accesses with little pain for Presley and gets us rocking.
The Crux of the Matter -- Presley's condition and treatment>>
Presley was dehydrated and her electrolytes were out of whack. She needed a magnesium infusion, which also required a neurological exam as she was getting it. This is another story altogether. Her WBC and ANC were low but she doesn't have a fever or sign of infection which is good. They admitted her last night and we got a room around 10:30pm. She slept fitfully but looked a little better this morning.
I spoke with Dr. Redell this morning and we agreed that vincristine is the culprit again. It has been very rough on her both times. Pres was scheduled for a GFR (kidney test) this morning but they decided to postpone. They want a true baseline of kidney function from the GFR and they don't feel her body would give an accurate reading in her condition. They are also considering postponing the chemo scheduled for Friday.
Tomorrow, the leukemia team will be meeting and as usual, Presley will be a top discussion. After that, we will have a better idea of where we are going.
Thanks for all of the calls, emails, texts, blogs, thoughts and prayers. They truly lift us up!!!
Also, a special thanks to the Shell Adopt a Boydstun program. Everyone has been so supportive of Presley and our family and even now you go above and beyond the call of friendship. Thank you so much for your thoughtfulness.
8/31/09 - 9/3/09: (Update from Peri) Well...... we have officially hit the 100 day mark! Most of the time its hard to believe it has ONLY been 100 days. Sometimes it seems like years, but thankful for everything we have learned in just a short time. Dr. Redell continues to tell us it will get easier and I continue to ask WHEN? She promises it will happen, but does admit we have definitely "thrown some curve balls into the fight." With all that being said, let me give a quick recap of he past week, what has happened this week, and the plan for the next phase of treatment.
As Presley wrote in her update, we went to the clinic Monday and she received Vincristine (which is only a 15 minute IV push). The problem is when we go to clinic, we usually have to wait at least 2 hours to get the push and by then she has worked her self up and needs Adivan to calm her nerves. As Eric has stated in previous updates, the clinic is an experience in itself - a huge room with children all around with all types of cancer walking, sitting, and sleeping with their IV poles. It is an "eye opening" experience to everyone involved. We got home later that afternoon and all seemed good. During the week her joints started to stiffen up and lots of muscle pain, but she was able to start her home-bound school curriculum. The teacher (Ms. Yoakum) comes to the house 3 days a week for a total of 4 hours. Also, she was able to make it to her school and meet her teachers - they are wonderful and willing to do whatever they can to help her have a successful 6th grade year.
On Sat. night, Eric and I were able to go out for the evening to do our Fantasy F-ball draft (by the way - the P3 Punishers will kick Booty this year). Thanks to Nicole Bortmess for coming over, bringing pizza and hanging out with the girls!
Monday, we were back to the clinic for a doctor visit, counts, and and Lumbar puncture (LP) (spinal tap) and a push of Vincristine. Once again, it turned into an all day affair. Our appointment was scheduled for 10:30 and needless to say, we left the clinic at 5:00. They did not began the LP until around 2:00. The LP is usually done at PACU where she is completely sedated. However, there weren't any spots so it was performed in a room in the clinic. She was given some sedatives so she wouldn't remember and then a local in her back prior to the LP. Needless to say, this will probably never happen again!! The medication they give her to "make her sleepy" also makes her very teary which lasted throughout the day and the night. Bless her heart, she just kept apologizing and crying all the way home and until we finally got her to go to bed - thank goodness she doesn't remember any of it, but "pulls on your heart strings" as a parent watching your child go through this.
Tuesday she decided she wanted to try to go to school, so she got all ready, drove her to the school, and by the time we walked in I could tell she was a nervous wreck. Honestly, I'm not so sure who was more nervous her or me - I felt like a mom taking her child to Kindergarten on the the 1st day of school - I just had this huge lump in my throat trying to hold back the tears. So, as we stood their waiting for her class to come into the room, I started hearing the whispering "There's Presley"!! Then as the class filed in one of her friends ran up to her and gave her a BIG hug. At that point, I knew she would be ok. She handled it for about an hour - which was fine, because then she had home-bound coming later that afternoon.
That evening Eric took Piper to the doctor, her nose had started running on Monday and now with Presley you can can't be too cautious. Well, after only 1 week of school Piper now has 2 ear infections and a sinus infection, which means she will wear a mask until the antibiotics are working and she is no longer contagious. Piper is so funny, she doesn't even know she is sick, she never even complained about her ears and now giggles when she wears the mask. She definitely keeps humor in our house!!
Thursday Presley attended school again and actually stayed for lunch and recess - this gave her the opportunity to see and talk to more of her friends. It was a good day! When I picked her up, the nurse told me it was SO GOOD to see her outside with the kids and the cute smile on her face. Yea!!!!
So, here are the plans for our next round of treatment. We are scheduled to go Wednesday, September 9th for another GFR (kidney function test). If you don't remember from an earlier update, a normal person's kidney score is around 80. Her last test was 38. We are hoping that it has continued to go up. We need it to be at least 65 for methotrexate treatment.
However, Dr. Redell wants to go ahead and proceed with our next round of chemo but we are rearranging the protocol to allow Presley's kidneys to continue to improve. So, instead of giving the Methotrexate (this is the chemo that we call the BAD medicine), we are proceeding with Etoposide and Cyclophosphamide. She has had these chemos before and her body seems to tolerate them well. Etoposide can cause bladder problems, so Mesna is given with it to protect the bladder. We will be admitted on Friday, September 11th and hopefully be discharged on Tuesday the 15th. After that, we should be on a two week break to let the kidneys recover, and then will revisit if her body can handle the Methotrexate. Please keep her in your thoughts on Wed. and next Friday, that her kidneys and body are ready for the next fight!!
I know many of you have made donations through the website and directly to Chase and because of the way the account is set up, I'm having a hard time finding out who has made these donations. Please know how much these are TRULY appreciated and if you have a chance, please just send me a quick email to let us know. We would never want anyone to think they have been forgotten.
Again, we are so grateful for all of the WONDERFUL emails, cards, texts, phone calls and prayers. We hope everyone has a safe and happy Labor Day weekend!!
Much love to you ALL!!
8/25/09 - 8/30/09: (Update from Presley) Hey everyone. This week has been an okay week for me. I just have been sore all over. It hurt so bad. Well, my phone got stolen at TCH. Ya, can you believe it? Well anyway, I got a new phone and it is so cool! It is the rumor 2. This week I also started home schooling. My teacher is so nice, but I will also get to go back to school. I'm so excited. I'm ready to see all my friends again. I went to the school and met my teachers. They are all so nice, but my science teacher looks like she is about twelve. Well, I go back to TCH on Monday to get chemo and counts. Wish me luck. Love you all, Presley
P.S. Go Yellow Jackets!!! {my uncle's football team}
8/24/09: (Update from Eric) In my long winded update for the week, I managed to leave off some good results & what is happening in the next couple of days.
Her Bone Marrow Aspiration results came back on Wednesday afternoon. This test is to see how much leukemia is in her body. Her score came back @ 2.5. Anything below 5 is awesome, so Dr. Redell was very pleased. We must continue the treatment and put it away for good.
THIS WEEK: Presley has an appointment today (Monday) at the TCH Clinic. She will get labs drawn to check her counts, see the Nurse Practitioner, and then get a chemo push of Vincristine. Should be in and out today and home this afternoon. We have to watch her sodium counts during this treatment as the vincristine caused us a hospital stay last time. Nothing scheduled for the rest of the week and will go back next Monday for similar treatment and a spinal treatment to finish up the block. Thanks again for all of the emails, calls, letters, notes, blogs, thoughts & prayers.
8/19/09- 8/23/09: (Update from Eric) OK. Sorry for the delay in updates. It has been a crazy week from a business, family & Presley standpoint. Last we left you, Peri & Presley were going in to begin the Re-Induction phase of treatment. Here's the outline of what we did this week:
Monday:
Clinic to run CBC (Complete Blood Composition), PACU for Spinal & Bone Marrow Aspiration, and Chemo Treatment (Vincristine & Daunorubicin). Peri & Presley left for the hospital and I left for Memphis on Monday morning. Presley was tired from the weekend but has been feeling well. Even though she has had her port accessed several times, she still gets very uptight about it and this time was no different. They access her port and will leave it accessed so she can come and go over the next couple of days and doesn't have to get poked each day. She did well, got her CBC and then headed over to PACU for the LP & BMA. The LP (Spinal) is the chemo treatment directly into her spine to insure she does not get any leukemia cells in her Central Nervous System. During our epic methotrexate saga, Dr. Nabil Ahmed said that 20% of all relapses come from CNS leukemia. So, they continue to treat through the spinal chord until she is cancer free.
The Bone Marrow Aspiration is the test to see how much MRD (Mutual Residual Disease) her bone marrow is creating. In other words, is her body still creating cancer. These are not fun tests but they put her out @ PACU and she typically wakes up pretty emotional. After her BMA & recovery, they headed back to the clinic and she got her chemo treatment and headed home.
Tuesday:
PA & Presley returned in the afternoon to get another Daunorubicin treatment in the clinic. In & out - No issues. I on the other hand, flew through a hellacious thunderstorm from Memphis to Chicago. The older I get, the more travel is a pain. My fuse gets shorter & shorter and Murphy's Law gets longer & longer. It is always comforting to be sitting on the tarmac in an aluminum tube and then take off into lightning, thunder & rain. Flying @ 30,000 and looking out your window at a light show that rivals Led Zeppelin "The Song Remains the Same" laser show, is not such a thrill anymore. We arrived in Chicago and had a rental car reserved through Avis. Let me be the first to tell you that in today's day & age, Avis does not "Try Harder". they could give a rat's ass. I travel enough & my company spends enough money with them that we should have some clout. Nope. We get to the rental car lot, car is not ready, and spend 45 minutes waiting for a mini-van because the Tahoe we rented was not ready. The East German counter person was kind enough to not charge me for a Tahoe price. DUH! Then she started to ask me if I wanted navigation and realized she couldn't even offer that. Fun times in travel land.
Wednesday:
Presley is scheduled to be admitted for a new (for her) chemo treatment.(Cyclophosphamide). Any time, there is a new drug administered in the protocol, they have to observe for side effects. Therefore, an admission is required. So, we have this admission scheduled for a couple of weeks. Clinic, hospital, doctors know this is coming. PA & Presley are scheduled to be at the clinic at 9:30am. They arrive punctually as ever. No labs or anything - just waiting for a room. And waiting..... And waiting.... And waiting...... Long & Painful story short, PA & Presley were alone in the clinic with the cleaning people at 6:30 playing UNO.
Here is one organizational flaw of TCH - Even if you have a scheduled admission, it doesn't guarantee you a room. The other flaw is that they told PA & Pres, that if they left and came back, they would lose their place in line for a room. The longer they waited, the more upset & anxious Presley became. They started her on fluids around 3:00 and gave her some Attivan to calm her down, so she at least got a little rest.
I, on the other hand, am losing my mind in Chicago. Peri-Ann is calling / texting me with updates and I am getting pissed by the minute. Dr. Redell is on vacation in Montana, but I page her anyway. Nothing. Here's where it pays to know people: I call Kathleen Casey. I have mentioned & thanked her in previous updates. She is the founder & President of Bear Necessities Pediatric Cancer Charity. She has helped us immensely before with contacts and I call her to get the Big Boy's contact info. After she delivers again, I send Dr. Poplack and email saying I want a face-to-face meeting when I get home Friday. I get a call from Dr. Poplack, fifteen minutes after the email - meeting is set.
Meanwhile, Presley finally gets a room around 7:30 and get our FAVORITE nurse - Lauri. She ROCKS!!!. Chemo is hung quickly and we are on our way.
Thursday:
Presley is doing well with chemo and I head home Thursday evening. I head straight to the hospital from the airport and get there around 11:00PM. Presley is asleep and resting well. Lauri is our nurse again and all goes well. PA & I spend a romantic night on a pull out couch together -- who needs Niagra Falls?.
Friday:
Our day nurse Katie, who is new to us, is awesome. She works through our schedule and finds every angle to get us out and home Friday night. Presley has to have two shots in her thighs and a pint of blood before we leave. Shots aren't anybody's thing, but Presley doesn't do well at all. She gets so worked up prior to the actual shot that it is impossible to calm her down. There are crying fits, "Daddy, i don't want to do this" and so much anxiety, that the actual shot becomes a physical presence. Her demeanor changes about four hours prior to the shot. She becomes sullen, then edgy, then down right insolent. We have had several nurses try relaxation techniques and Child Life specialists try things. Unfortunately, our Child Life specialist this time thought "Where's Waldo" was a good distraction. I had this visual of hitting her in the nose and asking her which knuckle Waldo was on. Is that wrong? We got the shots around 11:00, got my ear drums repaired at noon and headed off to my meeting with the head cheese @ 1:45.
Dr. David Poplack is very respected physician in Children's Pediatric Cancer circles and is "the brass" @ TCH. We have met him once before in clinic because of our relationship with Kathleen Casey. This meeting was a little different.
I wanted to meet with him not because I am upset with Presley's treatment & progress, but because of the chaos and lack of attention and organization of our entire ordeal. PA & I are not high maintenance. If you think we are, please send an email to kissmyrear@pbkicksit.com All we want is for Presley to get the very best care available and attention to our concerns & issues. If you have the time, scroll back through this chronicle of our care and start counting our issues.
I walked into his office and he went on a 5 minute apology speech and mentioned the "bed bugs" 5 times. Let me tell you, TCH is embarrassed and maybe a little scared about that incident. It had no bearing on my meeting. My biggest complaint and concern is the lack of communication and organization around this entire process. We have had a STRANGE TRIP - even by pediatric cancer standards. The good thing is it doesn't relate to Presley's treatment and progress - the bad news is all the other stuff adds to the stress of the situation for Presley and us. We were diagnosed prior to Labor Day weekend when everyone was on vacation, so we didn't even get the basics in the beginning.
THANK GOD for SAM McELROY or we would have NO IDEA what the hell lay ahead of us. THANK GOD for Lance "our first night nurse" that introduced us to Jimmy & Deana Lieberman and they gave us insight and a heads up about the clinic.
All of our insight into this roller coaster ride has come from people outside Texas Children's Hospital and that's what my discussion with Dr. Poplack was simply around:
If PA & I are Presley's advocates in this treatment, Who is our Family advocate?
Who do PA & I go to when we have issues outside of treatment?
Who the hell do we call so Pres won't have to sit 9 hours in a clinic waiting for a room?
Why do they not block rooms on the 9th Floor (Hemotology & Oncology) for cancer patients only?
Who do we contact to discuss issues about our child's mental / emotional health?
The crux of the matter is the primary doctor is supposed to be our advocate. Although I LOVE Dr. Redell, I don't feel she goes beyond the treatment aspect. She cares deeply about Presley and her treatment but beyond that we have been on our own. I told him of my conversations with Dr. Nachmann from the University of Chicago (whom he knows well) and I think I embarrassed him by saying we had to go outside of TCH to find someone to explain things to us. Dr. Poplack was very cordial and apologetic. I told him about Sam's trip to Houston after we were diagnosed and he was embarrassed that his staff had done such a poor job of education. They have introduced a new policy since Presley was diagnosed that insures you meet your Clinical doctor prior to leaving the hospital after you initial stay.
The tough news is that TCH is the largest Children's hospital in the world and has had a 16% increase in patients over the last 12 months. Literally, they are bursting at the seams. They are working on new patient admissions processes that will eliminate Presley sitting in the clinic for 9 hours but with any organization, one change to a process means a domino effect to other processes. I expressed my concern that Non-Critical care patients took up rooms on the 9th floor when kids with cancer had to wait in the clinic or the ER. They are working on that as well.
They are also building a new hospital in West Houston that will hopefully take the burden off downtown. I hope it happens sooner than later.
Finally, he introduced me to Dr. Brigitta Mueller, the Clinical Director and would have introduced me to Dr. Stupor (sp) - Head of Leukemia if he was present. We have a DIRECT line of communication to the Brass now and believe me we will not be afraid to use it.
OK. Off Soapbox.
Pres got to come home Friday evening and we had a great weekend.
1) Daddy & Shell Lubes won the Shell Mark Keller Memorial Basketball Tournament on Saturday donning sweet Team Presley jerseys. I can't walk, but victory still is sweet.
2) We celebrated a Stinky 16 with Brandon Schard Saturday afternoon. Good food & good times.
3) School starts tomorrow and Piper is pumped.
There hasn't been many updates involving Piper this summer. Don't worry. She has been busy & spoiled rotten. She went up to the farm in Oklahoma and spent 10 days with Grammy. She went to "Camp Beard" for a week while we were in the hospital clearing methotrexate. She has been dancing to Michael Jackson's "Thriller" non-stop since I bought it as a joke for Presley. The little chick has got some moves I don't even want to contemplate.
4) Presley will go to Tom Cox Intermediate when her counts are up and she feels up to it. I will give a more detailed description of her education after this week, when Homebound comes for the first time.
Sorry for the delay and "The Odyssey" of updates.
Thanks for all the emails, texts, calls, notes, thoughts & prayers. Each and every one lifts us up.
8/12/09 - 8/18/09: (Update from Peri) Sorry for the delay in an update, but actually things have been a little quite - which is a WONDERFUL thing in our world. We did have a GFR test last Wed. (this is an all day test that shows how well the kidneys are functioning). So, a "normal" person is usually in the 80's, when we left the hospital a week ago Presley's was 22 - very abnormal, it is now at 38 still very abnormal but Dr. Redell was pleased it is going up and permitted her to go ahead and start her next round of chemo because it is not one of the higher dosages. When she does need the higher dosage her level will have to be up to at least 65 - so we now have that to battle with.
On Friday I had a meeting with Presley's school to discuss "home-bound" - this is where the school district will send out a teacher 3 days a week to help her with all her school assignments. I have to admit, I was really nervous about this meeting because Eric and I had requested that she be able to attend when her counts up and she is feeling well. We really weren't sure how everything was going to play out. Presley so needs to feel she is still apart of her 6th class, just as she was, before May 19th. All I can say is that Ms.Corbitt (counselor) and the entire Tom Cox staff have gone above and beyond to make this work. I couldn't wait to give Presley the great news. Let me tell you, that is one of the BIGGEST/best smiles I had seen from her in about 3 months!! She is SO excited to go - kind of crazy for an 11 year old huh? We are learning so fast how we cherish every little thing that will make our sweet girl smile.
Speaking of smiles, she had another great weekend. Kendal came to visit her and we had volleyball tournments all day Sat. in the pool - she played the whole time. It was so fun to watch her get excited and even talk some smack to the opponents (which was usually boys against girls) - GIRLS ROCK!!
Well, we started our next round today, we arrived @ TCH about 7:00 am, had labs drawn, saw the nurse practicioner, headed down to PACU for her spinal tab (chemo injections) and bone marrow aspiration. Then finally back to infusion room for IV chemo push of Vincristine and Daunorubicin, finally returned home about 4:30 pm. Needless to say it was a long day and the anesthesia seems to make her very emotional, so had quite a few tears. We will return to clinic tomorrow for another dose of Daunorubicin. Then admitted for Wed & Thurs for Cyclophosphamide (a new chemo) and then HOPEFULLY home by Friday. We just want this round to go without any unexpected surprises - boring would be great!
We will continue to let you how everything goes throughout the week. Again, we cannot express to everyone how much we appreciate the calls, text, emails, cards, thoughts and prayers.
MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL!!
8/7/09 - 8/11/09: (Update from Presley) My mom, dad, and Piper broke me out on Friday night. We didn't even go home. My dad picked us up and we headed straight for the lake. We went to the Palamara's lake house in Crockett. I had a blast. On Saturday we went boating and had a big pasta dinner with all the neighbors. Then, on Sunday I went tubing with Julia and Mr.Jim threw me off right off the bat, but i loved it. My dad went tubing and wake boarding. He said he is so sore. Thank You to the Palamara Family for treating me like a queen.
Today me, Piper, and my mom are going to run some errands. I'm going to get my new school backpack. I don't know which one I'm going to get yet, but it is going to be super cute.
I go back to TCH for a GFR (kidney function) test tomorrow and then should be free until next Monday - Yea another FREE weekend!
Love You All,
Presley
8/3/09 - 8/6/09: (Update from Eric) Well, we are on Day 13 of a projected 4 Day Hospital stay. This has been the strangest trip of this whole surreal journey. I last left you with a case of scabies and Presley's projected release date of Tuesday pending her methotrexate level getting below 0.10. Well, guess what, we are still freakin' here on Thursday the 6th of August.
Since Sunday's update - let me catch you up on events:
1.) Presley's methotrexate levels went from 0.27 / 0.18 / 0.15 / 0.14 / 0.11 -- We have to be below 0.10 to get the heck out of here.
2.) We have played jokes on several nurses and been paid back in spades
3.) I don't really have scabies (which is good) - IT WAS FREAKIN' BED BUGS (WHICH IS WORSE)!!
4.) Oh yeah, WE ARE STILL IN THE HOSPITAL.
Presley update:
She feels great, her counts are good yet her body cannot clear the methotrexate quickly. Methotrexate is hard on the kidneys and they haven't bounced back as quickly as we hoped. Her weight and blood pressure have fluxuated with the fluid intake and output. Today, she looks great, her cheeks aren't as puffy but her color is a little pale because her red blood cell count is low. However, since it is Day 12 after chemo, the docs believe her counts will start to trend up and don't think she will need a transfusion. Sunday, Monday & Tuesday were tough on her mentally because she didn't hit the number to get out of here. Wednesday it was Peri's turn to get emotional and today I was furious. If you see a mushroom cloud to the South Friday morning.......
Another wrinkle thrown in the mix......Presley had her braces removed Wednesday before we began the methotrexate treatment. One of the major side effects of methotrexate is mouth sores. They form on the inside, outside and can even grow in the esophagus and are very painful. Dr. Redell wanted Presley's braces removed because she didn't want them to irritate the mouth sores and potentially become infected. Well, Presley didn't get any mouth sores. So I guess we put a 2 year delay on straight teeth for nothing.
Dr. Redell hasn't made a decision on our path for future treatments with methotrexate. There a couple of options: (1) No more methotrexate in the treatment protocol or (2) lowering the dosage on future treatments. She has brought it up with other oncologists in the group and there are mixed opinions as usual. We have a few weeks before we get to a decision point so I'll keep you posted.
OK. We're EXTREMELY disappointed that we are still in TCH. It is difficult to stay calm when we were supposed to only be five or six days. The treatment didn't go as planned and an extra week has been hard on the mental / emotional state of everyone. However, I would be lying if I said we haven't had some really fun times in the past week or so. We have developed some really good relationships with some of the nurses and even if they aren't taking care of Presley, they all stop in and hang out. A couple of good ones I will share:
* Presley wanted Taco Bell the other night so I stopped and got her a TB kid's meal. The toy was the coolest kid's meal toy EVER!!! Well, I thought so anyway. It was Mexican wrestling masks and capes for your thumbs to play thumb war. TOO COOL!!! Rich came by and we had several matches while Presley was laughing her rear end off!! At one point, we had to stop because she couldn't breathe and we didn't want to get Rich to get in trouble for causing a patient to hyperventilate. He stuck around for quite a while and Presley pulled up some funny YouTube videos. be Pretty good night!
* Each nurse on the floor has a wireless phone on the floor so patients can reach them if they are in another room or something. We haven't had to use it much except for calling in for Radio Lollipop games and requests. Presley & I got the list of all the nurses on the floor the other night and Pres started crank calling them. I know, I know, we shouldn't be screwing with someone while they are taking care of a kid with cancer, but what the hell, you get awful bored in this place. Anyway, Pres crank called Lauri the other night and Lauri got her back big time.
After Presley called, a nurse we had never met before stepped in our room and told Presley she needed to do a blood draw. She had the BIGGEST NEEDLE & SYRINGE I have ever seen. Presley's eyes were as big as saucers. She couldn't speak. The nurse said she had to draw it from her funny bone. Then Lauri blasted in the door and Pres finally got it.
* Blythe & Preston Palamara came up to see Pres on Tuesday evening and brought dinner. Jim & I joined them after work. Radio Lollipop was on and Pres & Preston were doing a craft and calling in for the radio contests. Preston is a hoot. He won the final big contest and we were all cracking up at what he was saying to the DJ on the air. He was hilarious and Presley stomach was sore from laughing so hard. The kid is a riot just like his dad. However, I pity Jim for the next couple of years. You reap what you sew.
Silver Lining Moment: I know Presley & Peri have had fun during the day, but I will remember these nights with her for the rest of my life. We have spent more quality time together in this hospital in the last 3 months than we have the last three years. When there are no outside distractions (work, school, friends, TV, email) it is amazing how great a time you can have with your kids. We have laughed, cried, snuggled and held hands and although I hate she is in here, I thank God for those moments.
Finally, the creme de la creme of hospital moments. Last update I told you I went to my doctor to get treated for scabies. Presley & I both did the treatment one night and they kept us confined to her room for a day. Well a lot of good that did us.
Remember hearing from your parents or telling your kids "Good night, sleep tight, don't let the bed bugs bite". Perfedtly harmless, sweet & cute. I am here to tell you today that "bed bugs" are real and are venomous little creatures. After treatment last Friday night, I kept waking up with more welts and bumps. It became the big joke on the 9th floor and at work. I had to wear long sleeve shirts because my arms looked so bad and my hands and neck weren't much better. I woke up itching like crazy on Wednesday morning about 3:30 a.m and couldn't go back to sleep. I surfed the web for a couple of hours and then tried to lay back down. As I lay there, I looked down on my chest and there is a little creepy crawler. I nabbed him and put him in a medicine cup. It looked like a tick. I showed our night nurse and she called facility operations.
When Pres & I got back from her echo around 8:30 a.m., there were two people at our door. I showed them the bug and they apologized and told me they would give us another room when one opened up. PA relieved me and I went home and ran some errands. Well, while I was gone, the perverbial stuff hit the fan.
PA was sitting on the couch and a bed bug crawled on her leg. She had gotten a couple of bites in the past day or two but nothing serious. She caught it and showed it to the day nurse. She called facility operations and told them to get down here stat. The room next door had emptied and they were going to put us in there. They brought down insect control and decided to check the room next door before we moved in. Well, as Presley tells it, they pulled the mattress off the couch and then pulled the entire couch away from the wall. Presley said the people in there went nuts and a lady ran out screaming. Infestation of bed bugs!!! The pest control guy said that this type of bed bug was from either South America or Jersey. Leave it to us, we can't even get domestic insects. We have to get illegal alien bed bugs. They must be part of a cartel because they are brutal and vicious as well.
So, rooms 918 & 919 are completely cleaned out (including Peri, Presley and all our stuff) and then sprayed, aired out and we get moved to 926. So Peri stayed with Presley last night and I went home and got a great night's sleep. Don't worry, I checked the bag, clothes and everything else for bugs before taking it in the house. I took pics of my arms hands, and back and hope Alicia will post to the site. (Posted the pics above. All I can say is "eeewwww".)
Sorry for a such a long update but it's been a wild week.
Thanks for all the calls, texts, emails, thoughts and prayers. Oh yeah, I'll never make any leper jokes or comments again.
Love to all.
7/30/09 - 8/2/09: (Update from Eric) Still here at Texas Children's on Sunday night. This is our longest stay so far and definitely the most interesting. For Presley, it has been more difficult mentally since she has felt pretty well since Tuesday evening. Peri-Ann & I have been trading shifts. I take the nights and PA stays with her during the days. We at least get to come and go and leave this place for a while. Presley, although she feels well, is stuck in this place. I am pretty sure it feels like prison.
I documented how good the nurses have been during this stay and we have continued to get good care through the weekend. There has been one little incident that really makes it a true "Boydstun experience". I have made jokes that Presley's diagnosis, treatment, and care have all been anything but normal even for leukemia patients. First of all, she is Philadelphia Positive which effects less than 3% of pediatric leukemia cases. Now, the HD Methotrexate treatment was brutal to her body and we will have to change the treatment in the future. Now, youra truly throws a curve ball in the mix.
People have asked me how we stay up here with Presley. Let me give you a brief description.
We have a nice size room with Presley's patient bed, TV, VCR, and Sony Playstation provided for her. We also have a closet, our own bathroom (complete with bathtub & shower) and a nice pull out couch for us parents to sleep on. Now mind you, it does not pull out like a traditional couch that creates a full size bed. The cushion is equal to a twin bed and they provide plenty of sheets, blankets, etc. During her diagnosis and initial stay, PA & I spent several nights spooning like our honeymoon because that was the only way we could both fit on the bed. Whomever was on the outside had to get up with Presley for potty time or anything else. Then the inside person moved to the outside and was ready for the next time.
When we checked into our room on Friday evening, we were running around taking care of several different things. Nobody had time to sit down and relax. PA left to go home to Piper and I stayed with Presley. The cushion / mattress was horrible. It was like someone with an ass the size of Delaware sat right in the middle and created a meteor crater. By the time I got to lay down, it was too late to do anything about it. The next night PA was going to stay and she asked Rich if she could switch cushions with one of the empty rooms. He called and got us a new one. I stayed with Presley on Sunday night and woke up Monday morning with bites on my elbow that looked like the "Big Dipper". I showed the nurses and then it became a big joke on the floor. We replaced the mattress again, but it didn't help.
Unfortunately, it just kept getting worse and worse and worse. They grew from my left elbow to cover my entire left arm and then Thursday they started on the left side of my neck. They itched madly. I asked every nurse and intern to look at it hoping they might be able to give me something for it. I also showed Dr. Redell as we rode down the elevator together discussing Presley's situation. She said "Have you shown the nurses?". Hell yes. I have shown everyone.
Finally, Friday at work I couldn't take it anymore. I left work, drove to my "doc in the box" in the Woodlands and waited 2 hours to see someone. He walked right in and said "Ooh, that looks nasty. Where did you get scabies?" I told him Texas Children's Hospital. That's Right!!!! SCABIES!! From a hospital!! From some huge ass that formed a meteor crater in a mattress.
Well, God hath no wrath like a mother / wife whose husband has been diagnosed with scabies in their daughter's hospital room. PA went nuclear on the entire staff. They brought in a team and disinfected the entire room. Then they told PA & Presley, that I could not come back up here and stay with her even though I got them from this room. Not a good move on their part. I was staying with Presley come hell or high water. So, we both got treated for scabies on Friday night.
Basically, it is just a cream that you rub in from head to toe after a shower. I got a little concerned when I read the label and it said "Do not allow to remain on skin for more than 12 hours. Seizures and or death could result." I know it is just a precaution, but I hate to tell the manufacturer that I would have started to seize from the itching and scratching after 12 hours. BTW, the fallout is just now settling here in Room 918. Nurses finally will meet our eyes as we pass them in the hall. PA says we have the scarlet letter above our door now on the 9th floor. Who cares? My itch is finally easing up. The thing that just boils my chili is I had to go to my own doctor to get some help. Wasn't I in a hospital?
Anyway, Presley is feeling well and is READY to be PAROLED!!! We just have to get her Methotrexate number down below 0.10 and it was 0.27 this morning. We are hoping for a release tomorrow but more than likely it will be Tuesday. She just wants to pet her dog, sleep in her own bed and be able to go outside of this hospital.
Thanks for everyone that came and visited this weekend - Schards, Poseys, and Bortmess Family. Special thanks to Papa, Bicki & Uncle Greg for coming down and hanging out.
NEXT UPDATE: Piper's new motorcycle gang - our neighbors in 915 & hopefully Presley's return home. Thanks for all the thoughts, prayers, emails, texts, and calls. Love to all.
7/27/09 - 7/29/09: (Update from Eric) Sorry to leave everyone hanging......
Last update was dire and grim and I apologize for leaving it like that for so long. It's been a wild week. PA has been here during the days, while I go to the office and I relieve her and spend the nights. The good news is my commute is only about 15 minutes from Texas Children's.
Monday was pretty rough on her as she was still had nausea and stomach issues. She was up every hour or so in the restroom and was asleep when she wasn't there. She had puffy eyes with dark circles under them. I told her she looked like she had gone ten rounds with Mike Tyson. Of course, she asked "who is Mike Tyson?". I shouldn't have been surprised. Just last week, I cut her out of the will because she didn't know John Elway. Tyson, I understand, but John Elway? Really? Even the kids from "Slumdog Millionaire" know John Elway. OK, maybe a slight exaggeration, but she should know daddy's favorite athlete of all time.
When I arrived from work on Monday evening, she had just gotten a phenigren push for nausea. 15 minutes later, she was still vomiting. Something was not right. Dr. Nabil came in and prescribed dexamethasone which is a steroid. He seemed surprised when we didn't argue. I guess some parents don't like prescribing "steroids" to their kids. I've told you before, if it makes her feel good & normal again, I don't care what it is. We got the "dex" and it seemed to settle her stomach and actually perked her up a little. Monday night was still more of the same but at least her stomach was OK.
When I left for work on Tuesday morning, she had not eaten ANYTHING since Thursday night. She was already skin and bones, so I begged her to try and eat some yogurt. Two bites was all she took but at least it was something. I left Peri-Ann and Pres and headed to the office. Tuesday was another crazy day at the Dark Tower so I didn't get to check in until late afternoon. I called Peri and guess what - Presley had pulled a Lazareth. She was up, active, in a good mood and eating. She had a second dose of "Dex" and it seemed to do the trick. When I got to the room after work, she was doing great. Piper & Debbie Roobaert were there and they were making necklaces and listening to "Radio Lollipop".
Other than the quality of care, the other reason TCH is so good is because it is geared specifically toward kids. "Radio Lollipop" is a real radio station located on the 16th floor and piped through the TV in TCH. They are On Air - Tuesday through Thursday evenings and kids can enter contests, request songs, call in jokes and even sing with the music on the air. Presley had not paid much attention to it during our previous stays because we were here on the weekends and she also felt bad. But here they were, trying to call in and win contests every 15 or 20 minutes. The competitive side of Piper was unleashed. If they weren't the right caller - she was pissed. They won an art contest and both got prizes and their names mentioned on the air. Too Cool.
Anyway, the last two days have been much better. She has had no nausea and her stomach issues are infrequent. She has been active with her sister and actually spent some time on the 16th floor today in the library and pre-teen rec room. We played a serious game of "Boggle" tonight with a couple of the nurses Rich & Laurie. Speaking of nurses.......
I really respect the nursing profession. They have serious knowledge of medicine and deal directly with the patients much more than a physician. They are advocates for the patients and patient's families. In fact, I probably could have been a nurse except for that whole "studying in college" thing. Whatever, I digress. Anyway, since you deal with nurses so much, and they are taking care of your kid, you want to develop a good, healthy, trusting relationship with them. In fact, I compare it to a more intense version of the relationship with the wait staff at a favorite restaurant. One can handle poor service (slow, mistakes, spills) if the waiter or waitress is nice, respectful and fun. This shouldn't surprise you about Peri-Ann or I, but personality plays a huge part in relationships with us. The same goes with doctors and nurses.
We have had good and bad in our stints at Texas Children's. During our first stay, we only had one bad relationship with a nurse. After our ER episode, I scared the hell out of a nurse on the 7th floor. Since then, we have learned that we can sway the "Charge Nurse" in subtle ways to get whom we want. Friday night was not good, so we subtlely asked for someone else on Saturday night. We have been blessed with some great people since then. Laurie, Jerilyn, Angela & Rich have been awesome and Presley has really developed a relationship with them. We are greatful for their care and interest in Presley. Thank you very much.
OK. I have been rambling for 20 paragraphs and haven't even really given an update. Here is the situation as it stands tonight:
We had to stop the HD Methotrexate dosage because her kidneys were becoming toxic. They started the rescue drug Leucovorin and fluids to flush it out of her system. We have gone from a Methotrexate score of 21,000 to 0.99 this evening. Most would think that is good and it is somewhat. However, before they let her out of here, it has to be below 0.10. The last .89 is going to take a while. Her kidney function is not 100% so they are watching her closely. Dr. Redell estimated yesterday Presley would be in here for a week flushing her system. We have had renal specialists in here and they say there should not be any long term damage or effects from this treatment, but they need to flush her kidneys for a while.
Her roadmap of treatment is up in the air right now. Since HD Methotrexate is a big part of her protocol, our docs are not sure how we will proceed, but proceed and conquer we will.
Presley is feeling well enough for calls, skypes and visitors but we will be here through the weekend. Emotionally, she is wrecked right now. She doesn't want to be in here 10 more minutes, so another week is forever. Please keep that in mind if you would.
Thanks to all for the emails, blogs, calls, skypes, thoughts & prayers. They lift all of us up so high.
Love to all.
7/23/09 - 7/26/09: (Update from Eric) If you don't know from personal experience, the cancer battle is a roller coaster ride. Extreme highs, extreme lows and some twists and turns that make you want to puke your guts out. And that's just the cars with the people along for the ride.
Imagine the 11 year old child in the lead car ratcheting up the climb to look over the edge and plummet so far and so fast toward the valley below. She just hopes that the car and track she is on is safe and true and that when she exits at the end of the ride, she will be a better, healthier person that can look back on the experience and laugh. Pretty dramatic metaphor for the opening statement in the update, huh? That's where we are this weekend.
If you read Peri's update from last week, we were on a high for three straight weeks. Presley's stomach problems were behind us, her counts were climbing and she was back to the little girl we all know & love. Even when we went to the clinic on Friday, her counts were great and her spirits were high, even though she knew she had a 4-5 day hospital stay ahead of her. She had to have another lumbar puncture (spinal tap) and normally we do it in PACU where they put her under. This time PACU was overbooked (it's like the airlines) and we were the fourth alternate so there was NO chance we were getting in over there. So, we had to do it in the clinic under local anethesia. They call it twilight, because you are still awake, still experience everything but they give you a drug so you don't remember anything. It's kind of like three margaritas at Rico's.
She did great and we even got a room on our regular floor before 6:00 pm. Then the fun began. The treatment for this block was based on High Dose Methotrexate and ARAC (Cytarabine). HD Methotrexate is a potent drug that works especially well on leukemia and especially in the central nervous system. It basically gets in the blood cells and traps itself making it hard for the bad leukemia cells to fight it off and it explodes them. The plan is to pump it for 24 hours and then flush it for 24 hours and then chase it with a rescue drug called leucovorin. High doses of methotrexate are toxic and can't remain in the body for more than 48-72 hours without serious complications especially to the kidneys. As with most drugs, there are different reactions or non-reactions depending on the patient.
First of all, we didn't even "hang the chemo" until midnight. They had two chemo admissions plus Presley with our nurse and she couldn't keep up. Second, Presley's little body wasn't very condusive to the methotrexate treatment. It made her nauseas very quickly and she spent most of the night throwing up. In the morning, the diahrea began and to be honest has only recently subsided a little. The funny thing is: this was a good thing. It put the doctor on call on notice and he was very aware of her case and situation immediately.
As I have documented, there is always a revolving door of attending oncologists, residents, and nurses in hospitals. We are fortunate to get a GREAT one on this visit. Dr. Nabil Ahmed was a knight in shining armor this weekend. In fact, he probably saved Presley's life.
They began watching her creatinine almost immediately when she got sick. Creatinine measures your kidney function. When we did blood work in the clinic, the creatinine was 0.4. Normal range for an 11 year old, 60 pound girl is 0.2 to 1.2. During the methotrexate, they check blood chemistry every three hours. Her creatinine immediately went from 0.4 to 0.7 in the first three hours of treatment. Six hours later it was 0.9. This and her sickness was a cause for alarm. Dr. Nabil was constantly watching the numbers and communicated with us the whole time. About 3 PM, 15 hours into the treatment, he decided to cut it off. It was too dangerous to complete the dosage. At this point, they try to flush the drug out of her body with fluids & leucovorin. Unfortunately, her numbers continued to climb as the methotrexate built in her body. We really got alarmed when he paged Dr. Redell.
The creatinine peaked at 1.3 this afternoon and is at 1.2 at 10:00pm on Sunday night. If we would have continued the chemo, we would have been at extremely toxic levels. Beyond leucovorin, there is another emergency rescue drug for methotrexate. They ordered it, but it will not get here until Monday if she needs it. Dr. Nabil feels like she is out of the woods although he told us that it will not trend down as quickly as it trended up but he feels good that we got it in time and hopefully there will be no irreversible damage.
The question Peri-Ann had was: Now What? High Dose Methotrexate is a big part of our protocol and is consistent through the first year. Dr. Redell visited us today and she really doesn't know at this point either. I asked her if any of her other patients have had this issue and she said "this is the 2nd in 8 years @ TCH." She will consult with the group on Monday. Figures. I hope Presley takes up softball when she gets well. She can hit a curveball out of the park.
So right now, the game plan is to continue to flush the methotrexate out of her system and then determine if we continue this block of chemo or let her rest. We are at TCH for at least a couple more days. Please don't try to visit at this time. She is asleep most of the time and doesn't feel well when she is awake.
Thank you for all of the thoughts, prayers, emails, blogs and calls.
Love to everyone.
7/18/09 - 7/22/09: (Update from Peri) FUN, FOOD, FAMILY & FRIENDS!!.........that is exactly how you would describe our past weekend. After the great #'s we received on Friday, (a little crazy how our lives revolve around a bunch of #'s), this meant we were able to have her out and about and around other people with little worries. So our weekend ended up fun-fill and fast-paced.
Friday Afternoon: Meredith, Presley's step-aunt, came into town to visit and bring Presley a wonderful surprise from her pool party that she had the previous weekend in her honor. Put it this way, they went on a HUGE shopping spree Monday:-)
Friday Evening: We met the Bortmess family for dinner with live music, had a wonderful time and ended up closing down the restaurant.
Saturday Afternoon: TEAM PRESLEY HAS MADE IT ON NATIONAL TV We were watching the Pro Celebrity Golf Tourn and noticed that Billy Joe Tolliver (who previously played in the NFL and was a QB @ Texas Tech for Papa) was wearing a Team Presley bracelet. She thought that was so COOL - we kept rewinding to make sure (TEVO for all you men). Later that afternoon we went to the Palameros, with the Bortmess family, went swimming, ate brisket and burgers, listened to guitar and singing - Britney you are awesome!!
Sunday Afternoon: Met the Thomas family over at the Beards for a cookout and swimming - it was so good to see our Wonderful Friends from Fort Worth, hangout with the Beards and see Noreen & Bob. As Presley was floating on the raft, wearing sunglasses and being served a coke float - her dad officially renamed her "Princess Paris". She had a fabulous time hanging out with all the kiddos.
Sunday Evening: We finished off our fun weekend with seeing our great neighbors the Schards.
So, needless to say, it was a big weekend, and I think it all finally caught up with her on Monday evening. She started to have some pain in her feet (really hard to explain because I really don't understand) but it is causing issues with her walking - she tells us its like needles poking all over the bottom of her feet and toes. Eric called the doctor and she told him it could be a side effect and if there is no fever, swelling, or redness to try to treat with Tylenol. We have been doing the Tylenol and seems to ease the pain a bit.
Today we went and had her braces taken off. We have been asked to do this since her diagnoses but seemed to have had things come up every time we had it scheduled. The reason for the removal is because one of the major side effects of our next round of chemo is mouth sores. So, here I go with the info on next round - I'm by no means as detailed as Eric with all this but will get it my best shot.
Next Round - Friday, July 24th - Consolidation Block 2
We will go in Friday to get port accessed, normal blood work and see if blood or platelets are needed Then go down to PACU for chemo to be injected into the spine (yes, she is put under out for this). The chemos in this injection are Cytarabine, Methotrexate, & Hydrocortisone. Finally, hopefully sooner than later, we will be admitted for a 3-4 day stay. This round she will receive 2 different types of chemo IV's (Cytarabine &
Leucovorin) and then a peg shot on the final day. Hopefully back home by Monday for another couple of weeks to let her body rest and recover.
Once again, we cannot began to tell everyone how much we sincerely appreciate all the calls, text, emails, cards, love and support we receive on a daily basis. Please keep her in your prayers this weekend that her body will be able to accept this round with no complications.
Much love to you all!
7/13/09 - 7/17/09: (Update from Eric) Well, if there is ever such a thing as a great day at a cancer clinic, then we had it today!!! Presley, Piper & I went to the clinic this morning to check blood counts and get an echo cardiogram on her heart. Pres is really starting to learn the ropes at the clinic. We checked in and then waited back in the infusion room. We were paged to Band-Aid Junction quickly and she got her blood drawn out of her arm and they didn't access port. Veronica "The Vampire" was great and told Piper she wanted some of her blood too. Piper said no and Veronica said, "OK, then let me bite your neck".
Presley also brought 10 blankets from Grammy to give out to kids that are cold or upset and want a soft, warm blanket. Veronica said she would handle that with pride. After that, we headed back to the infusion room. The three of us were playing an intense game of "Trouble" when Dr. Redell sat down with us.
Counts This Week:
Hemoglobin (Red): 10.2 which is on the low side but no need for a transfusion.
White: 10.5 which is in the normal range. WAHOO!!! That's the highest it has been since diagnosis.
Platelets: 213 which is normal. Another WAHOO!!!
ANC: 7240 which is AWESOME. She has a healthy blood stream this week.
Sodium was 139 and we have been backing off a little on her pills. Rock On!!
Dr. Redell was pleasantly surprised and excited for her. We talked about next week and then she wished us a good weekend. We actually stayed and finished the game of Trouble. Piper got 1st, Presley 2nd and I got the bronze.
Our echo was scheduled for 2:30 so we had the nurse call and see if they could work us in. Bingo!!! They could fit us in now. We rushed over to the hospital and waited about 15 minutes and Presley got to go back. Out of there by 11:30 - a new record.
So we headed to Mom's office and told her the good news. Then we ate some pizza, stopped by my office and went to Ice Age 3: Dawn of the Dinosaurs.
Pretty Darn Good Day!!!
We go back in the hospital next weekend for the 2nd Block of Consolidation. Should only be a 3-4 day stay. I will give everyone the low down later on this weekend.
Thanks for all the thoughts, prayers, emails, texts, cards and calls. Love to everyone!!!!!!
7/10/09 - 7/12/09 (Update from Eric) What a great weekend! Presley is back to the fun loving kid we all know and love. She went to the clinic Friday w/ Peri & only had to do a blood draw. Her counts were great!! They told her her counts and she asked "Can we go home?" They said yes and she said "We're out of here Mom". They didn't even have to access her port.
Grammy was here this weekend, so everyone knows what that means - Extreme Home Makeover. Presley called me Friday afternoon and said she had a surprise for me. I knew it had to be something with her room. Pres' room was the first one painted when we moved in. I always describe it as "It Looks like a Pimp Threw Up!!" Hot Pink and Zebra Stripes. Now, we have added an aqua marine wall and aqua marine stripes on pink to the mix. Holy Cow. I will admit, I experimented with the mind-altering stuff in college and NEVER saw colors like this together.
We spent Saturday at the Schard's with Tyke & Jamie Posey. Presley swam and ate like a horse. It was a blast. Today, we had surf & turf (steak & crab) with the Schard's and the Roobaert's. Preston was awesome on Wii American Idol - Eye of the Tiger. He has skills no one ever knew. Grammy goes home Tuesday and life will be back to normal.
Thanks to everyone for all the blogs, thoughts, emails & prayers.
7/6/09 - 79/09: (Update from Eric) Home, Sweet, Home.
Presley was able to come home Tuesday night after her treatment in Texas Children's. She had 5 straight days of IV chemotherapy and handled it well without any stomach issues. She is in great spirits and is actually the girl we all know and love. Although she gets tired easily, she has her wit and is her usual head strong self (especially when we ask her to take pills). Providing she stays fever &/or infection free, she will have a couple of weeks off to recover and build her blood counts. She must be doing well because the gaggle of doctors that flow through her room in the hospital don't really have anything to say.
I have documented the rotation of doctors, oncologists and interns that we have seen and endured in the past 50 days. What is amazing to me is that I have a couple of interns reporting to me at Shell. They are great, smart kids that have a GPA in college that my four cumulative GPA's would not equal. However, I would not throw them in front of the buyers at AutoZone today to determine our future for the next year. In the hospital, interns are under the supervision of oncologists that have the final word, but there are instances that interns get to call the shots. We have had a few run-ins with them and it hasn't been good. Everyone wants to make their mark in the world, but it isn't going to be with my daughter. Point of this story -- always be the advocate for your child.
One of the amazing things about Presley is her sense of humor. Obviously, in this family, she has to have tough skin. Everyone (Daddy, Mommy, Papa, Uncle Greg) hack on everyone. All is fair game. She has been a trooper and is probably tougher because of her sense of humor.
She has lost all of her hair. For three weeks, it bothered her horribly. Every time she ran a brush through her hair, pulled out a pony tail holder, or woke up from a nap, she last large amounts of hair. I would wrap tape around my hand and dab all of the hair off her pillow and bed. It broke her heart. Two weeks ago, she took control and asked Ms. Madora to shave her head. I think it was a huge relief to not worry about it anymore. It took forever for her to grow hair and now she is back to where she was at 3 years old -- Still Beautiful. I called her "Sprout" in the hospital because she has a few hairs growing back. Last night, I called her "Benjamin Button" and she said "I like Sprout better".
If you haven't seen or heard, I shaved my head in support. Not to the scalp, but the shortest it has ever been. Truth be told, I felt like a hypocrite. I am trying to console my daughter who is going through treatment & losing her hair, that it will grow back and not to worry about it. All the while, I am washing, drying, and styling my own hair. Time for a change. I told the chick at Great Clips, "This is the easiest $15 bucks you will ever make." Presley loved it.
Back to her sense of humor. As most of you know, I am quite the humorist and my kids are no strangers to my wit. At the hospital on Monday, we had a nurse for the day that we truly love. Debbie was our very first nurse in the hospital, Canadian and extremely engaging and thoughtful. Presley & I were doing laps the other morning and Debbie noticed her bad posture. She was hunched over like a little old woman. Debbie told her to please pull her shoulders back and walk straight because she didn't want her to hurt her back. I told her "it also makes your boobs look bigger" and explained that her last boyfriend broke up with her for a girl with bigger boobs. Most kids would be mortified. Not Pres. She was embarrassed but laughed about it and gave me a hug.
She goes back to the clinic tomorrow for blood work only. Her counts will be down but she is recovering well and is in "kick it" mode.
Thanks for all the thoughts, emails, notes, calls and prayers. We read and appreciate each and every one. Love to all.
7/2/09 - 7/5/09:
(Update from Eric) It's strange how you can make something out of nothing......
On Thursday morning, we took Presley for her scheduled visit to TCH Clinic to get a Lumbar Puncture (spinal tap) and then be admitted to the hospital for the Consolidation I block of treatment. As you have read from Alicia's update on Thursday, she had a pretty good week and a really good day on Wednesday. When we left Alicia, Jordan, Ashley, and Debbie @ Lupe Tortilla's, she was pretty emotional and didn't want the fun to be over. It was difficult for her to face going back into the hospital after such an up week.
We arrived at the Clinic and she got the Port-a-Cath accessed for the first time. We were new at this and no one had given us guidance. They called her back to "Band-Aid Junction" where they get your vitals and blood work. No one had given us any numbing cream to put on prior to coming to the clinic. It is good stuff but takes about 30 minutes to have any effect so, we had to go with the cold spray. Presley was very nervous and her port was very sore from last week's surgery.
Mommy with her weak stomach around needles had to excuse herself so Dad had to step up. They prepped her with cold spray and accessed the port. Other than being sore, I don't think Presley even felt it. The procedure reminded me of using an air needle to air up a basketball. She even hugged the nurse when they were through with the dressing.
Once accessed, her normal blood draws were completed and then we met with Dr. Redell. I'm not sure she had ever met this version of Presley. She was upbeat, funny and polite. We discussed the bone marrow situation and Pres said she wasn't surprised they weren't a match since she & Piper were like black & white.
Her counts were good reflecting a recovering bone marrow. We discussed the next few days of treatment and then she sent us to wait for PACU and the LP.
While we were waiting in the infusion room, she approached us with an older, distinguished looking doctor and introduced us to Dr. Poplack. He is the head of oncology at Texas Children's Hospital. Thank you, Kathleen Casey. When we were first diagnosed, she pulled out all of her contacts and went straight to the top of TCH to Dr. Poplack. He was out of town but made sure that his Lieutenant came by and made sure everything was OK. Now the big guy was checking up personally on us. I'm not sure if there is any direct effect on Presley's care, but it always good to know the name of the big guy and have the staff on their toes.
We headed down to PACU and got the LP and Pres was awake by the time we got to recovery. She was jonesing french fries when she woke up. It's amazing how quickly you become accustomed to things. This was her 4th LP and now it seems like everyday living to her.
I have documented before that there are no guarantees when it comes to appointments, procedures and admissions. We had been scheduled to be admitted for over a week and guess what - NO ROOM AVAILABLE on 9. Being the holiday weekend, you would think that it would be no problem, but you would be wrong. So for 3 hours we hung out in the Clinical PACU and then they moved us to the West Tower to their Surgical PACU to wait even longer. We were hanging out with three & four year olds that got their tonsils out. Finally, around 6:00pm we got a room at our home, sweet, home - 9th Floor.
After we got situated, it took awhile for our nurses (Lori & Rich) to hook up with us. There were three admissions at the same time as shift change, so they were running around like crazy. We were in no hurry and Pres was feeling well so we were happy to just hang out and watch TV. Since we were admitted so late though, Pres didn't start chemo until 9:30pm.
This block of treatment contains 2 major drugs that attack the leukemia - etoposide & ifosfimide. Etoposide has the potential of a side effect that puts patients into anaphylactic shock (similar to someone who is allergic to bees and gets stung). So they take vitals before they start, and then every 15 minutes during the push. Presley was fortunate and no side effects occured but they kept waking her and taking vitals until 11:00pm. Ifosfimide is another leukemia drug and it also has a side effect that could attack the bladder. So, they have to give another drug called MESNA that will protect the bladder. That drug must be administered EVERY 3 HOURS. Hello, sleep deprivation.
I must tell you that our nurse Rich was fantastic. He has been @ TCH and on this floor for 7 years, unheard of for this type of treatment. You could tell he was the experienced veteran of the staff. There were several times he was approached by other nurses and asked about issues with their patients. He informed us that two years is about max for a nurse to stay in this area. It is very stressful physically and 10 times worse emotionally.
OK. I just realized I am writing the War & Peace of pbkicksit.com updates. Sorry, it was a busy weekend. 3 more stories and then I'm out.
1.) It's amazing how small the world has become the last 40 years. Friday morning, I headed to the Family Lounge on the 9th floor which is sponsored by Ronald McDonald House to get ice & water. As I am standing there at the ice machine, I noticed the RMH volunteer cleaning up the sink area. I turn around and Holy Cow, I know this kid - Jarrett Hubert. We met about two weeks before Pres' diagnosis @ Debbie & Preston's Cinco de Mayo party in Katy. He told me he had heard about Presley from Preston and had been keeping up with her progress on the website. Get this kid (under 30) - he works for Apache Corp and volunteers @ TCH every Saturday morning for RMH & is also involved with the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Even better than that, he was going out of town for the weekend and came in on Friday because he was going to miss his Saturday assignment. When I was his age, I couldn't even spell volunteer.
Anyway, he came by the room, said hi to Presley & Peri & brought her some breakfast that had been donated. I have always known I wasted my youth - Jarrett just proved it Friday.
Jarrett - Thanks for the breakfast and spending your time doing something very worthwhile.
2.) Fourth of July -- We spent Independence Day with our friends Debbie & Preston. They came by TCH around 2:00pm and Preston & I headed out to see "The Hangover". Guys, if you have 2 hours to spend, spend it laughing your a$$off at this movie. After the movie, we relieved Debbie & Peri and watched "The Express" with Presley in the room. Little did I know that Ernie Davis died of leukemia at age 23. Pres' only reaction was "Wow, he had the same thing as me"
Debbie & Peri-Ann brought back dinner and then we watched the entire fireworks show from room 914. I have seen fireworks of some sort on every Fourth of July for the past 30-35 years, but I will never forget this one. I will never forget my beautiful, bald headed daughter sitting cross-legged on the couch in a hospital room, watching the colors above the skyline of Houston. It was perfect!!!
Also, my favorite band in the whole world - The Blue Johnnies - came out of retirement and dedicated their performance to Presley. I wish I could have been there!! Thanks Jones & Sorrels!!!
3.) Marinol -- So, I have documented that Presley has had some serious problems with nausea throughout her first month of treatment. Two weeks of true hell were due to C-Diph and we finally got past that once diagnosed. This block of treatment consists of totally new drugs and we had no idea of her body's reaction to them. The afternoon after the first dose, she got sick so we gave her some phenagren. Good stuff but it makes her sleepy and she slept most of the afternoon and evening.
Friday night, we got behind on the sodium tablets so she took about 8 grams of salt before the treatment. I'm sure it was equivalent to drinking sea water and she got sick again. So we vowed to get ahead of it for the rest of the treatment.
We were prescribed Marinol during our last stint but it didn't have much effect due to the C-Diph infection. Our nurse Alicia suggested we give it another shot.
Now, for those of you who don't know, Marinol is a drug derived from THC - a derivative of marijuana. I have no feelings regarding marijuana usage one way or another, but if it makes my girl feel like a human being again, I will start growing it myself. So, we give her a dose of Marinol this morning to get ahead of the nausea that usually comes during this time. Nothing. She feels goods. No nausea, and we all watch an EPIC Wimbledon match between Roddick & Federer.
I leave to go home and get clothes for work tomorrow and come back with dinner around 6:00pm. She has had dose # 2.
Wow - she really is my kid. She is goofy beyond belief. She if giggling her butt off and munching down on chicken strips and mashed potatoes. Then she slams about three cookies and a Dr. Pepper. It's a miniature version of me @ 3am on a Saturday night after ten beers. We will probably have to closely control this stuff at home, or she will be calling her buddies and throwing parties while we are at work.
She just received dose 4 of 5 of the Etopiside. One more tomorrow (Monday) night and then she gets an immune boosting injection on Tuesday night. If all goes well, they will discharge her Wednesday morning. Then 2-3 weeks to recover and get counts back up.
All in all, a pretty good holiday weekend considering the circumstances. Friends, Fireworks and Munchies.
Thanks again for all the thoughts, prayers, cards, gifts, emails and texts. We are eternally grateful for all you.
7/1/09: (Update from Alicia Thomas) My girls and I made a last minute decision to pile into the car at 5:00 a.m. to drive from DFW to Spring to see Presley the day before she starts her new treatment phase. Jordan was Presley's BFF when they lived in Keller. They met through the cheer team and spent most weekends at one or the other's house driving us all crazy. It always amazed us that Presley and Jordan would get so upset at the end of the weekend when they each had to go home, knowing that they would see each other during practice the very next day. Despite the distance, these two have remained good friends.
We made our first trip to see Presley in mid-June when she was in the hospital with the salt and stomach issues. Jordan and I along with my sister Beth and her two girls, Alex and Abby, spent the day with her in the hospital. Presley was very sick and was not in the social frame of mind. We spent most of our time visiting with Peri and Eric and being observers of the process to fight leukemia. It was a heavy battle day for Presley and our role was to keep her weapons loaded with any support she needed - rubbing her legs or back, getting her things she needed, drying her tears and giving her words of encouragement. The car was very quiet that evening as I drove with Jordan back to DFW. "Mom. I was not a very good friend today. I did not know what to do." This trip put a face to the disease for us and Jordan was not sure how to manage it.
Today, we walk into the house at 8:45 a.m. to Presley's famous "Hello" - loud and clear coming from the couch. She bounced right up and ran over to give hugs. It was immediate relief for all of us to see that smiley face and listen to her silly ramblings. And it was in that very second that the disease was non-existent replaced by pre-teen giggles and babbles. Jordan and Pesley went right back to where they were before ALL with Ashley (15 and turning 16 in 6 days - yes we count) still playing the role of the older sister.
The girls all piled onto the couch and watched TV talking about all of their favorite shows. Eventually, hunger set in and we headed to Cracker Barrel for brunch. We ate, played checkers and shopped for candy and silly toys. We then headed to Michael's craft store for necessary supplies. We spent the rest of the day turning ordinary duct tape (well, duct tape in lots of unordinary colors) into fashionable accessories such as wallets, bracelets and book marks. We decorated flip flops with tons of bling. Ashley led a mani/pedi session with bright colors and polka dots on hands and feet. Jordan and Presley locked themselves away to watch movies in Presley's room. We ended the evening with dinner at Presley's favorite mexican food restaurant joined by Peri's close friend, Debbie.
We left that night to head back to DFW with the same goodbye tears we have always had. The ride back was quiet largely because it had been a long and tiring day for the girls. This quiet time was different. Each of us thinking through our favorite thoughts of the day. "Mom. Today was the best day. I know what to do now. I just need to be her friend."
6/30/09: (email from Eric) Pres had another good day today and is getting stronger and feeling better. She has one more day of normal life until we start the Consolidation I Phase of Treatment.
I don’t think we have told anyone yet, but neither Piper, Peri-Ann nor I met the criteria to be a bone marrow match. Peri-Ann was the closest matching 4 out of the 6 criteria while Piper & I matched only 3. This was very disconcerting to me, as I always say Piper is Peri’s kid because of the way she acts. Doesn’t look that way genetically. After we received this news, Dr. Redell came by and discussed our new roadmap for treatment over the next couple of years. We will continue the AALL0031 Protocol with chemotherapy treatment including Gleevec until we are cancer free. Since we have had early success, she was positive about the treatment.
The news about the Bone Marrow criteria reminded me to thank Alicia for providing the info on the site and thank those who have requested the kit. If it is that difficult to match your own child or sibling, then the world needs as many donor registrations as possible for Presley and other kids in her situation.
On Thursday, we go back to TCH and begin Consolidation I. This is a 21 day course of treatment where the first 6 require hospitalization. She will be getting another LP (Lumbar Puncture) on Thursday morning and then will be admitted for 5 days of IV chemotherapy. This is pretty potent stuff and she must be monitored for any extreme side effects. After completing the chemo, she will receive immune booster injection and then be off chemo (other than Gleevec) for the rest of the days 6-21.
Her counts will again be knocked down but we hope to be out of the hospital within 6-7 days. She will need recovery time at home and will neutrapenic, so we will keep you updated and let you know about visits, etc. After Day 21 providing her counts are up, we will begin Consolidation II.
When we get to Consolidation II, I will give specifics, but now I want to give you a timeline on our Roadmap. We are only on Day 40 of this journey but are literally barely out of the starting gate. We begin our second phase of treatment tomorrow but our time line is much longer until we claim her cancer free. Below are the next blocks of treatment and timelines for each block.
Consolidation II -- 21 Day Treatment similar to Consolidation I.
ReInduction I -- 21 Day Treatment similar to what she just finished.
Intensification I -- 9 Week Treatment introducing new drug and combination of Consolidation I & II.
Reinduction II -- Another 21 Day Treatment.
Intensification II – Final 9 week treatment before we go to Maintenance.
For those of you counting at home, that is 27 weeks of intense chemotherapy, not including time off to recover from each phase. In other words, her boat is loaded for a while. Maintenance Blocks 1-4 & 5-12 are 8 week treatment cycles. These will be less intense the further along we progress but this is still another 96 weeks of treatment.
I tell you this not to discourage you or Presley, but to beg you to continue your thoughts and prayers for her. Her road is a long one. Each and every thought, prayer and gesture is immensely helpful and we are eternally grateful.
If you have a moment, please send her a note over the holiday weekend. She does love to hear from everyone.
Thanks for all of your love and friendship.
6/29/09: Hey everyone it is me, Presley!!! I will be giving you the update today because the past 2 days I surprisingly have flet a whloe lot better. Now I also have not taken a nap the past 2 days so I been kind of tired but not really, but today I took a nap so I caught up. I am really annoyed with my dad right now because of MICHEAL JACKSON and I don't know if you know I think he is a Super Freak He's Super Freaky Owww. LOL. But now he won't stop singing his song beat it so I have to listen to it 24-7. It gets really annoying. So anyway back to how